Cyberbullying

Bullying in the Digital Age

Robin M. Kowalski, Susan P. Limber, Patricia W. Agatston

• Publisher: Wiley-Blackwell
• Year: 2012
• Print ISBN: 9781444334814, 9781444334807
• eBook ISBN: 9781444356939
• Edition: 2
• Topic: Psychology
• Subtopic: Developmental Psychology
• Index: Psychology

Psychologists explore the reality of cyberbullies

Millions of children are affected by bullies each year. Advances in social media, email, instant messaging, and cell phones, however, have moved bullying from a schoolyard fear to a constant threat. The second edition of Cyberbullying offers the most current information on this constantly-evolving issue and outlines the unique concerns and challenges it raises for children, parents, and educators. Authored by psychologists who are internationally recognized as experts in this field, the text uses the latest research in this area to provide an updated, reliable text ideal for parents and educators concerned about the cyberbullying phenomenon.

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INTRODUCTION

What makes cyber bullying so dangerous … is that anyone can practice it without having to confront the victim. You don’t have to be strong or fast, simply equipped with a cell phone or computer and a willingness to terrorize.

(King, 2006)

Bullying creates memories that often last a lifetime. Simply hearing the name of a person who bullied them, even years or decades after the bullying occurred, may be enough to send chills up the backs of many people. When most adults think of bullying, they conjure up the image of a big thug who terrorized kids on the playground at school. Usually a male, he was someone to be feared. As horrible as encounters with this bully¹ may have been, though, the end of the school day often brought a reprieve as the victim left school and went home.

Cyberbullying, however, is a bit different. In spite of recent media attention devoted to the topic, many people are still not familiar with the term. But, for those who are and who have experienced it, the memories, like those of traditional bullying, may also last a lifetime. Cyberbullying, also known as electronic bullying or online social cruelty, is defined as bullying through e-mail, instant messaging (IM), in a chat room, on a Web site, on an online gaming site, or through digital messages or images sent to a cellular phone. Although sharing certain features in common with traditional bullying (see Chapter 3 for a more detailed discussion of this), cyberbullying represents a somewhat unique phenomenon that has been receiving increasing attention in recent years in both the popular press and in academic circles. Cyberbullying not only looks and feels a bit different than traditional bullying, but, as will be discussed later in this book, it presents some unique challenges in dealing with it, especially for parents, educators, and other adults who interact with children. In discussing the relationship between traditional bullying and cyberbullying, a reporter for MSNBC stated: “Kids can be cruel. And kids with technology can be cruel on a world-wide scale” (Sullivan, 2006). As is clear from its definition, cyberbullying is a method of bullying made possible because of technological advances over the past 15–20 years. Two of the most notable of these advances are the Internet and the cellular phone.

One of the interesting questions that is often raised in connection with the Internet is: To what degree has it changed the lives of the adolescents who are using it? We believe that this is really the wrong question. Although the Internet may have changed the lives of the parents of these adolescents, for the adolescents themselves the existence of the Internet is all they have ever known. It simply is part of their life. The fact that parents of many of these children did not grow up with cellular phones and in-room computers, whereas these technologies are prevalent in the lives of the adolescents, accounts, in part, for the gap between parents and children in understanding both the uses and risks of the Internet (Kowalski & Fedina, 2011).

Parents, at least initially, tend to view the Internet as a helpful tool to aid their children with homework. Similarly, in parents’ eyes, cellular phones are a means for kids to call home in emergencies. Children and youth, on the other hand, perceive the Internet, cellular phones, and related technologies as critical tools for their social life. For most parents, this technology is relatively new and somewhat foreign and, therefore, something about which their children need to be cautious. For children and youth, on the other hand, these communication technologies have always existed, so they have a comfort level with technology that is foreign to many of their parents. Many parents candidly admit that their children are the ones who have taught them most of what they know about the Internet and related technologies. For example, in a focus group interview about cyberbullying, one teenager stated that she had taught her father how to access her brother’s computer search history. In another study (Kowalski & Fedina, 2011), just over 27% of the parents perceived that their technology skills were equal to or worse than those of their children.

