Beloved Bachelor fan favorite Andi Dorfman tells the unvarnished truth about her engagement, her public breakup, and why looking for love on television is no paradise in this New York Times bestseller.
Millions of people tuned in to see Bachelorette star Andi Dorfman get engaged to her chosen suitor. But when the cameras turned off and the dust (or rose petals) had settled, Andi realized she was engaged to a man she’d known for barely two months. And as they endeavored to return to normal life, they discovered that happily ever after wasn’t as easy as it looked. In her own words, Andi delivers “plenty of surprise (and some disturbing) details” (Cosmopolitan) as she tells the whole truth about her entry into the Bachelor family, her experience on the show, and finally, what happened to make it all fall apart.
But this is much more than the diary of a very public breakup—Andi divulges her story along with some no-nonsense, straight-talking advice to other women dealing with their own romantic issues. In It’s Not Okay, Andi is the best friend we all wish we had, telling us the good, the bad, and the ugly to inspire us to always be true to ourselves and remember breakups may be hard, but it’s always going to be okay.

- 320 pages
- English
- ePUB (mobile friendly)
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Table of contents
- Cover
- Dedication
- Day 1: My Life Is Officially Over
- Day 2: It All Started with Free Drinks
- Day 2: Off I Go!
- Day 4: The Announcement
- Day 5: Self-Help Ain’t Helping
- Day 6: Tears and Sesame Chicken
- Day 8: The Ring Didn’t Mean a Thing
- Day 10: Alone Forever
- Day 13: The Fantasy Suite
- Day 15: Holy Hairy Legs
- Day 16: Daddy Knows Best
- Day 19: Namaste My Ass in Bed
- Day 20: Will You Marry Me?
- Day 23: Restraining Order
- Day 24: Mr. Regret
- Day 26: Let’s Talk About Sex, Baby!
- Day 28: Moving Out
- Day 29: Burn, Baby, Burn!
- Day 31: The Moment I Knew
- Day 32: The Master Asshole List
- Day 34: The Dreaded Text
- Day 35: Revenge
- Day 36: Mayday
- Day 38: Cupid Is Stupid
- Day 42: The Interview
- Day 44: If I Show Up Dead, Tell the Cops He Did It
- Day 45: Running Away
- Day 48: Chi-Town and the Ex
- Day 50: The Empty Proposal
- Day 53: Start Spreading the News
- Day 55: The Relapse
- Day 57: You Can’t Change History
- Day 59: The End
- Day 60: The Beginning
- Acknowledgments
- About Andi Dorfman
- Copyright
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