About this book
Born in the shadow of mixed-race Vietnamese children deemed "b?i ??i" ("dust of life"), she struggled to find belonging in her family's cultures. Her yearning for acceptance propelled her to search for her identity in ghosts, Hollywood stars, punk music, teachers and students, tattoo artists, and a string of therapists. Through these fluctuating relationships that dented and defined her mixed Vietnamese American identity, Jade wrestled with her cultural inheritance.
After two decades of compulsive hairpulling and a turbulent relationship with her Vietnamese mother, it was not until she became a mother herself that healing began.
A mix of poems, essays, and letters, this memoir testifies to trauma recovery as reparenting our younger selves. It details how various mental illnesses are compounded by histories of racism, from the Vietnam War to the COVID-19 pandemic. In doing so, this book unveils the shame, guilt, and tragic archetypes shrouding mental health for Vietnamese Americans. With honesty and humor, Hair: A Lai M? Memoir is a story of how breaking cycles is an ongoing process of becoming a daughter and mother. It is a story that tells us that healing is possible.
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Table of contents
- Prologue: The Root
- Chapter 1: “Me Gook”
- Chapter 2: Sons of Norway
- Photo Album 1
- Chapter 3: Ghost Stories
- Chapter 4: The White NBA
- Chapter 5: Ms. Ono
- Chapter 6: Dear Rider Strong
- Chapter 7: Thúy
- Chapter 8: Puppeteer
- Interlude-Intrusion
- Chapter 9: Period
- Chapter 10: Therapist 1
- Interlude-Intrusion
- Chapter 11: Therapist 2
- Chapter 12: Troll
- Photo Album 2
- Chapter 13: Sleeper
- Chapter 14: The Christian and the Quail
- Chapter 15: Dear Angelina Jolie
- Chapter 16: Therapist 4
- Interlude-Intrusion
- Chapter 17: “Undercover Gook”
- Chapter 18: Hot Dogs
- Chapter 19: Diem, the Tailor
- Photo Album 3
- Chapter 20: Letter to a Mỹ Lai Mother
- Chapter 21: Therapist 6 and the Anteater
- Interlude-Intrusion
- Chapter 22: The Wig
- Chapter 23: Cradle Cap
- Photo Album 4
- Chapter 24: The Sum of Dirt
- Chapter 25: Dear Zachary Levi
- Interlude-Intrusion
- Epilogue: Push
