The following is a reconstructed ethnographic account of an incident experienced by a young anthropology student named Kati during a study visit to Exia. It introduces a number of key elements of the book. It is an instance of small culture formation on the go, where, in a passing encounter, she reflects on how she is positioned and positions herself within a wider cultural environment. Her intervention into her own thinking disturbs what might have become her dominant narrative of what she thinks is going on and therefore takes her into a deCentred third space. Kati is a fictional character who will reappear throughout the book, based upon a number of people we researchers have interviewed or observed.
That evening Kati ate a mango in the Exian countryside. Actually, she ate a lot of mangos in Exia, but this one was linked to a meaningful moment that frequently came into her mind in conducting her research work years after.
It was an evening in August and it was already dark. One of those evenings of the rainy season when everything seems uncertain because a storm might arrive suddenly. Kati and her group were used to eating all together in the centre of the courtyard under a gazebo that hosted all the social events taking place inside the village association that was hosting her.
That evening, after dinner, she was sitting alone in a corner of that same gazebo when her friend, Diak, came and sat next to her with this mango in his hand. He cut it into sections and they shared it, in silence, spending some minutes there, eating the mango without saying a word.
Kati did not speak his language, but had learnt French at school, and could therefore speak it with him and the people of the village who had also had the chance to study it. Although Diak spoke poor French, he usually tried his best to narrate his stories to her. They came to know each other through music. Some evenings, after dinner, he put his mobile phone in the middle of the courtyard and played music while everyone was chatting or looking at the sky above the savannah. Other times, after lunch, he took Kati’s mp3 player, put on the earphones and spent his time just listening to the music, with intense curiosity in his eyes.
The silence of that evening was not due to anything related to being speakers of different languages though. That silence was rather a new but perfect language between Diak and Kati that was perfectly suited to that specific moment. The next morning he had to leave the village, to start a new life in Europe. And while Kati was sad to see her friend leaving, she could also perceive how he wasn’t hiding from her his fear for this new experience and the sadness of leaving the village and the friends he grew up with.
If we think about migration as the human need to move somewhere else to find things you do not have in the place you usually reside, be it money, love, work or knowledge, Kati could also consider herself a temporary migrant in those days. She had left two months before to study transnational migration in that village, moving to a place she had never been before and whose language she did not speak. Of course, there were differences between their experiences and she was aware of this. For example, unlike Diak, she already had a return ticket, while he did not know when he would be able to return.
But in those months she came slowly to realise how she was an object of observation and prejudice from the people around, which in some moments, made her really feel a foreigner there. The first and easiest way through which people defined her was her being ‘white’ and a woman, though in other places there were people who she knew considered themselves ‘white’ in contrast to her. She certainly didn’t consider herself ‘European’, which was what the word they often used for her seemed to mean.
She knew that these things happen everywhere, because every individual risks falling into the trap of Othering, as well as being Othered. But it was exactly finding herself in the position of being Othered that made her start to understand the relevance of creating a space with people around to let the other know more about who you are, to push knowledge beyond the surface of categories and to manifest yourself as a specific person, with all your contradictions and layers of complexities.
She thus started to try to look at herself with the eyes of the people around her; and she felt this deep need to claim a space of interconnection with them, to increase the possibility of cutting across the categories of ‘foreign student’ and ‘Exian hosts’.
As soon as this dichotomy was evident to her and she intervened to disturb it, she realised that, while she was thought to be the one who was there to observe, she was actually the object of the study of the people she met, with no exception of Diak himself, who, while demonstrating curiosity about her journey and the place she had left, was preparing his departure with discretion, and without revealing his plan until the very last days.
It was not just on the evening of the shared mango, but on the evenings after, when Diak had already left and his funny jokes were no longer populating the courtyard, that Kati clearly understood how they had both something to study and explore in the other, but that this was not due to being ‘members’ of different cultures. It was instead linked to the resemblance between the experiences they were living or approaching to live, each one with its peculiarities, but, at the same time, similar in their way of involving the circuits of common feelings.
We have started with this event to demonstrate how an apparently simple and innocent event can disturb the common narratives that we construct to make sense of what we are doing, and to lead us into a deCentring perspective in which new meanings can be tested and investigated. Despite language and different national backgrounds and Kati’s perceived distance from the people of the village, Diak’s sharing of his story with Kati created the possibility of a thread that began to dissolve expected large culture boundaries. The unexpectedness of this thread, and the fact that Kati had to work to re-align her own positioning before she could appreciate it, brought the kind of disturba...