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THE CERTAINTIES OF DIFFERENCE AND THEIR DIFFICULTY
Desire and the symptom
Elizabeth Cowie
For Freud, womanâs desire was an enigma; writing to the French psychoanalyst Marie Bonaparte he famously declared that, âthe great question that has never been answered, and which I have not yet been able to answer, despite my thirty years of research into the feminine soul, is âWhat does a woman want?ââ (cited by Jones 1953: 421).1 Lacan, taking up Freudâs question in Encore, poses it in relation to womanâs enjoyment, her jouissance that he argues is other than phallic jouissance, which she also enjoys. Asking women about this other jouissance, âto try to tell usâ, he declares: âWeâve never been able to get anything out of them. So we call this jouissance by whatever name we can come up withâ (Lacan 1999: 75). What is addressed in this chapter is this questioning by both Freud and Lacan of woman as other and thus the enigma of her desire. Asking women questions, however, cannot advance knowledge of the unconscious of feminine desire, just as the child cannot fathom the m/Otherâs desire. For the question âWhat does a woman want?â is also the question âWhat does she want of me, that is, what am I for her?â Thus, Lacan suggests, the problem expressed in the question is the problem of the Other, âwoman being, in this case, equivalent to truthâ (ibid.: 127). For Lacan, however, the central truth that he insisted upon throughout his later work is that âIl nây a pas de rapport sexuelâ, âthere is no sexual relationshipâ; instead there is the possibility of love (2006: 147).2 In The Sinthome, Seminar XXIII, the consequences for the subject that the sexual relation does not exist are explored in relation to the psychoanalytic concept of the symptom (Lacan 2016: 68). It is here that Lacan introduces his new syllogism of the âsinthomeâ in his discussion of the writings of James Joyce, and through which he addresses the limitations of âgoing through the fantasyâ as an ending of analysis. Instead Lacan formulates the symptom-as-sinthome as a knotting of the Real, Imaginary and Symbolic. In this Seminar Lacan not only develops his conceptualisation of the Real but also addresses how art â the artifices of art â might be engaged through the symptom in relation to Joyceâs writing, while at the same time Lacan complicates the role of the phallus and the Name-of-the-Father. As a result, Lacanian analyst GeneviĂšve Morel suggests that Lacanâs theory of the symptom âallows us to think the relations between the sexes and the generations without necessarily referring to the Name-of-the-Father nor to the phallus, as transcendent norms of a symbolic orderâ (Morel 2005: xvi). While Paul Verhaeghe and FrĂ©dĂ©ric Declercq write, âthe Lacanian conclusion of the treatment (. . .) is a particular process that is situated entirely in the line of femininityâ (2002: 76).3
This chapter seeks to trace the complications for his account of sexual difference that Morel and Verhaeghe suggest that Lacan introduces here, and relate them to the story of femininity. For âfemininityâ is a âstoryâ, a construction, that all those who become placed as âfeminineâ find themselves within, and part of that story is the assumed interchangeability or equivalence of woman and femininity in the writing of both Freud and Lacan. It is a story, however, that remains incomplete, creating a gap that is the Real of knowledge. Lacan repeatedly returns to the question of femininity and the woman but he does so not to close the gaps, instead a certain âgappingâ, or incommensurability, appears as constitutive. Freud himself suggested that âif you want to know more about femininity, enquire from your own experiences of life or turn to the poetsâ (1933/1964: 135). I will be turning not to poets but to two film directors, Carl Theodor Dreyer and Jane Campion, to examine ways in which womanâs desire finds articulation in cinemaâs stories, drawing on Lacanâs re-thinking of the symptom in relation to femininity. I am drawing here on the discussions that I was part of in the 1970s and 1980s on feminine sexuality in the turn to psychoanalysis and Lacanâs re-reading of Freud, which were central for my book, Representing the Woman: Cinema and Psychoanalysis (1997). In my analysis of the representation of women in film I drew upon a psychoanalytic understanding of fantasy in its role in desire, identification and sexuality for male and female characters. I argued that for both men and women their sexual identification is neither singular nor a choice, rather it arises as a concatenation, a palimpsest, realised in the context of the contingency of the Other who responds to our demand for love. For one enacts the emplacements â both unconscious and conscious â of oneâs psychical history in relation to oneâs parental figures and oneâs encounter with the demands and desires â enjoined or prohibited â that they convey, consciously or unconsciously. This chapter returns to the question of desire and sexual difference in filmâs representations through Lacanâs concept of the sinthome.
