Winning Job Interviews, Revised Edition

Paul Powers

• Publisher: Career Press
• Year: 2009
• ISBN:
  9781601637666
• Topic: Business
• Subtopic: Business Writing
• Index: Business

Here is one book every job hunter needs. Fast paced, with no fluff, Winning Job Interviews is packed with strategies and techniques that are practical, market-proven, and easy to use. Combining 30 years of career expertise with equal doses of motivation and humor, Dr. Paul Powers shows you how to:

• — Overcome the ""deadly dozen" roadblocks that trip up the even the most-seasoned job hunter.
• — Always have a great, fail-safe answer for even the most difficult interview questions.
• — Discover the secrets of the world's most successful salespeople and how they can make you a superior job interviewer.
• — Have your references singing your praises.
• — Get more and better job offers…and the simple phrase to help you negotiate the best deal possible.
• — The job-hunting pros and cons of today's technologies.
• — Four disastrous social networking mistakes that will hurt your job hunt and career.
• — How to recession-proof your job and keep your parachute packed and ready to go.

An expanded toolkit, with worksheets, flowcharts, outlines and insider tips for the motivated job hunter, is also included in this extensively revised new edition.

CHAPTER 1

WHY JOB HUNTING SUCKS (And What to Do About It)

This book is the shortest distance between you and a new job you can love. You—the motivated job hunter—can read it in one weekend or couple of nights and become one of the most skilled job hunters in any field, in any economic climate. But first you need to know what you are up against and how to deal with it.

If I were writing this book for other psychologists, career coaches, or outplacement experts, I would have called this chapter “Identifying and Resolving the Negative Psychosocial Consequences Perceived by Individuals in the Employment Transition Process.” Not a bad title for a master’s thesis or doctoral dissertation. But I’m writing this book for you, the job hunter, who needs solid input that is market-proven, quickly usable, and with no punches pulled—so let’s call a spade a spade.

I don’t need to convince you that job hunting sucks, because you already know it. If you don’t know for sure, you probably have a strong sense that it does. And you wouldn’t be too far from wrong. Although the job interview is the single most important element of the job-changing process, it is critical for you to remember that it is only one part—paramount though it may be—of an entire process. And for you to succeed, to win, in these critical interview situations, you must have a firm, realistic understanding of the whole job-hunting process. Armed with the knowledge in this book, you will be able to control the process, not be controlled by it; you will be able to drive the process rather than be driven crazy by it.

People who have recently completed the job-hunting process will tell you that it is one of the hardest things they have ever had to do. Sure, there is the occasional lucky person who has a new job fall in his lap—sports stars, former politicians, media figures. Good for them, but it has never happened to me, and I’ll bet it has never happened to you. For the rest of us ordinary schnooks, job hunting is hard work. But now, finally, some good news: the hard work you invest in your job hunt will pay off in positive ways like almost nothing else.

The rewards for fully engaging yourself in this demanding job-hunting process are many: You can find a team of people with whom you enjoy working, you can find a boss you respect, you can add to your social circle, you can find colleagues or mentors from whom you can learn, you may actually make more money, and, best of all, you can discover work that has personal meaning for you beyond a mere paycheck. You will feel more professionally accomplished and more personally competent. You will have more energy and vitality that you can share with those closest to you, and, thus, you will receive more from them in return. You will be building a continuously reinforcing cycle of achievement and success in multiple areas of your life.

This all sounds terrific, but if this process can bring such wonderful rewards, why do the vast majority of job hunters hate it so much? The answer is that there is a predictable series of psychological stumbling blocks—I call them the deadly dozen—that can trip up even the most determined job hunter.

THE DEADLY DOZEN: ROADBLOCKS OF JOB HUNTING

From more than 20 years of working in different areas of the career field, I have identified a dozen major psychological roadblocks that can sidetrack, confuse, and discourage even the most dedicated job hunter. These roadblocks are both powerful and insidious; they are at work even when you can’t see them. They are among the strongest reasons that many people stay in dead-end jobs or try to avoid the job-hunting process at all costs—to the detriment of their careers and the overall quality of their lives.

If you are going to be a successful job hunter (and this, in no small part, means becoming a winning job interviewee), you will need to recognize, face up to, and overcome each of these factors. By getting these roadblocks out in the open and learning how to get around them, you will automatically put yourself in the top tier of smart job hunters. With my help you can do it, so let’s get started.

