Chapter 1
Po-Lin
Renia
OCTOBER 1924
On Friday, October 10, 1924, as the Jews of JÄdrzejĂłw were settling in for their Sabbath eve, shutting shops, closing tills, boiling, chopping, frying, Moshe Kukielka rushed from his store. His family home at 16 Klasztorna (Monastery) Street was a small stone structure on a verdant main road, just around the bend from a magnificent medieval abbey known for its turquoise and gilded interior. Tonight the house was particularly abuzz. As sunset approached, the orange autumn light bleeding red into the lush valleys and rolling hills of the Kielce region, the Kukielkasâ oven heated, their spoons clanged, their stove hissed, and the church bells formed their usual backdrop to the familyâs Yiddish and Polish clatter. And then, a new sound: a babyâs first wail.
Moshe and Leah were both modern and observant, as were their three older children. They engaged in Polish culture and celebrated Jewish traditions. Moshe was used to hurrying home or to a shtiebel (prayer house) for the Shabbat meal and prayers, walking briskly through the open town square, with its rows of pastel-colored buildings, passing Jewish merchants and Christian farmers who lived and worked side by side. This week, he rushed even more hastily through the cool fall air. Traditionally, candles were lit and Shabbat itself was welcomed as a bride into the home, but that day Moshe had a new guest to greet. An even better one.
And then he arrived to find her: his third daughter, who immediately became the shiny apple of his discerning eye. Rivka in Hebrew, a name whose roots have various meanings, including connection, union, and even captivating. In the Bible, Rivka was one of the four matriarchs of the Jewish people. Of course, in this partly assimilated family, the baby also had a Polish name: Renia. The name Kukielka resembles the Polish Kukieloâthe surname of family who for generations had run the local funeral home. Jews often constructed last names by adding winsome endings such as -ka to Polish names. Kukielka means âmarionette.â
It was 1924, just a year after the new Poland was finally recognized by the international community and had its boundaries set, following years of occupation, partitioning, and constantly fluctuating borders. (As the old Jewish joke went, a man asks whether his town is now in Polish or Soviet territory. Heâs told, âThis year, weâre in Poland.â âThank goodness!,â the man exclaims. âI simply could not take another Russian winter.â) The economy was afloat, and though most Jews in JÄdrzejĂłw lived below the poverty line, Moshe succeeded as a small businessman, running a gallenteria shop that sold buttons, clothing, and sewing supplies. He raised a middle-class family and exposed them to music and literature. Their Shabbat table, set that week by the Kukielkasâ older two daughters and relatives while Leah was otherwise occupied, served up the delicacies of the day, which Moshe was able to afford: sweet liquor, ginger cake, chopped liver with onions, cholent (a slow-cooked beans and meat potage), potato and sweet noodle kugel pudding, compote of plums and apples, and tea. Leahâs gefilte fish, offered most Fridays, would become Reniaâs favorite. No doubt, the meal was extra festive this week.
Sometimes traits of personality are visible, even unmistakable, in the earliest hours of existence; psychologies stamped on the soul. Itâs possible that Moshe knew when he first held herâinfusing her with his gentleness, intelligence, and incisivenessâthat his spirit would carry her forward on journeys a person in 1924 could scarcely imagine. Itâs possible he knew then that his little Renia, with the big green eyes, light-brown hair, and delicate faceâhis little, captivating marionetteâwas born to perform.
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JÄdrzejĂłw was a shtetl, Yiddish for âsmall city,â and a word that referred to Polish market towns with significant Jewish populations. Reniaâs birth added one to the 4,500 Jews in the village, who composed almost 45 percent of the population. (Her younger siblings, Aaron, Esther, and Yaacov, or little Yankel, would soon add three more.) The Jewish community, established in the 1860s when Jews were finally allowed to settle in the region, was largely poor. Most Jews worked as traveling salesmen, peddlers, and small business owners with shops on or around the breezy market square. The rest were mainly artisans: shoemakers, bakers, carpenters. JÄdrzejĂłw was not as modern as BÄdzin, which bordered on Germany and the West, but even here a small number of elite locals were doctors, emergency medical workers, and teachers; one Jew was a judge. About 10 percent of the townâs Jews were wealthy and owned timber mills, flour mills, and mechanical workshops, as well as property on the main square.
As in the rest of Poland, modern Jewish culture flourished as Renia grew into a child of the 1930s. At that time, Warsaw alone had a staggering 180 Jewish newspapers: 130 in Yiddish, 25 in Hebrew, and 25 in Polish. Accordingly, dozens of magazine subscriptions passed through the JÄdrzejĂłw post office. The local Jewish population grew. Different prayer houses were established to suit various flavors of Judaism. Even in that small town, three Jewish bookstores, a publishing house, and Jewish libraries opened; drama groups and literary readings proliferated; political parties boomed.
Reniaâs father was engaged in Jewish learning and charitable endeavors, feeding the poor, tending to the dead with the chevra kadisha burial society, and serving as a local cantor. He voted Zionist. The religious Zionists honored writer Theodor Herzlâs nineteenth-century ideals, believing that a true and open Jewish existence could be achieved only in a homeland where Jews were first-class citizens, in Palestine. Poland may have been their home for centuries, but it was temporary. Moshe dreamt of one day moving his family to âthe promised land.â
The parties organized lectures and political rallies. One can imagine Renia accompanying her beloved, bearded father to one of the large and increasingly popular Zionist town meetings, like a talk on âThe Struggle for a Jewish Palestine,â on May 18 1937. Clad in her Polish schoolgirl white-and-navy-blue âsailorâ suit, pleated skirt, and knee-high socks, forever a lover of promenades, Renia clasped Mosheâs hand as they marched past the two new Zionist libraries to the lively gathering where hundreds of Jews debated and discussedâriled by questions of belonging. As Poles negotiated their new identities in their newly stabilized homeland, so did Jews. How did they fit into this novel country, a place where they had lived continually for more than a thousand years, yet were never truly considered Polish? Were they Polish first or Jewish first? The modern question of Diaspora identity was at a fever pitch, especially due to rapidly rising antisemitism.
