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What People Need from One Another
People need other people for every aspect of their lives. They are conceived through other people and they are dependent on others for their survival. Everything that they need but cannot make themselves must come from others. What they need to know and do not know yet must be learnt from others. People cannot do without each other. That is why they live together in large or small social arrangements: small family units or extended families, villages, neighbourhoods, societies and businesses, churches, unions and political parties, groups of friends and classes at school. The most comprehensive social arrangement is referred to simply as society.
1 People as interdependent beings
No one lives completely separately from other human beings. Even the hunter who roams the forest carries tools that someone else has made. At the end of the hunt he returns to the inhabited world and sells the hides of the animals he has shot or trapped to buyers, so as to be able to purchase all sorts of things that are unobtainable in the forest.
For it is impossible to make everything you need yourself, and everyone is therefore reliant on the products of others. Even something as simple as a hunting knife takes dozens of people to make it: someone to mine the ore, someone to melt down the iron ore into iron, someone to harden the steel and someone to forge the blade. And each of these people in turn needs tools and raw materials that others have made.
All these activities must be geared to one another, so that one person can go on working with the products that someone else has supplied. So a knife, or any product at all, embodies the concerted efforts of an entire network of people.
Similarly, no one can work out every problem unaided, or see beforehand all the knowledge and skills that will be needed in order to survive in the world. So every individual relies on fellow human beings to pass on this necessary knowledge and these essential skills. Children do not learn to speak automatically â they pick it up from their parents, and their brothers and sisters. Nor do toddlers automatically know what is good for them. They put all sorts of things in their mouths, and it takes them a long time to register what they are told â that some things are âedibleâ and others âdirtyâ or âpoisonousâ, that food may be âcleanâ or âuncleanâ.
Small children are dependent on others to take care of them, and a baby which is left to fend for itself will not survive for very long. In the event of illness or accident, and in old age, we are dependent on others to take care of us. When people are described as âindependentâ, it does not mean that they do not need anyone else; it means that they can pay for everything that is done for them, either with money or by doing something else in return. No one is independent. People cannot take care of themselves; at most they can ensure that others will take care of them.
These mutual dependencies mean that people are linked to one another. Social arrangements consist of people who are connected by mutual dependencies. In other words, social arrangements consist of interdependent people.
Social science studies people in the social arrangements they form with one another. That is what this book is about: about the origins and the workings of social arrangements, and about the changing patterns of dependence between people.
2 Conditions for human survival
What do people need in order to survive, and what do they need their fellow human beings for? To put it differently, what conditions are necessary for human existence? Certain conditions apply to almost all living creatures: they must have access to sufficient (but not too much) oxygen, the air temperature must not be too high or too low, and so forth. Physical conditions like these will not concern us here. We are concerned with conditions that make people dependent upon their fellow human beings, i.e. social conditions for existence:
1 All people need food every day;
2 They need shelter;
3 They need protection from enemies and predatory animals;
4 They need the affection of others;
5 They cannot do without knowledge about the surrounding world;
6 They must be able to control themselves.
The list could be extended and elaborated. But it sums up the main conditions that must be fulfilled for people to survive. How they are fulfilled, however, will differ enormously from one society to the next.
As long as the conditions for their existence are met, people scarcely stop to think about them. It is only when something is lacking, or when some threat is perceived, that they become aware of them: then they experience a need for food, for protection, or for affection. Although the conditions for existence are roughly the same for all people, the way in which people experience their needs may be very different.
People are dependent on others because they can only fulfil the necessary conditions for their continued existence together with other people. The ways in which they do so reflect the kinds of social arrangements they form with one another.
Food
Nowadays, even those people who do possess a garden are more likely to plant flowers in it than they are to grow potatoes or grain. Some families do keep a little plot of land to grow some of their own food. In general, however, people buy their food washed and weighed, processed and packaged in the shops, and sometimes they even have it served up to them in a restaurant. Even farmers, who certainly produce food on a large scale, eat very little of their produce themselves. They sell most of the harvest, and use the money âjust like anyone else â to do their shopping at the butcherâs, the bakerâs and the greengrocerâs. While modern farmers tend to produce a great deal, they produce a great deal of the same thing; for a varied diet they purchase their food elsewhere.
In a modern society, then, people are completely dependent on others for their food: dependent on shopkeepers, who in turn rely on auctioneers and wholesalers, who obtain their wares from growers, manufacturers and importers. Thus, everyone is dependent on others for their food supply, but not on any one particular individual, for buyers can always decide to take their trade elsewhere. Nowadays, there are fewer and fewer farmers producing the food for the rest of the population, who do not themselves produce food but are occupied with other things. Less than a hundred years ago, almost one-third of the working population of Europe was engaged in agriculture or fishing; now the figure is under 5 per cent. And it was only a few decades ago that many factory workers had vegetable gardens at home, and kept chickens, rabbits or a goat. So their families were partly self-sufficient for their food, rather than being totally dependent on shopkeepers.