Importantly, though, what children are doing today isn’t all that different from what their parents did when they were growing up – it is just that the vehicle through which they are doing it differs. For example, Lindsay Notwell referred to text messaging as “the note-passing of the new millennium … the Game Boy of wireless communications, for people who think with their thumbs” (Carpenter, 2003). Researchers with the Media Awareness Network (Wing, 2005), in discussing the extent to which the Internet affords adolescents the opportunity to try on new roles and identities, pointed out that kids have been playing “dress up” for centuries. The technological mediums used today, however, present some unique challenges that didn’t confront children two or three decades ago. Traditionally, notes were passed between two individuals, often in class, and hidden from the view of the teacher and most other students in the class. Today, “notes” are passed via instant messaging and e-mail for a much wider audience to see. Hand-held electronic devices, such as Game Boys, that might, only a few years ago, have been played while a child watched television in the living room have been replaced by X-Box Live that is played with multiple other people on a computer that most likely resides in the child’s room.

For better or for worse, technology is here to stay, and it is a staple in the lives of adolescents today. Time magazine’s 2006 selection of “You” as the person of the year attests to this (Grossman, 2006). In trying to select a person who helped to shape the course of history, writers at Time realized that the story of 2006 was “a story about community and collaboration … It’s about the cosmic compendium of knowledge Wikipedia and the million-channel people’s network YouTube and the online metropolis MySpace” (Grossman, 2006). In focus groups conducted with Canadian children in grades 4 through 11, researchers found that children and adolescents view the Internet as “an opportunity to explore the adult world without supervision” (Wing, 2005). This preference is in keeping with their need to test their wings outside the family. A majority of children (57%) also use the Net to explore topics that interest them on an average school day, and a significant proportion use it to express themselves on their own Web sites (28%) or in online diaries and Web logs (15%; Wing, 2005).

Children and the Internet

So many kids use the Internet and its many communication venues that it has been referred to as the “digital communication backbone of teens’ daily lives” (Lenhart, Madden, & Hitlin, 2005, p. iii). Want to punish a teenager? Simply threaten to take their computer or cell phone away. To a teenager, that may seem to be a punishment worse than death (or, at least, a punishment that is the equivalent of a social death).

Several large-scale surveys have given us a picture of the prevalence of the use of technology among teenagers today and some of the potential dangers faced by teens. According to The 2010 Digital Future Report (Center for the Digital Future, 2010), released annually over the last decade, Internet use among Americans has continued to increase, as has overall time spent online. In 2005, 79% of Americans spent time online, averaging 13.3 hours a week, a significant increase over the previous four years. In 2009, 82% of Americans spent time online, averaging 19 hours a week. In the 2005 report, among all Americans e-mail was the most frequent online activity, with instant messaging appearing ninth in the list. In 2009, instant messaging was the most common method of communicating online. Social networking sites are increasing as a communication tool of choice with 58% of individuals using social network sites at least once a week, an increase of 14% from the previous year. Notably, 100% of individuals surveyed under the age of 24 spend time online. This high rate of Internet activity among children and young adults has led people such as Bill Belsey, President of Bullying.org Canada, to refer to teenagers today as the “always on generation.”

The 2010 Pew Internet & American Life Project report indicated that 93% of the 800 teens between the ages of 12 and 17 surveyed spend time online. Over half of these teens (63%) reported that they spent time each day online (Lenhart, 2010). Thirty-six percent of these go online several times a day. Three fourths (75%) of the adolescents had their own cell phones, compared to 45% in 2005 and 18% in 2004; notably, 58% of 12-year-olds had a cell phone. Just under three-fourths of all teens send text messages, translating to 88% of all teens with cell phones (Lenhart, 2010). The average teen sends/receives 50 text messages a day, although one-third send/receive approximately 100 texts a day or 3,000 a month (Lenhart, 2010). Given these statistics, it is hardly surprising that texting has now surpassed instant messaging as the most common mode of communication among teens. Eight percent of the teens in this survey visited virtual worlds, such as Second Life. The use of virtual worlds was more popular among younger teens than older teens, and more popular among teens than adults. Highlighting the “wired” nature of today’s youth, the survey found that the average youth has 3.5 gadgets out of 5 surveyed: cell phones, MP3 players, computers, game consoles, and portable gaming devices (Lenhart, 2010).