Roadblock #1: Lack of a Crisp, Clear, Realistic Goal

Some job hunters start the process by making a few phone calls looking for leads or scanning the help-wanted ads in their local newspaper for “something interesting” or “a place where I can use my people skills.” When this initial effort fails (as it often does) to turn up something wonderful in a relatively short period of time, the typical job hunter starts to get discouraged. You hear them say, “We’re in a bad job market these days,” or, “There’s nothing much available in my field right now,” or, “This isn’t a good time of the year to be looking,” and so on.

She then begins to put in even less effort, and, predictably, gets even fewer, if any, positive results. Soon this becomes a self-reinforcing cycle of defeat. It overwhelms the job hunter and convinces her that maybe she’d better just hang onto the mediocre job she has now or settle for something that’s easy to find or that may be beneath what she’s capable of. This is Roadblock #1 at its worst.

Although it’s not very politically correct to talk about it much these days, I want you to think for a moment about an actual hunter. One who is out in the woods. If it makes you feel more comfortable, set him back in time before food for the family table was found shrink-wrapped in plastic, injected with preservatives, and stacked like cordwood in your local Mega-Mart. If this hunter wants his family to eat tonight, he has to know exactly what he’s hunting for, he has to be able to recognize it when he sees it, he will need to have a detailed knowledge of the terrain, and he will have practiced his hunting skills until they are nearly flawless. Otherwise his family goes hungry. It is easy to see the clear parallels here to the job-hunting process.

The first step in any successful job search is to develop a clear, crisp, realistic goal. If you can’t describe what job you are looking for in one or two sentences, then you are not ready to be out there in the job market asking for interviews.

You must be ready to clearly state what type of position you are looking for, in what type of organization, and in what geographic area, and you must be able to make a persuasive case based upon your knowledge, your experience, and your personal characteristics as to why someone should hire you to do this job for a reasonable salary. If you are not armed with this information, you are going to waste a lot of time and energy spinning your wheels, getting lost, and pursuing targets that are inappropriate or not worth your effort.

You must overcome this roadblock before you attempt to move your job search into high gear. If you know exactly what you’re looking for, where to look for it, and how best to find it—great! But if you are not sure you’re fully ready to conduct a professional, fine-tuned, multi-front job campaign, turn to Chapter 9, which is the Winning Job Interview Toolkit, and get to work on Tool #1: Am I Ready to Job Hunt?

Roadblock #2: No Control Over the Timing of the Job Hunt

Job hunting is such an unpleasant task that most folks wait until something beyond their control forces them to make a move. Maybe it’s an RIF, a layoff, a plant closing, a merger, a product recall, a boss bringing in his own team, or jobs being sent overseas that provides the motivation. Maybe you saw the writing on the wall but didn’t have time to jump instead of being pushed. If this hasn’t yet happened to you in your career, stay tuned, because one day it surely will. The reality is that very few of us take the bull by the horns and get an aggressive, professional job search underway before we are told that we have to.

Despite the initial discomfort that comes with any one of these scenarios, it’s actually one of those “good news/bad news” things. The bad news is obvious. The vast majority of job hunters are thrown into a process that makes great demands on them for energy, creativity, and productivity—all while playing Beat the Clock with their income, severance pay or unemployment compensation, and (God willing) savings on the one hand, and their outgoing cash flow and bills on the other. It’s no small wonder that many job hunters get down in the dumps.

If you are resentful that you have to job hunt at a time not of your own choosing, you must address this issue and get it out of the way. Seek your employee assistance program, outplacement consultant, or career or unemployment counselor for advice. Locate and join a job-search networking/support group. If you are finding it impossible to concentrate on your job hunt because you are constantly obsessing or worried about money, sharpen your pencil and work out a realistic budget for a job hunt with a realistic time line.

Don’t try to ignore this feeling, because it will surface when you want it least. Some anxiety is normal and predictable in any job search. But if it escalates into panic, it can affect your behavior as well as your attitude. You may expect things to happen too quickly, and not reaching these unrealistic goals will create more anxiety. It will push you to look and sound desperate, and this attitude is the death of winning job interviews. It will impair your vision so that you may see the first job that pops up, perhaps one that’s only so-so, as a good job that you should take.

