1 CHARACTER : BE A PIECE OF THE ROCK
Leadership is the capacity and will to rally men and women to a common purpose and the character which inspires confidence.
âBernard Montgomery,
British Field Marshal
Never âfor the sake of peace and quietâ deny your own experience or convictions.
âDagStatesman and Nobel Peace Prize Winner
PUTTING IT ALL ON THE LINE
If youâve traveled through smaller airports or have much experience flying in corporate aircraft, youâve probably seen or flown in a Lear Jet. Iâve had the opportunity to fly in one a couple of times, and itâs quite an experience. Theyâre smallâcapable of carrying only five or six passengersâand very fast. Itâs like climbing into a narrow tube with jet engines strapped to it.
I have to admit, the whole experience of riding in a Lear Jet is pretty exhilarating. But by far the most amazing thing to me about it is the time it saves. Iâve traveled literally millions of miles on airlines, and Iâm accustomed to long drives to airports, car rental returns, shuttles, terminal congestion, and seemingly endless delays. It can be a nightmare. Flying on a Lear Jet can easily cut travel time in half.
The father of this amazing airplane was a man named Bill Lear. An inventor, aviator, and business leader, Lear held more than 150 patents, including those of the automatic pilot, car radio, and eight-track tapes (you canât win them all). Lear was a pioneer in his thinking, and in the 1950s, he could see the potential for the manufacture of small corporate jets. It took him several years to make his dream a reality, but in 1963, the first Lear Jet made its maiden voyage, and in 1964 he delivered his first production jet to a client.
Learâs success was immediate, and he quickly sold many aircraft. But not long after he got his start, Lear learned that two aircraft heâd built had crashed under mysterious circumstances. He was devastated. At that time, fifty-five Lear Jets were privately owned, and Lear immediately sent word to all of the owners to ground their planes until he and his team could determine what had caused the crashes. The thought that more lives might be lost was far more important to him than any adverse publicity that action might generate in the media.
As he researched the ill-fated flights, Lear discovered a potential cause, but he couldnât verify the technical problem on the ground. There was only one sure way to find out whether he had diagnosed the problem correctly. He would have to try to recreate it personallyâ in the air.
It was a dangerous process, but thatâs what he did. As he flew the jet, he nearly lost control and almost met the same fate as the other two pilots. But he did manage to make it through the tests, and he was able to verify the defect. Lear developed a new part to correct the problem and fitted all fifty-five planes with it, eliminating the danger.
Grounding the planes cost Lear a lot of money. And it planted seeds of doubt in the minds of potential customers. As a result, he needed two years to rebuild the business. But Lear never regretted his decision. He was willing to risk his success, his fortune, and even his life to solve the mystery of those crashesâbut not his integrity. And that takes character.
FLESHING IT OUT
How a leader deals with the circumstances of life tells you many things about his character. Crisis doesnât necessarily make character, but it certainly does reveal it. Adversity is a crossroads that makes a person choose one of two paths: character or compromise. Every time he chooses character, he becomes stronger, even if that choice brings negative consequences. As Nobel prizeâ winning author Alexander Solzhenitsyn noted, âThe meaning of earthly existing lies, not as we have grown used to thinking, in prospering, but in the development of the soul.â The development of character is at the heart of our development not just as leaders, but as human beings.
What must every person know about character?
1. Character Is More than Talk
Anyone can say that he has integrity, but action is the real indicator of character. Your character determines who you are. Who you are determines what you see. What you see determines what you do. Thatâs why you can never separate a leaderâs character from his actions. If a leaderâs actions and intentions are continually working against each other, then look to his character to find out why.
2. Talent Is a Gift, but Character Is a Choice
We have no control over a lot of things in life. We donât get to choose our parents. We donât select the location or circumstances of our birth and upbringing. We donât get to pick our talents or IQ. But we do choose our character. In fact, we create it every time we make choicesâto cop out or dig out of a hard situation, to bend the truth or stand under the weight of it, to take the easy money or pay the price. As you live your life and make choices today, you are continuing to create your character.
3. Character Brings Lasting Success with People
True leadership always involves other people. (As the leadership proverb says, if you think youâre leading and no one is following you, then youâre only taking a walk.) Followers do not trust leaders whose character they know to be flawed, and they will not continue following them.
