At this stage, the manager must first establish trust and communication through dialogue. One idea that works very well to break the ice is to ask the employee to share one or two hobbies or non-work-related topics that he or she knows well enough to teach others. Ask for a three-minute example. This provides insightful information that aids in relaxing the employee and allowing him or her to talk and the manager to listen. Most of the time a new employeeās time is spent listening and being overwhelmed with new information, so being encouraged to share in this way reduces anxiety, increases bonding, and provides the manager with the employeeās learning preference. This relates to the general systems theory, which has a powerful use in a business setting.
General systems theory, developed by biologist Ludwig Von Bertalanffy, states that knowing one part of a system enables us to know something about another part. A cross-sectional approach deals with understanding the patterns between the two systems. Once known, systems thinking can be applied to all types of systems. Said another way, general systems theory states that learning can be made much easier, and subsequently quicker if the manager attaches new material to the employeeās previously known material. In this manner, the person simply unpackages the metaphor he or she is already familiar with (e.g., golf, tennis, knitting, etc.) and adds the new skill to his or her mental filing system. All of us speak in metaphor, and itās invaluable to learn the subordinateās metaphors. If the person uses golf, then explain new lessons using golf metaphors; if skiing is the chosen sport, then reference skiing when explaining a new concept or task.
General systems theory tunes the manager into listening, and it is through listening that the manager can genuinely understand how to quickly and correctly manage a new employee and get a quicker return on the investment in that person. Building on general systems theory and taking it a step further allows one to build on the power of metaphor.
Metaphors are an excellent way of taking something known and comparing it to something unknown. If you use your words in this way, you could make difficult concepts clearer to those who might be struggling to understand them. For instance, people often get into a hurry and the faster they go the more mistakes they make. Thus, using a metaphor related to a hobby or sport the employee is intimately familiar with can help bridge this gap.
For example, letās assume the employee John gets his work done quickly but sloppily, with significant gaps in his research. During discussions around this issue, his boss Mike must provide additional guidance, do the research himself, or send John back to do it over. Mike has told John to slow down and think it through, but this hasnāt been effective. Another way for Mike to coach John would be to utilize Johnās love of golf. Mike might say, āWhat steps must a golfer take before he hits a drive off the tee?ā John would then begin to describe addressing the ball with the correct stance, focusing on the backswing, keeping eyes on the ball, leading with the hips, guiding the club with the leading arm, and driving through the ball. Only when all of this is done properly and in the right sequence, with the right timing, can the ball be hit accurately with the desired distance. Mike might respond by saying something like, āSo what youāre telling me is that preparation beforehand is far more important than the actual act of hitting the ball?ā When John agrees, Mike can use these steps as his metaphor to explain the preparation John must undertake before completing a project. In this way, Mike is helping John take something he know...