The 4 Wills of God

The Way He Directs Our Steps and Frees Us to Direct Our Own

Emerson Eggerichs

• Publisher: B&H Books
• Year: 2018
• ISBN:
  9781462743742
• Topic: Theology & Religion
• Subtopic: Religion

Should you take the job? Quit the job? Begin a relationship? End a relationship? Move? Plant roots? How do we find God's will for life's big decisions? What if you had total freedom? Emerson Eggerichs believes there is a clear answer to finding God's will. The Bible itself reveals the clue--a secret hidden in plain sight. Before launching his Love & Respect marriage ministry with wife Sarah, Emerson was a senior pastor for nearly 20 years in East Lansing Michigan. Before that, Emerson and a friend ran a free counseling center called "The Open Door" in Cedar Rapids, Iowa. As Emerson navigated his career he found both he and the people he was counseling were wrestling with big decisions and knowing if that decision was really what God wanted. Immersing himself in God's word for over 30 hours a week for 19 years, he discovered simple, clear truths that set him and many others free. There is a starting point to discovering God's Will for your next decision and for your entire life. Begin here to read stories of people in the same situations you face today. You'll be able to discover the freedom you've been searching for, and then, like Emerson, you'll help others find that freedom too.

Chapter 1

Discovering God’s Will

God Has a Will

Since some variation of the words “the will of God” or the “Father’s will” occur more than twenty times in the New Testament, it is fair to assume “the will of God” exists and can be known. The apostle Paul commands us to “understand what the will of the Lord is” (Ephesians 5:17). Jesus uses the expression when He addresses God with the words, “Your will be done” in what has come to be known as the Lord’s Prayer (Matthew 6:10). Yes, God has a will that we must discover and do from the heart.

Paul declared “the whole purpose of God” (Acts 20:27). There is a body of content between Genesis and Revelation that squarely applies to the church. In less than thirty-six months, Paul taught the Christ-followers this “whole purpose.”

We read in Jude 3, “the faith . . . was once for all handed down to the saints.” There are boundaries to this content. In fact, Paul warned: “learn not to exceed what is written” (1 Corinthians 4:6).

Epaphras was “always laboring earnestly . . . in his prayers” for the Colossians, that they might “stand perfect and fully assured in all the will of God” (Colossians 4:12). Unfortunately, we can know and do just part of God’s will.

How important is it to learn the whole purpose of God and do it from the heart?

Consider Jesus’ words in Matthew 7:21: “Not everyone who says to Me, ‘Lord, Lord,’ will enter the kingdom of heaven, but he who does the will of My Father who is in heaven will enter.” Later, He adds, “For whoever does the will of My Father who is in heaven, he is My brother and sister and mother” (Matthew 12:50). John further emphasizes the importance of God’s will when he declares, “the one who does the will of God lives forever” (1 John 2:17). Doing the will of God, therefore, not only reveals our relationship to God, but it is also related to our eternal destiny. Concerning eternity, the writer of Hebrews states, “Therefore, do not throw away your confidence, which has a great reward. For you have need of endurance, so that when you have done the will of God, you may receive what was promised” (Hebrews 10:35–36).

From Jesus and the apostles we learn that the will of God never ranks second to anything. For this reason, all of us should be asking, “What is God’s will?”

Most of the time when people ask, “What is God’s will for my life?” they have in mind a specific concern: career, love relationships, finances, etc. Rarely do people simply ask, “What is God’s will, His whole purpose, to which the Bible refers?” The difference between these two questions is crucial to finding God’s will for you. I believe that if you start by asking the second question—“What is God’s will?”—you will likely discern the answer to the first question, “What is God’s will for my life?”

The question, “What is God’s will for my life?” considers what I refer to as the unique will of God for me. The question, “What is God’s will?” explores what I call the universal will of God for all believers. I contend that the best way to know God’s unique will is to know and follow His universal will for all believers, and this book is about four universal wills of God, which serve as a great starting point, as I referenced in the Introduction.

God’s Universal Will

The apostle John describes how following the universal leads to the unique. First John 3:21–22 states, “Beloved, if our heart does not condemn us, we have confidence before God; and whatever we ask we receive from Him, because we keep His commandments and do the things that are pleasing in His sight.”

There we have it. Keep God’s commandments (His universal will in imperative form) and encounter His unique response to our petition. In response, God guides and provides for us at a personal level. We can experience a remarkable answer to prayer, an orchestration of events pointing to a particular course of action, or a supernatural peace in the midst of unanswered prayers. Amazing things can happen as we keep His universal commandments and then ask Him to uniquely direct our steps.

God’s Four Universal Wills

Though all of God’s commands in the Old and New Testament that apply to the church fall under God’s will for us, God reveals in four passages, four specific wills. I refer to them as the four wills of God.

Like on a map, it is as though God declares, “Start Here!”

This doesn’t mean we can ignore the rest of God’s commands, only that we probably will ignore the rest if we ignore these four.