4. Leaders Cannot Rise Above the Limitations of Their Character
Have you ever seen highly talented people suddenly fall apart when they achieved a certain level of success? The key to that phenomenon is character. Steven Berglas, a psychologist at Harvard Medical School and author of The Success Syndrome, says that people who achieve great heights but lack the bedrock character to sustain them through the stress are headed for disaster. He believes they are destined for one or more of the four Aâs: arrogance, painful feelings of aloneness, destructive adventure-seeking, or adultery. Each is a terrible price to pay for weak character.
REFLECTING ON IT
If youâve found yourself being sucked in by one of the four Aâs that Berglas identifies, call a time-out. Do what you must to step away from some of the stress of your success, and seek professional help. Donât think that the valley youâre in will pass with time, more money, or increased prestige. Unaddressed cracks in character only get deeper and more destructive with time.
If youâre not struggling in any of these four areas, you should still examine the condition of your character. Ask yourself whether your words and actions matchâall the time. When you say youâll finish an assignment, do you always follow through? If you tell your children that youâll make it to their recital or ball game, are you there for it? Can people trust your handshake as they would a legal contract?
As you lead others at home, at work, and in the community, recognize that your character is your most important asset. G. Alan Bernard, president of Mid Park, Inc., stated, âThe respect that leadership must have requires that oneâs ethics be without question. A leader not only stays above the line between right and wrong, he stays well clear of the âgray areas.ââ
BRINGING IT HOME
To improve your character, do the following:
⢠Search for the cracks. Spend some time looking at the major areas of your life (work, marriage, family, service, etc.), and identify anywhere you might have cut corners, compromised, or let people down. Write down every instance you can recall from the past two months.
⢠Look for patterns. Examine the responses that you just wrote down. Is there a particular area where you have a weakness, or do you have a type of problem that keeps surfacing? Detectable patterns will help you diagnose character issues.
⢠Face the music. The beginning of character repair comes when you face your flaws, apologize, and deal with the consequences of your actions. Create a list of people to whom you need to apologize for your actions, then follow through with sincere apologies.
⢠Rebuild. Itâs one thing to face up to your past actions. Itâs another to build a new future. Now that youâve identified any areas of weakness, create a plan that will prevent you from making the same mistakes again.
DAILY TAKE-AWAY
A man took his young daughter to a carnival, and she immediately ran over to a booth and asked for cotton candy. As the attendant handed her a huge ball of it, the father asked, âSweetheart, are you sure you can eat all that?â
âDonât worry, Dad,â she answered, âIâm a lot bigger on the inside than on the outside.â
Thatâs what real character isâbeing bigger on the inside.
2 CHARISMA : THE FIRST IMPRESSION CAN SEAL THE DEAL
How can you have charisma? Be more concerned about making others feel good about themselves than you are making them feel good about you.
âDan Reiland,
Executive Pastor at 12 Stone Church in Lawrenceville, Georgia
I have yet to find the man, however exalted his station, who did not do better work and put forth greater effort under a spirit of approval than under a spirit of criticism.
âCharles Schwab, Industrialist
THE CLEVEREST IN ENGLAND
During the second half of the nineteenth century, two strong men vied for leadership of Great Britainâs government: William Gladstone and Benjamin Disraeli. The two politicians were intense rivals. You can detect how they felt about each other based on a comment once made by Disraeli: âThe difference between a misfortune and a calamity? If Gladstone fell into the Thames [River], it would be a misfortune. But if someone dragged him out again, it would be a calamity.â
Many people believe that Gladstone, leader of the Liberal Party for three decades, personified the best qualities of Victorian England. A career public servant, he was a great orator, a master of finance, and a staunchly moral man. He was made prime minister of the United Kingdom four different times, the only person in the nationâs history to achieve that honor. Under his leadership, Great Britain established a national education system, instituted parliamentary reform, and saw the vote given to a significant number of people in the working classes.
Benjamin Disraeli, who served twice as prime minister, had a different kind of background. In his thirties, he entered politics and built a reputation as a diplomat and social reformer. But his greatest accomplishment was masterminding Great Britainâs purchase of shares...