The biggest leap in online activity occurs between the 6th and 7th grades, according to the Pew report (Lenhart, 2010). Whereas 83% of 6th graders indicated that they used the Internet, 92% of 7th graders reported online activity. In a demonstration of technology trends, the 2005 Pew report noted that boys (particularly 6th grade boys) were much less active in their use of the Internet than girls. Whereas only 44% of the 6th grade boys reported going online, 79% of 6th grade girls reported using the Internet. Girls also were more likely than boys to use instant messaging. Seventy-eight percent of girls and 71% of boys said that they had tried instant messaging. Girls also tried instant messaging at an earlier age than boys. In the 2010 report, however, Lenhart found that boys and girls were equally likely to go online. Seventy-three percent of teens between the ages of 12 and 17 use social network sites, an increase of 18% since 2006 (Lenhart, 2010). Girls and boys were equally likely to use social networking sites. Only 8% of teens 12–17 reported using Twitter. Older teens were more likely than younger teens to use this social networking service, and, among older teens, girls reported being more likely to tweet than boys (Lenhart, 2010).

In 2000 and again in 2003, the Media Awareness Network (Wing, 2005) launched a series of research studies examining the online behavior of Canadian children and adolescents. In 2003, the organization conducted a series of focus groups with both parents and adolescents. Two years later, they administered a survey to 5,272 children in grades 4 to 11 to examine their online activities. Among other things, the study found that 23% of the children and youth had their own cellular phone. Twenty-two percent of school-aged children had Web cams. By the time they reached 11th grade, 31% had personal Web cams. Internet use tends to decline slightly once kids reach high school in part because most are driving or have friends who drive. Once they have the ability to see one another in person, they rely less on technology to keep in touch with one another. In addition, they are connecting with their friends differently, using cell phones more than computers at home. Eighty-nine percent of the respondents in grade 4 reported playing games online. As the ages of the children increased, the percentage that played games decreased and the percentage who used instant messaging increased. Across all age groups, instant messaging was ranked as the first choice of online activity by 62% of the girls and 43% of the boys. Of concern, only 16% of the respondents reported talking about their online activities with their parents.

The Canadian survey revealed some disturbing information about the kinds of sites that adolescents like to visit. Of the 50 favorite Web sites listed, nearly one-third included violent or sexual information. In Quebec, the most popular site among girls in grades 8 to 11 is Doyoulookgood.com. “On this Montreal-based site, users post photos, videos and information about themselves so others can vote on their looks. Members can search for people by age, starting as young as 13” (Wing, 2005).

The use of social networking sites, such as Facebook, MySpace, Xanga, LiveJournal, Formspring, and Nexopia has increased markedly in the last few years. Facebook is currently the most popular social networking site worldwide, with over 800 million active users. An active user is defined as someone who has logged into their Facebook account at least once within the previous month. Half of these active users log into their accounts daily. Across all users, people spend in excess of 700 billion minutes a month on Facebook (Facebook statistics, 2011)! Nexopia, the Canadian equivalent of Facebook and the largest social network site for youth in Canada, has a user base of approximately 1.2 million. Bebo (Blog early, blog often), similar to MySpace except affiliated more with schools and universities, and more likely to be used by teens, has seen similar rates of growth. Within its first year, Bebo acquired 25 million users (“Focus: Brave new world,” 2006). Currently, Bebo is the largest social networking site in the United Kingdom (“What is Bebo,” 2010). Formspring, which launched in November, 2009, uses a question and answer style format for users to network with one another. Askers can choose to remain anonymous as they ask questions that are then responded to by the user to whom they are directed. The questions and answers are then posted on the user’s profile. Users’ profiles can be linked to other social networking sites, such as Facebook and Twitter. Ernie Allen, President of the National Center for Missing and Exploited Children, said, in reference to adolescents posting personal information on social networking sites: “What they’re doing [when they post information about themselves online] is opening a window to people who may not have the best intentions” (Olsen, 2006b).

