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Weâre Not Family
Companies love to declare âWeâre all family here.â No, youâre not. Neither are we at Basecamp. Weâre coworkers. That doesnât mean we donât care about one another. That doesnât mean we wonât go out of our way for one another. We do care and we do help. But a family we are not. And neither is your business.
Furthermore, Basecamp is not âour baby.â Basecamp is our product. Weâll make it great, but we wonât take a bullet for it. And neither would you for yours.
We donât need to bullshit ourselves or anyone else. Weâre people who work together to make a product. And weâre proud of it. Thatâs enough.
Whenever executives talk about how their company is really like a big olâ family, beware. Theyâre usually not referring to how the company is going to protect you no matter what or love you unconditionally. You know, like healthy families would. Their motive is rather more likely to be a unidirectional form of sacrifice: yours.
Because by invoking the image of the family, the valor of doing whatever it takes naturally follows. Youâre not just working long nights or skipping a vacation to further the bottom line; no, no, youâre doing this for the family. Such a blunt emotional appeal is only needed if someone is trying to make you forget about your rational self-interest.
You donât have to pretend to be a family to be courteous. Or kind. Or protective. All those values can be expressed even better in principles, policies, and, most important, actions.
Besides, donât you already have a family or group of friends who feel like blood? The modern company isnât a street gang filled with orphans trying to make it in the tough, tough world. Trying to supplant the family you likely already have is just another way to attempt to put the needs of the company above the needs of your actual family. Thatâs a sick ploy.
The best companies arenât families. Theyâre supporters of families. Allies of families. Theyâre there to provide healthy, fulfilling work environments so that when workers shut their laptops at a reasonable hour, theyâre the best husbands, wives, parents, siblings, and children they can be.
Theyâll Do as You Do
You canât credibly promote the virtues of reasonable hours, plentiful rest, and a healthy lifestyle to employees if youâre doing the opposite as the boss. When the top dog puts in mad hours, the rest of the pack is bound to follow along. It doesnât matter what you say, it matters what you do.
It gets even worse in a business with layers. If your managerâs manager is setting a bad example, that impression rolls down the hierarchy and gathers momentum like a snowball.
Take those trite stories about the CEO who only sleeps four hours each night, is the first in the parking lot, has three meetings before breakfast, and turns out the light after midnight. What a hero! Truly someone who lives and breathes the company before themselves!
No, not a hero. If the only way you can inspire the troops is by a regimen of exhaustion, itâs time to look for some deeper substance. Because what trickles down is less likely to be admiration but dread and fear instead. A leader who sets an example of self-sacrifice canât help but ask self-sacrifice of others.
Maybe thatâs a valiant quality on the battlefield, but itâs hardly one in the office. The fate of most companies is not decided in fierce contests of WHO CAN DO THE LATEST CONFERENCE CALL or WHO CAN SET THE MOST PUNISHING DEADLINE.
If you, as the boss, want employees to take vacations, you have to take a vacation. If you want them to stay home when theyâre sick, you canât come into the office sniffling. If you donât want them to feel guilty for taking their kids to Legoland on the weekend, post some pictures of yourself there with yours.
Workaholism is a contagious disease. You canât stop the spread if youâre the one bringing it into the office. Disseminate some calm instead.
The Trust Battery
Ever been in a relationship where youâre endlessly annoyed by every little thing the other person does? In isolation, the irritating things arenât objectively annoying. But in those cases itâs never really about the little things. Thereâs something else going on.
The same thing can happen at work. Someone says something, or acts in a certain way, and someone else blows up about it. From afar it looks like an overreaction. You canât figure out what the big deal is. Thereâs something else going on.
Hereâs whatâs going on: The trust battery is dead.
Tobias LĂźtke, CEO at Shopify, coined the term. Hereâs how he explained it in a New York Times interview: âAnother concept we talk a lot about is something called a âtrust battery.â Itâs charged at 50 percent when people are first hired. And then every time you work with someone at the company, the trust battery between the two of you is either charged or discharged, based on things like whether you deliver on what you promise.â
The adoption of this term at Basecamp helped us assess work relationships with greater clarity. It removed the natural instinct to evaluate whether someone is ârightâ about their feelings about another person (which is a nonsense concept to begin with). By measuring the charge on the trust battery, we have context to frame the conflict.
The reality is that the trust battery is a summary of all interactions to date. If you want to recharge the battery, you have to do different things in the future. Only new actions and new attitudes count.