Freud had acknowledged that there is an âuninterpretable navelâ to dreams and the unconscious,4 while Lacan called for a training in antiphilosophy for analysts,5 and in Encore he declared that âThe Discordance between knowledge and being is my subjectâ (1999: 120), but nevertheless acknowledges that âWe are still (encore) caught up in the insufficiency of knowledgeâ (ibid.). It is the âinsufficiency of knowledgeâ in relation to sexuality and to the categories of sexual difference that this chapter explores, for we might see in Lacanâs re-thinking of Freudâs ideas â with his graphs, mathemes and concepts â an attempt to wrestle with the uninterpretability Freud writes of, and the insufficiency of knowledge he laments. Charles Shepherdson has suggested that,
(2003: 141)
Taking up again the question of our psychical relation to sexual difference, to âsexuationâ as Lacan poses it, and the different relation of men and women to jouissance â as Lacan continued to do in his late Seminars â I suggest that femininity is as much an enigma for women as for men, inasmuch as âbeing feminineâ is something other than anatomical difference, or biology in the sense of hormones. Indeed Lacan himself comments, in The Psychoses, in relation to Freudâs case study, âWhat is Dora saying through her neurosis? (. . .) Her question is this â What is it to be a woman?â (1993: 175). Femininity is what is added to the biological difference of âbeing a womanâ in a performance, through gestures of movement and speech, in forms of response and through appearance: a masquerade.6 This is no less true for men, of course, and that it is equally an enigma â and a problem â is attested by the regular appearance of claims that masculinity is in crisis. At the same time the categories âwomanâ and âmanâ are not singular but involve further categories, not only in terms of age â for âgirlsâ are not-yet-fully âwomenâ â but also categories that are social, that is, relational: women as mothers, sisters, daughters, wives and workers. Being a mother or father to a son, or daughter, or being daughter or a son to a mother or father are each different kinds of being a woman, or a man, and each centres a relationship. Indeed, for Lacan what is central is that our subjectivity arises in relation to an Other and others through discourse: that is, in a social relation, which is the focus of his discussion of the âFour Discoursesâ in Seminar XVII. For language is trans-individual and speech, discourse, always implies â anticipates â another subject as addressee, and interlocutor.
How then, as Juliet Mitchell asked in a recent interview, âdoes the construction of sexual difference become so embedded that we experience it as who we are?â (2015: 115). Her book Psychoanalysis and Feminism (1974) presented Freud in a new and vital way for feminists in 1974, while in the collection of essays that she co-edited with Jacqueline Rose, she writes that for Lacan,
(Mitchell and Rose 1982: 26)
The account of femininity in both Freud and Lacan is of a construction, not as an essence or as simply biological. This also means that for Lacan there is no feminine outside language because, as Jacqueline Rose notes, first âthe unconscious severs the subject from any unmediated relation to the body as such (. . .) and secondly because the âfeminineâ is constituted in a division in languageâ (ibid.: 55).
At stake is how we think the âideologicalâ â the social organisation of difference that is usually addressed in terms of gender assignment â in relation to the unconscious formations that arise in relation to the constitutive splitting of the subject in its relation to lack, prohibition and desire.7 What arises is both an attributed sexed identity, and a psychological relation to difference and to sexuality. It is this that Jean Laplancheâs discussion, in his essay, âGender, Sex, and the Sexualâ emphasises, and that I want to draw upon here. He argues that gender â the social and linguistic identification of a difference of sex â precedes sexuality, but, he says, âYes, gender precedes sex. But far from organizing it, it is organized by itâ (2007: 215). Gender is the social assignment of difference, and Laplanche emphasises the primacy of the other, the social, in the messages of gender assignment both at an official level â the level of Foucaultâs discursive ordering â in the registering of the birth of a child who is always thereby sexed and, more importantly, by its carers. The babyâs being for others is not only as a boy or girl, but also as a son or daughter. But these messages assigning gender, Laplanche argues, are âalso carriers of many ânoisesâ, all those brought by the adults who are close to the child: parents, grandparents, brother and sisters. Their fantasies, their unconscious and preconscious expectationsâ (ibid.). Here Laplanche draws on a key element of his work in describing these messages from the other â mother or carer â as seductive but also enigmatic, as âpreconscious-consciousâ in which âthe parental unconscious is like the ânoiseâ â in the sense of communications theory â that comes to disturb and compromise the preconscious-conscious messageâ (ibid.). It is a gendered child that the parent addresses, but âtheir unconscious wishes also come to infiltrate gender assignmentâ. And, Laplanche suggests, it is âabove all what is le sexual in the parents that makes noise in the assignmentâ of gender and that âin the presence of the child, the adults ultimately come to reactivate their infantile sexuality above allâ (ibid.).8 For the child, he says, âGender is acquired, assigned, but enigmatic up to about fifteen months. Sex comes along to fix, to translate gender in the course of the second year (. . .) The castration complex is its centerâ. Laplanche also argues, however, that âThe certainty of the castration complex is maintained on the basis of ideology and on the basis of illusion, namely, in the early genital phaseâ (ibid.: 216, emphasis in original).9
Mustapha Safouan, a member of the Lacanian school, points out that:
(1990: 281, emphasis in original)
It is as signifier that the phallus comes to play its role as an ideal âprecisely, of that whose insufficiency is discovered for the boy and its nonexistence for the girl, at an early age, in an attribute of the fatherâ (ibid.: 280). Lacan (re)defines the phallus (which is not the penis) as the structural function of whatever âxâ the child hypothesises the paternal figure possesses making him the focus of the maternal figureâs desire, that is, the possession enabling the father to domesticate and control the motherâs otherwise unpredictable desire. If the Name-of-the-Father, as the O/other of the mother, âforbidsâ by standing in the way of the childâs wish for unlimited access to the mother, it is because until this intervention the mother is for the child not a woman,...