Get Rich Slow

Start Now, Start Small to Achieve Real Wealth

Sarah Riegelhuth

• Publisher: Wiley
• Year: 2012
• Print ISBN:
  9781118406168
• eBook ISBN:
  9781118406199
• Edition: 1
• Topic: Personal Development
• Subtopic: Personal Finance

How to build wealth the smart way—slow and steady

This book will show you how to take control of your finances and grow your wealth using nothing more than a few key principles and commonsense wisdom. It shows you how to let go of easy excuses, stop waiting around for magically simple solutions, set intelligent financial goals, and design an action plan that you can follow through to completion. Using a storytelling approach, it shares the financial experiences of the author and her clients, guiding readers through the tools and tactics necessary to effect positive financial change in their lives. Although focused on personal finance goals, the lessons here easily translate to life itself.

Part I

Let's get real

Chapter 1

What are you waiting for?

You cannot escape the responsibility of tomorrow by evading it today.

Abraham Lincoln

Someone once wrote, in relation to taking personal financial responsibility, ‘A man is not a financial plan’. I can’t remember where I first read this, and I’ve certainly heard it a number of times since, but it rang so true to me I just had to open the book with it. As an independent teenager who worked from the age of 14, I always had money to save for things I wanted and to spend on having fun with friends. Maybe because of this, and because of my parents’ separation when I was still young, I never really considered the idea that a man, or even my parents, would be my path to financial security.

So it surprised me to find that many people do consider their personal financial wellbeing to be the responsibility of someone else, whether their own parents, a partner, an employer, the government, or even friends or extended family. Many convince themselves that the financial situation they are in is out of their control and wait for outside factors, things they cannot influence, to change in order for their own position to improve. We all lose our way from time to time, and I have been guilty of falling into this mindset in the past too. The important thing is to recognise the signs and to start to change the way you think.

An ancient lesson

Lao Tzu, the ancient Chinese philosopher and founder of Taoism, sums up the power of our thoughts beautifully:

Watch your thoughts; they become words. Watch your words; they become actions. Watch your actions; they become habit. Watch your habits; they become character. Watch your character; it becomes your destiny.

If we indulge in a belief that our financial situation is not our responsibility, ultimately we will create a reality in which our finances are indeed out of control. It all starts with our thoughts, because over time they will play out in our actions. If we can create positive thoughts, in any area of our life . . . well, you can imagine what will start to happen.

Common mindset traps

In my professional role as a financial adviser, I am often taken by surprise when seemingly confident and successful professional women — highly educated executives who lead teams, run corporations and make tough decisions — come to see me with two budgets prepared. The first is their actual budget; the second includes the income of a fictional ‘Prince Charming’ who is waiting ‘just around the corner’ to sweep them off their feet and provide for them. They actually spend precious time factoring this into their financial plan.

I’ve also come across men who run apparently successful businesses but are up to their eyeballs in debt — for which they blame the tax office, their suppliers, their clients, their professional advisers and whoever else they can think of, rather than the simple fact that they’ve mismanaged their money and have been living beyond their means. I commonly hear business owners blaming their accountants for not making them aware of their tax liabilities, when the reality is they simply spent everything in the bank account and didn’t set anything aside for the tax that always must be paid. It’s pretty simple: if you earn money (which is a good thing), you’ll have to pay some tax (not so great, but unavoidable).

I’ve seen young couples with small children argue that they don’t really need any insurance or savings, because their parents will help them out if they ever get into difficulties. I’ve even seen people completely unphased by mounting credit card debt . . . because they have a ticket in next week’s lottery!

There’s nothing wrong with dreaming a little. I’ve no problem with this — in fact I do it too, we all do. If we seriously want to create financial security for ourselves, though, it has to start with us. Right now. No-one else can do it for us. Waiting on, relying on or blaming other people will get us nowhere in a hurry. The first hard truth we need to swallow is that whatever financial situation we are in is completely, 100 per cent, of our own making. Whether it’s good, bad or ugly, we created it. No more excuses.

But this is not just about the negative situations. It’s important too to pat ourselves on the back if and when we do well financially. This is generally a result of hard work and discipline and is nothing to be shy about. Despite how it might appear on the outside, those who are successful have in most cases worked very hard for that success.

Have a go at this quiz to get an idea of how financially responsible you really are.

Quiz: Are you financially responsible?

1 You moved house a few months ago and have just received a call from the bank to say they’ve put your credit card on hold, because you haven’t made a payment for over 90 days. You face a late fee and additional interest charges. Do you:

(a) blame the bank for not tracking you down after the move?

(b) become really frustrated with yourself for forgetting to make the payment, but also with the bank for not contacting you sooner?

(c) know that this wouldn’t happen to you, because you have a direct debit set-up and you pay off your card in full each month?