Plus, itâs personal. Aliceâs trust battery with Bob is different from Carolâs trust battery with Bob. Bob may be at 85 percent with Alice but only 10 percent with Carol. Bob isnât going to recharge his battery with Carol just by acting differently with Alice. The work of recharging relationships is mostly one to one. Thatâs why two people who get along often canât understand how someone else could have a problem with their good friend.
A low trust battery is at the core of many personal disputes at work. It powers stressful encounters and anxious moments. When the battery is drained, everything is wrong, everything is judged harshly. A 10 percent charge equals a 90 percent chance an interaction will go south.
Having good relationships at work takes, err, work. The kind that can only begin once youâre honest about where youâre starting from. The worst thing you can do is pretend that interpersonal feelings donât matter. That work should âjust be about work.â Thatâs just ignorant. Humans are humans whether theyâre at work or at home.
Donât Be the Last to Know
When the boss says âMy door is always open,â itâs a cop-out, not an invitation. One that puts the onus of speaking up entirely on the employees.
The only time such an empty gesture serves any purpose is after the shit has already hit the fan. Then it can be dragged out of the drawer with âWhy didnât you just come and tell me?â and âI told you if you ever had an issue with anything that you should come talk to me.â *eyeroll*
What the boss most needs to hear is where they and the organization are falling short. But who knows how a superior is going to take such pointed feedback? Itâs a minefield, and every employee knows someone whoâs been blown up for raising the wrong issue at the wrong time to the wrong boss. Why on earth would they risk their career on an empty promise of an open door?
They generally wonât, and they shouldnât have to.
If the boss really wants to know whatâs going on, the answer is embarrassingly obvious: They have to ask! Not vague, self-congratulatory bullshit questions like âWhat can we do even better?â but the hard ones like âWhatâs something nobody dares to talk about?â or âAre you afraid of anything at work?â or âIs there anything you worked on recently that you wish you could do over?â Or even more specific ones like âWhat do you think we could have done differently to help Jane succeed?â or âWhat advice would you give before we start on the big website redesign project?â
Posing real, pointed questions is the only way to convey that itâs safe to provide real answers. And even then itâs going to take a while. Maybe you get 20 percent of the story the first time you ask, then 50 percent after a while, and if youâve really nailed it as a trustworthy boss, you may get to 80 percent. Forget about ever getting the whole story.
The fact is that the higher you go in an organization, the less youâll know what itâs really like. It might seem perverse, but the CEO is usually the last to know. With great power comes great ignorance.
So at Basecamp we try to get out and ask rather than just wait at the door. Not all the time, because you shouldnât ask before youâre willing and able to act on the answer, but often enough to know most of whatâs going on most of the time.
The Ownerâs Word Weighs a Ton
Thereâs no such thing as a casual suggestion when it comes from the owner of the business. When the person who signs the paychecks mentions this or that, this or that invariably becomes a top priority.
So something as minor as âAre we doing enough on Instagram?â can shoot Instagram to the top of the marketing priority list. It was a mere suggestion, but itâs taken as a mandate. âWhy would she be talking about Instagram unless she really thought Instagram was super important?â
It only gets worse if employees find the owner pulling at the weeds themselves. If the boss is looking over there, then clearly we should all be looking over there! They might just have been curious or looking for something to do, but thatâs not the impression it makes.
An owner unknowingly scattering peopleâs attention is a common cause of the question âWhyâs everyone working so much but nothingâs getting done?â
It takes great restraint as the leader of an organization not to keep lobbing ideas at everyone else. Every such idea is a pebble thatâs going to cause ripples when it hits the surface. Throw enough pebbles in the pond and the overall picture becomes as clear as mud.
Evading responsibility with a âBut itâs just a suggestionâ isnât going to calm the waters. Only knowing the weight of the ownerâs word will.
Low-Hanging Fruit Can Still Be Out of Reach
Youâve probably said or heard something like this before:
âWeâve never had anyone in business development, so there must be a ton of low-hanging fruit she can go after with just a little bit of effort.â
âWeâve never done any social media outreach, so imagine how much new trafficâ âlow-hanging fruit ââweâll get if we just start tweeting stuff out.â
âWeâve never followed up with customers who cancel to better understand why they left, so Iâm certain thereâs plenty of low-hanging fruit to be had if we do those interviews.â
Weâre definitely guilty of having thought about things in these terms. By definition, pursuing low-hanging fruit should be a no-brainer for any business. An easy opportunity simply waiting to be seized. Little sweat, all reward!
The problem, as weâve learned over time, is that the further away you are from the...