SUCCESS
WHAT EVERY LEADER NEEDS TO KNOW Š 2008 by John C. Maxwell
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Library of Congress Cataloging-in-Publication Data
Maxwell, John C., 1947â
Success 101 : what every leader needs to know / John C. Maxwell.
p. cm.
ISBN 978-1-4002-8023-0
1. Success in business--Handbooks, manuals, etc. I. Title.
HF5386.M4449 2008
658.4'09--dc22
2008026082
CONTENTS
PART I: THE RIGHT PICTURE OF SUCCESS
1. What Is Success?
2. What Direction Should I Go?
3. What Role Does Failure Play in Success?
4. How Do I Get Started?
PART II: THE CORE QUALITIES FOR SUCCESS
5. How Well Do I Work with People?
6. Do Others Find Me Trustworthy?
7. How Skilled Am I in My Work?
8. Do I Keep Going When Others Donât?
9. Am I Striving to Keep Learning?
PART III: SUCCESS AT THE NEXT LEVEL
10. Am I Willing to Do the Tough Jobs?
11. Am I Ready to Step Up My Game?
12. Am I Ready to Lead at the Next Level?
PART I
THE RIGHT PICTURE OF SUCCESS I
WHAT IS SUCCESS?
You cannot achieve what you have not defined.
The problem for most people who want to be successful is not that they canât achieve success. The main obstacle for them is that they misunderstand success. Maltbie D. Babcock said, âOne of the most common mistakes and one of the costliest is thinking that success is due to some genius, some magic, something or other which we do not possess.â
THE TRADITIONAL PICTURE OF SUCCESS
What is success? What does it look like? Most people have a vague picture of what it means to be a successful person that looks something like this:
The wealth of Bill Gates,
the physique of Arnold Schwarzenegger
(or Marilyn Monroe),
the intelligence of Albert Einstein,
the athletic ability of Michael Jordan,
the business prowess of Donald Trump,
the social grace and poise of Jackie Kennedy,
the imagination of Walt Disney, and
the heart of Mother Teresa.
That sounds absurd, but itâs closer to the truth than we would like to admit. Many of us picture success as looking like one other than who we areâand we especially canât be eight other people! And more important than that, you shouldnât want to be. If you tried to become just like even one of these other people, you wouldnât be successful. You would be a bad imitation of them, and you would eliminate the possibility of becoming the person you were meant to be.
THE RIGHT PICTURE OF SUCCESS
So how do you get started on the journey toward success? What does it take to be a success? Two things are required: the right picture of success and the right principles for getting there.
The picture of success isnât the same for any two people because weâre all created differently as unique individuals. But the process is the same for everyone. Itâs based on principles that do not change. After more than thirty-five years of knowing successful people and studying the subject, I have developed the following definition of success:
Success is . . .
Knowing your purpose in life,
Growing to reach your maximum potential, and
Sowing seeds that benefit others.
You can see by this definition that success is a journey rather than a destination. No matter how long you live or what you decide to do in life, you will never exhaust your capacity to grow toward your potential or run out of opportunities to help others. When you see success as a journey, youâll never have the problem of trying to âarriveâ at an elusive final destination. And youâll never find yourself in a position where you have accomplished some final goal, only to discover that youâre still unfulfilled and searching for something else to do.
Another benefit of focusing on the journey of success instead of on arriving at a destination or achieving a goal is that you have the potential to become a success today. The very moment that you make the shift to finding your purpose, growing to your potential, and helping others, successful is something you are right now, not something you vaguely hope one day to be.
To get a better handle on these aspects of success, letâs take a look at each one of them:
KNOWING YOUR PURPOSE
Nothing can take the place of knowing your purpose. Millionaire industrialist Henry J. Kaiser, the founder of Kaiser Aluminum as well as the Kaiser-Permanente health care system, said, âThe evidence is overwhelming that you cannot begin to achieve your best unless you set some aim in life.â Or put another way, if you donât try actively to discover your purpose, youâre likely to spend your life doing the wrong things.
I believe that God created every person for a purpose. According to psychologist Viktor Frankl, âEveryone has his own specific vocation or mission in life. Everyone must carry out a concrete assignment that demands fulfillment. Therein he cannot be replaced, nor can his life be repeated. Thus everyoneâs task is as unique as his specific opportunity to implement it.â Each of us has a purpose for which we were created. Our responsibilityâand our greatest joyâis to identify it.
Here are some questions to ask yourself to help you identify your purpose:
For what am I searching? All of us have a strong desire buried in our hearts, something that speaks to our deepest thoughts and feelings, something that sets our souls on fire. Some people have a strong sense of what that is when theyâre just children. Others take half a lifetime to discover it. But no matter what, itâs there. You only need to find it.
Why was I created? Each of us is different. No one else in the world has exactly the same gifts, talents, background, or future. Thatâs one of the reasons it would be a serious mistake for you to try to be someone other than yourself.
Think about your unique mix of abilities, the resources available to you, your personal history, and the opportunities around you. If you objectively identify these factors and discover the desire of your heart, you will have done a lot toward discovering your purpose in life.
Do I believe in my potential? You cannot consistently act in a manner inconsistent with the way you see yourself. If you donât believe that you have potential, you will never try to reach it. And if you arenât willing to work toward reaching your potential, you will never be successful.
You should take the advice of President Theodore Roosevelt, who said, âDo what you can, with what you have, where you are.â If you do that with your eyes fixed on your life purpose, what else can be expected of you?
When do I start? Some people live their lives from day to day, allowing others to dictate what they do and how they do it. They never try to discover their true purpose for living. Others know their purpose, yet never act on it. They are waiting for inspiration or permission or an invitation to get started. But if they wait much longer, theyâll never get going. So the answer to the question âWhen do I start?â is NOW.
GROWING TO YOUR POTENTIAL
Novelist H. G. Wells held that wealth, notoriety, place, and power are no measures of success whatsoever. The only true measure of success is the ratio between what we might have been and what we have become. In other words, success comes as the result of growing to our potential.
Itâs been said that our potential is Godâs gift to us, and what we do with it is our gift to him. But at the same time, our potential is probably our greatest untapped resource. Henry Ford observed, âThere is no man living who isnât capable of...