The Illusion of Control
eBook - ePub

The Illusion of Control

A Practical Guide to Avoid Futile Struggles

  1. English
  2. ePUB (mobile friendly)
  3. Available on iOS & Android
eBook - ePub

The Illusion of Control

A Practical Guide to Avoid Futile Struggles

About this book

"Recommended for readers interested in gaining tools to improve their behavior and the tendency to want control of everything and everyone." -Library Journal

Describes how people grossly overestimate the power they have over others while simultaneously missing opportunities to enjoy and use the power they have over themselves.

Based on scientific evidence (and lots of real-life experience), The Illusion of Control: A Practical Guide to Avoid Futile Struggles makes a well-justified case that people grossly overestimate how much power they have over others and simultaneously miss out on opportunities to enjoy and exploit the power they have over themselves. Readers learn how to reduce stress and improve quality of life by giving up ineffective habits and attempts at controlling the uncontrollable. The book intentionally begins by challenging readers to analyze where and when they are objectively not in control and how much failed control costs.
In a second block of chapters, broad strategies are suggested in order to bring about change, and multiple psychological theories are offered as tools for gaining control. Next, these tools are applied to changes within the individual to target sleep, drug use, weight control, and negative mood states. Finally, applications will demonstrate how to gain partial control (but still less than they wish) with respect to strangers, children, spouses, friends, workplaces, and broad political questions.

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Table of contents

  1. Acknowledgments
  2. 1 Setting the Stage and Notes to Reader
  3. 2 The Quicksand: When Control and Struggling Fail
  4. 3 “The Battery Charger”: The Big Picture of Life
  5. 4 The Toolbox
  6. 5 Making Good Use of Your Toolbox
  7. 6 Drilling Holes in Stone (Also Known as “Trying to Control Other People”)
  8. 7 Raising Children: You Can Win, Some of the Time
  9. 8 Making Paralysis Work: Committed Partner Relationships
  10. 9 Who Controls What at the Workplace?
  11. 10 The Gift of Friendship
  12. 11 Small Steps to Make the World a Kinder Place
  13. About the Author