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Moshe and Leah Kukielka prized education. The country saw a mass influx of Jewish schools: secular Hebrew schools, Yiddish prep schools, single-sex religious schools. Of JÄdrzejĂłwâs four hundred Jewish children, one hundred studied at a charity Talmud Torah, a Jewish nursery, or the local branch of the Beit Yaakov girlsâ elementary school, where students wore long sleeves and stockings. For reasons of proximityâand because religious education was costly and often reserved for sons onlyâRenia, like many Jewish girls, attended Polish public school.
No matter. She was at the top of her class of thirty-five. Renia had mainly Catholic friends and spoke fluent Polish in the schoolyard. Unbeknownst to her at time, this cultural immersion, including her capacity to banter in the national tongue without a Jewish-sounding accent, would be her most critical training for the underground. But while Renia excelled and assimilated, she was not entirely included. At a ceremony when she was called up to receive an academic award, a classmate threw a pencil case at her forehead, leaving a lasting impressionâliterally. So, was she in or was she out? She personally straddled the centuries-old hurdle: the âPolish Jewish identityâ question.
Since its foundation, Poland was evolving. With ever-changing geographical boundaries, its ethnic composition varied as new communities folded into its borders. Medieval Jews migrated to Poland because it was a safe haven from western Europe, where they were persecuted and expelled. Jews were relieved to arrive in this tolerant land with economic opportunity. âPolin,â the Hebrew name for the country, comprises âPoâ and âLin,â and means âHere, we stay.â Polin offered relative freedom and safety. A future.
A coin from the early twelve hundreds, on display at the POLIN Museum of the History of Polish Jews in Warsaw, shows Hebrew letters. Already, Yiddish-speaking Jews were a large minority, integral to Polandâs economy, working as bankers, bakers, and bailiffs. Early Poland was a republic, its constitution ratified around the same time as Americaâs. Royal power was curtailed by a parliament elected by the small noble class. Jewish communities and nobles had mutual arrangements: the gentry protected the Jews who settled in their towns and gave them autonomy and religious freedom; in turn, Jews paid high taxes and carried out economic activities forbidden for Christian Poles, such as loaning and borrowing capital at interest.
The 1573 Warsaw Confederation was the first document in Europe to legally mandate religious tolerance. But as much as Jews were officially integrated into Polish culture and shared philosophies, folklore, and styles of dress, food, and music, they also felt different, threatened. Many Poles resented Jewsâ economic freedom. Jews subleased whole towns from nobles, and Polish serfs begrudged the rule of their Jewish landlords. The Catholic Church disseminated the hateful and absurd falsehood that Jews murdered Christiansâespecially babiesâin order to use their blood for religious rituals. This led to attacks on Jews, with occasional periods of wide-scale riots and murder. The Jewish community became close-knit, seeking strength in its customs. A âpush-pullâ relationship existed between Jews and Poles, their cultures developing in relation to the other. Take, for instance, the braided challah: the soft, egg-rich bread and holy symbol of the Jewish Sabbath. This loaf is also a Polish chalka and a Ukrainian kalachâitâs impossible to know which version came first. The traditions developed simultaneously, societies tangled, joined under a (bitter)sweet gloss.
In the late seventeen hundreds, however, Poland broke down. Its government was unstable, and the country was simultaneously invaded by Germany, Austria, and Russia, then divided into three partsâeach one ruled by a captor that imposed its own customs. Poles remained united by a nationalist longing, and maintained their language and literature. Polish Jews changed under their occupiers: the German ones learned the Saxon language and developed into an educated middle class, while the Austrian-ruled (Galician) Jews suffered from terrible poverty. The majority of Jews came to be governed by Russia, an empire that forced economic and religious decrees on the largely working-class population. The borders shifted, too. For example, JÄdrzejĂłw first belonged to Galicia; then Russia took it over. Jews felt on edgeâin particular, financially, as changing laws affected their livelihoods.
During World War I, Polandâs three occupiers battled each other on home ground. Despite hundreds of thousands of lost lives and a decimated economy, Poland was victorious: the Second Republic was established. United Poland needed to rebuild both its cities and its identity. The political landscape was bifurcated, the long-honed nationalist longing expressed in contradictory ways. On the one side were nostalgic monarchists who called for reestablishing the pluralistic Poland of old: Poland as a state of nations. (Four in ten citizens of the new country were minorities.) The other side, however, envisioned Poland as a nation-stateâan ethnic nation. A nationalistic movement that advocated for purebred Polishness grew quickly. This partyâs entire platform was concerned with slandering Polish Jews, who were blamed for the countryâs poverty and political problems. Poland had never recovered from World War I or its subsequent conflicts with its neighbors; Jews were accused of siding with the enemy. This right-wing party promoted a new Polish identity that was specifically defined as ânot the Jew.â Generations of residency, not to mention formal equal rights, made no difference. As espoused by Nazi racial theory, which this party adopted giddily, a Jew could never be a Pole.
The central government instituted a Sunday-Rest law and discriminated against Jews in public employment policies, but its leadership was unstable. Just a few years later, in a 1926 coup dâĂ©tat, Poland was taken over by JĂłzef PiĆsudski, an unusual mix of monarchist and socialist. The former general and statesman championed a multiethnic land, and although he did not particularly help the Jews, they felt safer under his semiauthoritarian rule than under representative governm...