God's Design for Man and Woman

A Biblical-Theological Survey

Andreas J. Köstenberger, Margaret Elizabeth Köstenberger

• Publisher: Crossway
• Year: 2014
• Print ISBN: 9781433536991
• eBook ISBN: 9781433537028
• Topic: Theologie & Religion
• Subtopic: Christliche Theologie

Equipping a New Generation to Live Out God's Design

This thorough study of the Bible's teaching on men and women aims to help a new generation of Christians live for Christ in today's world. Moving beyond other treatments that primarily focus on select passages, this winsome volume traces Scripture's overarching pattern related to male-female relationships in both the Old and New Testaments.

Those interested in careful discussion rather than caustic debate will discover that God's design is not confining or discriminatory but beautiful, wise, liberating, and good.

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God’s Original Design and Its Corruption

Genesis 1–3

Have you not read that he who created them from the beginning made them male and female?

Jesus (Matt. 19:4)

“Begin at the beginning,” the King said, very gravely, “and go on till you come to the end: then stop.”

Lewis Carroll, Alice in Wonderland

Key Points

1. Genesis 1–3, cited by both Jesus and Paul, provides the foundational biblical teaching on men’s and women’s identities and roles.

2. Genesis 1 makes clear that humanity, male and female, was created in God’s image to rule the earth jointly as God’s representatives.

3. Genesis 2 indicates that men and women have different roles or functions in the fulfillment of God’s creation mandate to humanity to multiply and subdue the earth. The man is ultimately responsible for leading in the marriage and the fulfillment of God’s mandate, while the woman is his partner, his suitable helper. Different functions or roles don’t convey superiority or inferiority.

4. The Old Testament bears witness to several ways in which humanity compromised God’s design for marriage, such as polygamy, divorce, adultery, and homosexuality.

5. Even after the fall, God’s ideal for men and women continues unabated and constitutes the abiding standard for male-female relationships.

At a recent lunch stop at a Cracker Barrel on the way back from a family road trip north to Canada and New York City, we got into one of our lively family discussions. We were reflecting on the Cinderella Broadway performance the girls had just seen. One of our daughters mentioned that this Rogers and Hammerstein musical was a feminist version of the fairy tale. Though we didn’t all agree with this opinion, the topic of male-female roles and identities came up. In the middle of the discussion, our teenage daughter expressed her opinion that men and women are “equal.” She assumed we would all understand what she meant without further elaboration. Trying to tease out her thinking, we asked her in what way she thought women and men are equal since, after all, there are also some obvious differences! “Are there not also unique identities and roles associated with men and women being created unique?,” we asked. Our daughter retorted, “Well, of course, everybody knows that!” Andreas then talked about the man’s responsibility to provide for his family. Our teenage son quickly added that men who let their wives bear the main load of providing for the family are “wimps.” Trying to wrap up our discussion (our food was just about to be served), Andreas pointed out that many people in our culture believe that our male and female roles are simply determined by preferences and personal arrangements and that fewer and fewer people seem to base our male-female identities on the way in which we’ve been created by God.

Creation (Genesis 1–2)

You only have to look at the starry sky or a butterfly’s wings to see that God is a master designer. The psalmist exclaims,

O LORD, our LORD,

how majestic is your name in all the earth!

You have set your glory above the heavens. . . .

When I look at your heavens, the work of your fingers,

the moon and the stars, which you have set in place,

what is man that you are mindful of him,

and the son of man that you care for him?

Yet you have made him a little lower than the heavenly beings

and crowned him with glory and honor.

You have given him dominion over the works of your hands;

you have put all things under his feet. (Ps. 8:1–6)

The apostle Paul concurs: “For his invisible attributes, namely, his eternal power and divine nature, have been clearly perceived, ever since the creation of the world, in the things that have been made” (Rom. 1:20). God, our creator, has put an indelible imprint on all of his creation, whether the starry skies or his crowning work, the making of man and woman, which the Creator himself pronounced “very good” (Gen. 1:31).

What ought to give cause to much wonder and amazement, however, is also the cause of much consternation. A large part of humanity, in the first (and, sadly, also in the twenty-first) century, has set aside God’s design for men and women. As Paul continues in his epistle to the Romans,

So they are without excuse. For although they knew God, they did not honor him as God or give thanks to him, but they became futile in their thinking, and their foolish hearts were darkened. Claiming to be wise, they became fools, and exchanged the glory of the immortal God for images resembling mortal men. . . . Therefore God gave them up in the lusts of their hearts to impurity, to the dishonoring of their bodies. (Rom. 1:20–26)

We see that God’s design, in all of its beauty, wisdom, and goodness, is ignored at great peril. While God loves the man and the woman he has made, judgment awaits those who treat lightly the purpose for his creation. So whether our motive is the love of God or the fear of God, we should strive to rediscover and seek to live in accordance with his divine design.