These four wills, or commands, are found in four passages that identify precisely the will of God. These four specifically declare “this is” or “such is” the will of God. These passages are matchless. No other verses identify God’s will with such exactness.

What are these four?

John 6:40: “This is the will of my Father that everyone who beholds the Son and believes in Him will have eternal life and I Myself will raise him up on the last day” (emphasis added).

1 Thessalonians 5:18: “In everything give thanks; for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus” (emphasis added).

1 Peter 2:13–15: “Submit yourselves for the Lord’s sake to every human institution, whether to a king as the one in authority, or to governors as sent by him for the punishment of evildoers and the praise of those who do right. For such is the will of God that by doing right you may silence the ignorance of foolish men” (emphasis added).

1 Thessalonians 4:3: “For this is the will of God, your sanctification; that is, that you abstain from sexual immorality” (emphasis added).

In other words:

Believe in Jesus Christ.

Give thanks in everything.

Submit in doing right.

Abstain from sexual sin.

These four wills are divinely highlighted in gold, so to speak. God intends for these four to stand out. Follow these and you are in the best position to have confidence He will reveal His unique will to you as you ask Him to lead you, as the apostle John taught.

God’s Unique Will

All of us long for God to uniquely lead and bless our lives. But is that a valid desire? Does God have a unique will for us?

Scripture tells us God designed us and knew us before we were born: He “knit [us] together in [our] mother’s womb” (Psalm 139:13 niv). Even when we feel totally lost, God knows everything about us and our circumstances. As the psalmist says, “I will counsel you with My eye upon you” (Psalm 32:8). Though we may pursue or plan many things, “the Lord will continually guide you” (Isaiah 58:11) because your steps are directed or “ordained” by Him (Psalm 37:23; Proverbs 20:24).

We believe such Scriptures as these: “He will make your paths straight” (Proverbs 3:5–6), “. . . your plans will be established” (Proverbs 16:3), “the Lord directs his steps” (Proverbs 16:9), and “if any of you lacks wisdom . . . it will be given to him” (James 1:5).

God responds to our good and personal desires. Psalm 20:4 says, “May He grant you your heart’s desire and fulfill all your counsel!” Psalm 21:2 states, “You have given him his heart’s desire, and You have not withheld the request of his lips.” We read in Psalm 145:19, “He will fulfill the desire of those who fear Him; He will also hear their cry and will save them.”

We would be hard-pressed to argue that God is not interested in being personally involved in the believer’s life!

As the apostle John told us in 1 John 3:21–22, when we keep His commandments and do what is pleasing in His sight, then whatever we ask—as individuals in specific circumstances—we receive from Him.

Listen to three amazing stories of God actively involved in the personal lives of believers.

Sam!

Let me illustrate with a godly father and mother of a daughter that I learned about from my friend Paul Lewis. This husband and wife walked with God, trusting and obeying Him faithfully. Here’s what happened.

One summer this family of three from southern California went hiking in Oregon. As they trekked in the woods, they found a Bible lying on a huge rock. Because the Bible evidenced no weather damage, they concluded the owner had recently left it there. Though the cover had the name “Sam” on it, there was no further identification. As the father thumbed through the pages, he noticed heavy underlining, exclamation points, and devotional comments that indicated that Sam possessed a vibrant relationship with Jesus. Not knowing what to do with the Bible, the family took it home with them.

One day the parents were interceding for their daughter and felt led to pray for a future spouse. The spiritual passion of Sam came to mind, and they found this prayer surging from their hearts: “God, please send a man to marry our daughter who loves you as much as Sam, that young man.” Since Sam’s faith so clearly reflected their hopes for their daughter, they simplified the prayer over the years to “Send us a Sam!”

What parents would not smile when four years later they learned that their daughter, now in college, was dating a guy named Sam? One weekend this Sam offered to help the family move across town. While carting boxes from the house to the moving trailer, he saw a book slide out. When Sam picked it up, he was stunned to realize that he was holding his long-lost Bible. “Where did you get that Bible?” he asked in amazement. “That’s my Bible!”

Indeed, that was Sam’s Bible. Not only did God send a Sam, He sent the Sam! And, Sam eventually married their daughter.

Such a story should send chills up our spine!

We can receive from God what we ask from Him. We can experience the unique moving of God for our lives. He knows us by name in a very intimate way (Philippians 4:3; Revelation 21:27) and responds as though we alone exist!

$1,500!

For Marilyn, a friend of mine from Holland, Michigan, God demonstrated His unique and wonderful will. Marilyn recounts an incident in which she and her husband found themselves $1,500 short of what they thought they had in their bank account. When they figured out that Marilyn’s husband had mistakenly recorded one $1,500 deposit twice, he said, “Marilyn, don’t write any more checks. I’ve really made a mess, and we are $1,500 overdrawn.” Then they prayed together and asked for God’s help.

That night they went to their weekly c...