A survey conducted by the National Center for Missing and Exploited Children (NCMEC) and Cox Communications oriented toward online and wireless safety examined the online experiences of 655 children between the ages of 13 and 17. The survey responses showed that 72% of 13–17-year-old children have a personal profile on a social network site (“Teen online,” 2006, 2009). Sixty-two percent had posted photos of themselves on a blog or their social networking profile. Ninety-one percent listed a personal e-mail address, and 60% had a screen name that they used for instant messaging. Nineteen percent had engaged in sexting. Nine percent had sent a sext, 17% had received a sext, and 3% had forwarded a sext. One in ten of the individuals who had sent sexts had sent them to someone that they didn’t know. A similar survey conducted two years earlier with 1070 teens in the same age range found that 8% had had a face-to-face interaction with someone they had met over the Internet (a decrease from 14% in 2006). Sixteen percent said they were considering a face-to-face meeting with someone they had met online, a decrease from 30% in 2006. Sixty-nine percent had received a personal message from someone they didn’t know (“Cox Communications,” 2007; “Take charge,” 2006).

In a desire to examine the online presence of even younger children, the National Center for Missing and Exploited Children and Cox Communication’s Take Charge program subsequently administered a similar survey to 1,015 tweens ages 12–15, all of whom had access to the Internet. The findings reinforced the wired culture in which our youth live. The presence of children online more than doubled between the 8–10 and 11–12 age ranges. Girls showed more of an online presence than boys. Fifty percent of tweens ages 11–12 reported having a cell phone and 34% of tweens in the same age range had a profile on a social network site. Twenty-eight percent reported that they had been contacted via the Internet by someone that they did not know. Almost 20% did not tell anyone about messages that they had received from strangers (“Tweens and Internet,” 2011).

Not surprisingly, given that children and adolescents communicate with all sorts of people on the Internet, some of whom are friends and others of whom are strangers, experiences with the Internet and related technologies may be positive or negative. Profiles of children and youth on the Internet, and data on the types of information to which they are exposed while surfing the Internet, change rapidly. For example, in comparing data from the first Youth Internet Survey (YISS-1; Ybarra & Mitchell, 2004), and the second Youth Internet Safety Survey (YISS-2; Wolak, Mitchell, & Finkelhor, 2006), which were conducted approximately five years apart, researchers reported that the percentage of children and youth who reported receiving online sexual solicitations had decreased from YISS-1 to YISS-2, but the proportion who reported online harassment and unsolicited exposure to sexual images had increased. A disturbing note to this reported increase in the number of children experiencing online exposure to sexual material is the fact that an increased number of parents (55%) in YISS-2 reported the use of computer blockers, filters, and keystroke software programs, compared to YISS-1 (33%). So, despite these increased parental controls, the number of children and youth who reported unwanted exposure to sexual material continued to increase. Also disturbing, according to YISS-2 (Wolak et al., 2006) an increasing number of perpetrators of online harassment are friends or acquaintances of the victim: 46% in the YISS-2 survey compared to 28% in YISS-1. Furthermore, the proportion of respondents in YISS-2 (14%) who said that the individuals making online sexual solicitations were offline friends or acquaintances increased from YISS-1, by 3%.

Effects of Internet Use on Children and Youth

There is debate regarding the extent to which high levels of Internet use interfere with psychological functioning, particularly among children and adolescents. On the one hand, Internet use allows for the possible development of new relationships, and for the easy maintenance of existing friendships and relationships. Russell and his colleagues (2003) found that frequent Internet use broadened people’s social networks, particularly for people who were shy and socially anxious (see also, Gross, Juvonen, & Gable, 2002; Mazalin & Klein, 2008; McKenna &a...

Table of contents

• Cover
• PRAISE FOR PREVIOUS EDITION
• ABOUT THE AUTHORS
• Title page
• Copyright page
• FOREWORD
• PREFACE
• 1 INTRODUCTION
• 2 CHILDREN’S EXPERIENCES WITH TRADITIONAL FORMS OF BULLYING
• 3 WHAT IS CYBERBULLYING?
• 4 CURRENT RESEARCH ON CYBERBULLYING
• 5 WHAT PARENTS CAN DO
• 6 WHAT EDUCATORS CAN DO
• 7 LAWS AND POLICIES
• 8 CONCLUSION
• REFERENCES
• AUTHOR INDEX
• SUBJECT INDEX