You’re probably asking, “Okay, Paul, so what’s the good news already?” Well, the good news is that you are completely free to actively and professionally pursue the job of your dreams on a full-time basis. You are not limited to job hunting on your lunch hour or when the boss isn’t around. You no longer have to sneak off to interviews during phony dentist appointments. You don’t have to worry about having someone overhear you on the phone or look over your shoulder while you’re on your computer. You can freely ask your current colleagues for their input, advice, and networking contacts. You can ask your human resources person for referrals to employment agencies. All of these actions will help you succeed in your job hunt—more quickly than if you had to do it on an on-the-sly, part-time basis.

In no way am I suggesting that you ignore the fact that your financial situation may be somewhat precarious and demand more thought, a tighter budget, or perhaps some alternative arrangements (that is, temping, part-time work, consulting, and so on). I merely want to reinforce for you that thousands and thousands of job hunters have somehow scraped by financially and found great jobs at a time not of their choosing. You can too.

Roadblock #3: Nobody Likes Being a Rookie

One of the hardest days at any job is your first day. Even if it is very similar to a job you have held previously, you still have to find out how this organization does things and who the right people are to ask for help, and you have to learn all the ins and outs of the informal organization. It’s no fun being the rookie. It’s like being the new kid at school.

When you are suddenly back in the job market, you are beginning a difficult and demanding task that you may not have done many times before, and maybe you didn’t even do so well at it last time. Let’s face it: we all like to do things either that we are good at or that we enjoy. Although we will be called upon many more times than our parents ever were during their careers to go out job hunting, most of us will never do it enough to get very good at it. And even fewer of us will ever learn to enjoy the process.

Maybe you didn’t keep good notes or records during your last job hunt so you’re feeling as if you’re starting from scratch. (This won’t happen to you again because Tool #16 in the Toolkit is the Job Search Wrap-Up Tool.) Maybe you realize that job interviewing is a skill that improves dramatically with practice—and realize you’re out of practice.

One of the unrealistic expectations of job hunting is that most people feel they must excel in a process at which they are not very good, and if they don’t succeed fairly quickly, they believe their lives will be screwed up. If you feel this way, you need some realistic data from the job-hunting world. Through your network contacts, unemployment office, or outplacement counselor, find a couple of other job hunters who are further along in their job hunt than you are in yours. Ask how they got up to speed with their job search. Be sure to pick positive-thinking, motivated people to help you overcome this common roadblock.

Roadblock #4: It’s All About Rejection

Few people in life thrive on rejection. Salespeople have learned how to do this, and the most successful salespeople I’ve ever met seem to be built in a different way psychologically from the rest of us. Saying no to a good salesperson is not like saying no to the rest of us. To them, a no means not yet or you haven’t told me enough or maybe later or we need to negotiate about price or timing or something else. A successful salesperson doesn’t take the first, second, or even third no as a bona fide rejection. (By the way, this is one of the reasons salespeople make such effective job hunters.)

But how many of the rest of us really thrive on rejection? I don’t—do you? The job-hunting process is nothing but a series of rejections with an occasional piece of good news thrown in just to keep you from sticking your head in the oven. Let’s think about this for a minute.

The typical job hunt goes like this: Time after time you go through the process of uncovering a job lead through whatever method you used that day, chasing this lead with a resume, following up with a letter and a series of phone calls, working your way through a series of interviews, sending out the thank-you letters, getting your hopes up—and all for the net result of probably not getting the job. Sounds fun, eh?

Being realistic, you will probably go through this process a number of times before the job you really want comes through. Another unfortunate reality—but a reality that must be faced nonetheless—is that the job-hunting process contains a whole lot more rejection than acceptance.

The biggest key to overcoming this roadblock is understanding that this is the essential nature of the process. Getting rejected doesn’t mean you’re doing it wrong; it means you’re doing it right! In fact, I tell job hunters that if they aren’t getting rejected a lot, then either they aren’t job hunting hard enough or they aren’t searching for a job that represents a step up for them.

Another way to overcome this sense of rejection is to realize that the employer didn’t make a decision not to hire you. They made a decision to hire somebody else. Obviously, that person made a better case or looked to be a better fit than you did. Try to come up wi...