What, then, is God’s design for men and women? As we will see, an engaging study of what Scripture teaches about God’s plan for males and females from beginning to end provides clear and abundant guidance on the purpose for our gender. We’ll start at the very beginning: the biblical account of creation (Genesis 1–3). This part of the Bible lays the foundation for God’s purpose in creating man and woman unique and different and shows the serious consequences of the fall on the male-female relationship.¹

After this, we will begin to engage the important matters of how these truths relate to our lives. We will also cull Israel’s history and demonstrate how the divine ideal continues unabated.² Later in the book, we will move on to the rest of the story and discover that God’s original plan is abiding, consistent, and missional.

Overview of the Creation Narrative

Before we delve into the teaching of Genesis 1–3 on biblical manhood and womanhood in greater depth, it will be helpful to catch a birds’ eye view of the scriptural narrative of humanity’s creation and fall into sin. The biblical creation story provides us with a wonderful, coherent presentation of God’s creation of the man and the woman according to his divine design.³ In the Genesis story, read as a continual narrative, we move from a general account of God’s creation to a more specific presentation focusing on the male-female relationship and then to the fall. Chapter 2 acts as a necessary link between chapters 1 and 3 and has often been compared to a zoom lens that focuses on the general presentation of creation in chapter 1 in greater detail.

Read as part of a consecutive narrative, Genesis 1 tells the story of God’s creation of the universe, culminating in the creation of humanity as male and female in God’s image (Gen. 1:26–27). Genesis 2, then, goes on to elaborate more specifically on God’s purpose and manner of creating the man and the woman and the divine design expressed in distinct male-female roles: the man is to serve as the leader while the woman has been created to come alongside him as his partner, his suitable helper (vv. 18, 20). We also learn that the fact that God made the man first constitutes a deliberate act and important indication of the man’s primary responsibility to God for the marriage relationship.⁴

Table 1.1: Basic Contents of Genesis 1–3

Chapter	Description
Genesis 1	God’s creation of the universe generally (including man and woman)
Genesis 2	God’s creation specifically of man and woman in relation to each other (zoom lens)
Genesis 3	Woman’s and man’s transgression of the Creator’s command (the fall)

Looking at Genesis 2 in greater detail, we see that following the creation of the first man, God then makes the woman. God’s purpose for creating the woman is to bring her to the man to alleviate his aloneness, to provide him with companionship, and to enable humankind to fill the earth and to help govern it for God. We see that the woman is the result of a unique creative act of God who fashioned her from a rib of the man, an act that sets her apart from the manner of creation of the animals. The way Scripture tells the story, the woman was created for a special purpose. She was created both from the man and for the man.

Following the dual creation narrative, then, Genesis 3 tells the story of an ominous role reversal at the fall of humanity where the Serpent (Satan) approaches the woman, who leads the man to join her in transgressing their Creator’s command. This turns biblical lines of authority on their head, according to which God rules over the man who is responsible to lead and care for his wife and together with her is given charge of the animal world.⁵ Consequently, God holds each party accountable and pronounces a series of judgments on the Serpent, the woman, and the man.

Created in God’s Image to Rule the Earth for God (Gen. 1:26–28)

We’ll pick up the creation narrative in chapter 1 at its climax:

Then God said, “Let us make man in our image, after our likeness. And let them have dominion . . . over all the earth. . . .”

So God created man in his own image,

in the image of God he created him;

male and female he created them.

And God blessed them. And God said to them, “Be fruitful and multiply and fill the earth and subdue it, and have dominion.” (Gen. 1:26–28)

Strikingly, at the outset of the passage, God emphatically announces his intention to make humanity in his own image.⁶ In verse 26, he declares his intention and purpose for creating humanity: to have dominion over all the earth as his representatives.⁷ In verse 27, the narrative switches from prose to poetry, each of the three lines registering an important point: (1) humanity has God as its source; (2) humanity bears resemblance to God; and (3) humanity exists in the plurality of male and female. Verse 28 records God’s blessing of humanity and his mandate for the man and the woman: to be fruitful and multiply and to fill the earth and subdue it.⁸ Let’s now briefly discuss some of the most salient p...

Table of contents

• Cover Page
• Title Page
• Copyright
• Dedication
• Contents
• List of Tables
• Introduction
• 1 God’s Original Design and Its Corruption (Genesis 1–3)
• 2 Patriarchs, Kings, Priests, and Prophets (Old Testament)
• 3 What Did Jesus Do? (Gospels)
• 4 What Did the Early Church Do? (Acts)
• 5 Paul’s Message to the Churches (First Ten Letters)
• 6 Paul’s Legacy (Letters to Timothy and Titus)
• 7 The Rest of the Story (Other New Testament Teaching)
• 8 God’s Design Lived Out Today
• Appendix 1 The Three Waves: Women’s History Survey
• Appendix 2 The Rules of the Game: Hermeneutics and Biblical Theology
• Appendix 3 Proceed with Caution: Special Issues in Interpreting Gender Passages
• Helpful Resources
• General Index
• Scripture Index