2 You’ve been working for the same employer for some time and think you deserve a pay rise. Do you:

(a) complain to your teammates about how tight the company is?

(b) work harder for the next six months, hoping someone will notice?

(c) point out to your boss that you addressed this issue at your last employee review, showing your boss the additional work you were doing and proving your worth?

3 Your best friend suggests the two of you go on a trip to Las Vegas. The trip is planned for six months’ time. Do you:

(a) decide not to worry about financing it? (You’ll put the whole thing on your credit card and deal with the bills later.)

(b) agree to go, even though you’re not sure how you’re going to pay for it? (You’ll save a little between now and then, and fund the additional expenses on your credit card.)

(c) calculate that it will fit into your annual holiday budget, for which you put a little away each week? (So you agree enthusiastically.)

4 You read an article in the weekend paper about superannuation and the fact that many Australians don’t have anywhere near enough money to last them through their retirement. Do you:

(a) not even bother to finish reading it? (You have about five super funds floating around. You don’t know anything about super but figure the government will look after you through the age pension.)

(b) not give it very much thought? (You consolidated all your super funds a while ago. You’ve considered adding to your fund, but you’re not really sure how super works anyway, so you’ll worry about it more when you get older.)

(c) read it with peace of mind? (You have one super fund and have been salary sacrificing a little into your fund each pay cycle since you started full-time work. It’s a long-term savings plan, which you understand is easier to get started on early.)

5 The interest rate on your mortgage has increased a couple of times and it’s getting harder to afford the repayments. Do you:

(a) blame the bank for lending you so much? How did they expect you to cope with these rate rises, especially when you have no savings in the bank?

(b) tough it out, using your credit card when you need to? You knew you probably shouldn’t have borrowed this much but had hoped that the rates wouldn’t increase as they have.

(c) feel disappointed by the interest rate rise, while knowing you were prepared for this and didn’t borrow more than you could confidently afford to repay? You’ve got a savings buffer account and have been making extra loan repayments, so it shouldn’t trouble you too much.

How did you score?

Mostly As: Sounds like you’ve been spending most of your time blaming everyone else for your unhealthy bank balance. It’s time to get on top of it and recognise that it starts with you, and it starts now. You need to start taking responsibility for every financial decision you make, considering the long-term effects as well as the short-term benefits. Part I of this book is going to be really important for you, but don’t stop there. You’ll need to read parts II and III to learn the skills required to create a financial plan and follow through with it.

Mostly Bs: You’ve started to realise that you need to take control of your financial situation. It sounds as though you’ve begun that journey, so great work. Making a start is better than not starting at all. Remember always to plan for the future and forgive yourself for the mistakes of the past. You’ll like part II of this book in particular as it’ll help you build your knowledge further, and part III will give you the motivation to keep up the good work.

Mostly Cs: You’re on track and taking full responsibility for your financial situation. Keep learning about money, by reading books like this (especially the educational chapters in part II), and remember to reward yourself for your hard work and discipline.

Accepting responsibility

Are you waiting on someone or something else to change your life? The first step towards achieving success in any area of your life is to accept that you are wholly and solely responsible for your future. Sure, life will always throw you a curve-ball, be it positive or negative, but your response, the next step you take, is still solely your choice.

I want to share with you a particular lesson I learned that changed my life in a huge way. Like all of life’s teachings, it wasn’t an easy lesson to learn, but it was well worth the tough time as I believe it helped shape me into who I am today.

My wake-up call

At the age of 19, I returned to Brisbane from a six-month stint in the UK, where I’d worked as a bartender for a few months, saved a little, travelled Europe and came back with a modest credit card debt that felt huge at the time (more on this later). After working three jobs for several months I managed to repay the entire credit card debt and even save enough money to move back to Melbourne, where I planned to begin studying IT.

In the meantime I’d started seeing someone, who told me he was also moving to Melbourne at the end of the year. ‘What a coincidence!’ I thought at the time. I wasn’t looking for anything serious, but before I knew it we were moving in together, using my credit card to pay for many of the ‘joint’ costs associated with moving, using my savings for the bond, which was in his name . . . well, you start to get the picture. From very early on he had started racking up a debt to me. I soon became uncomfortable with the relationship, but I kept thinking I needed to hang in there in order to recover the money.

I had convinced myself to wait it out until the lease on the apartment was up, otherwise I’d likely lose the bond money as well. The relationship continued to deteriorate while, not surprisingly, the debt escalated. I felt my life was not my own, but I still thought I couldn’t leave him because I needed to get my money back. I was staring down the barrel of three years of study and could barely afford my own living costs, let alone the huge credi...

Table of contents

• Cover
• Title Page
• Table of Contents
• Foreword
• Part I: Let’s get real
• Part II: Let’s get smart
• Part III: Now . . . let’s get going!
• Just do it!