In traditional agriculture, a farmerâs family lived almost entirely off the land, and had little left to exchange or sell. This is still the normal pattern of life for the rural population in large parts of the world: farming families that eat everything they grow and grow everything they eat. These house-holds, as they meet their food requirements themselves, are not â for their food â dependent on others. But it follows that the individual members of such a family are all the more dependent on each other: to work the land, to fetch in the harvest, to care for the animals and to prepare the food. The small children are dependent on their parents, and the grandparents on their children. (This is why people in such countries often want to have large families, to ensure that they will be cared for in their old age.) Such farming families are therefore extremely dependent on just a few people âtheir relatives.
Since the variety of food available has also increased, people can make choices and develop their own taste and style. This gives rise to wider variations between people within a society, and individuals can adopt distinctive styles of eating.
The pattern of dependence within a society apparently changes to reflect the way in which the food supply is arranged. The network of dependencies surrounding the food supply stretches much further in present-day society, and connects far more people than before, at every intersection.
Shelter
People must be able to protect themselves from heat and cold, from wind and rain, and from vermin. This they do in two ways: with clothing (which they carry about with them on their bodies) and with a dwelling (which generally remains in one place). In some regions people cannot go a single day without clothes or a roof over their heads, while in others people scarcely need such protection at all. This obviously has to do with the climate and season.
Spinning, weaving and sewing were all traditionally womenâs work, which meant that men and children were dependent on women for their clothing. The material was made from sheepâs wool, cotton or flax. So farming families could take care of these needs themselves. But when it came to dwellings, stables and sheds, things were generally tackled differently in traditional agricultural societies. To put up these buildings and structures required the help of neighbours. The assistance would be repaid when the neighbours in turn needed a new house to be built. This repayment in kind, or mutual assistance, linked together households that were fairly independent for their food supply in a larger network of dependencies. People who had exerted themselves for their neighbours had to hope and trust that these neighbours would fulfil their obligations when it was their turn to do so.
Nowadays, very few people build their own houses. Other people are always needed for this task, but neighbours no longer enter into the picture. Houses are designed by architects and built under the supervision of building contractors by bricklayers, carpenters, electricians and plumbers â in short, by skilled workers who have made this skill into their paid occupation. The houses they build are offered to others for sale or for rent. The builders do not work because they must return a service to someone; usually, they do not even know who will be living in the new house. They work because they receive wages in the form of money, which they can use to buy food and clothing and to rent or buy a house of their own. This is how a money economy works. Because people all apply themselves to a particular type of work or product, which they supply indirectly to others for money, people do not have to use everything they make; by the same token, they can use things without having to make them. The money they receive for their own products can be used to purchase the products of others. So the work to be done is divided up among countless specialists: this is the division of labour in society. The division of labour and the money economy make it possible to use things without producing them oneself, and they also make it necessary for everyone to produce something â not for the purpose of using it, but in order to gain money to buy other peopleâs products. This extends the network of dependencies still further: as far as the money goes.
Protection
People may find their existence threatened from various sources, not only by a shortage of food, by cold weather or storms, but also by germs, predators and other people. For most modern people, lions and tigers are attractions to be viewed at the zoo or on safari, but once they constituted a direct threat. Only a hundred years ago, wolves and bears regularly claimed victims in sparsely populated areas of Europe and America, and tigers are feared even today in the peasant villages of South Asia. In prehistoric times, the hunting of large wild animals was in effect a war waged by people against other animal species. To track down those animals and kill them, the hunters had to be able to rely on one another and to harmonize their actions with great precision: coordination was essential. And after the hunt, they had to agree about how to divide up the spoils. But many tens of thousands of years ago, humans triumphed over other species in the fight for existence, driving the large predators into inaccessible corners of the world. Most of these species are now even threatened with extinction by humans.
Since that battle was won, the greatest threat to people has come from two sides: from germs, which can cause disease, and from other people, who may try to take someone elseâs life or property. For protection against germs, people are nowadays dependent on medical practitioners. And for protection from robbers or enemy soldiers they also rely on their fellow human beings: to ward off armed robbers and assailants they need armed guards or police, and to repel enemy forces they need forces of their own.
When people first settled in one place to work the land, they became especially vulnerable to attack by other people looking for a chance to plunder the crops in their fields, their cattle or their stores. In general, the more productive a society is, the more vulnerable it becomes. Many peoples abandoned agriculture â or even decided not to try it âbecause they knew the yield would arouse the envy of pillaging neighbours. One band of warriors would drive out another to claim the spoils for itself. In the course of time, this band ceased to plunder at random; instead it would impose a fixed duty on the peasants in the area â a tribute âand keep other marauders away. In this way, the peasants and the warriors became dependent on one another for tribute and protection.
So relationships of dependence do not only arise when people cooperate in some way; they will often develop between two groups both living in conflict with a third group. These dependence networks based on tribute and protection grew into military-agricultural societies covering vast areas and containing many hundreds of thousands of people.
Affection
People are also unable to do without the affection and regard of their fellow human beings. Very small children who are given enough to eat and drink and are laid in their cots covered with warm blankets can nevertheless be stunted in their development or become ill if there is no one to cuddle them and play with them. Experiments are not conducted with human babies, but there have been studies of the inmates of childrenâs homes who were fed and changed but not cuddled or spoken to. These children became âinstitutionalizedâ. They failed to develop properly, proved little resistant to disease, became despondent and apathetic, and lost all interest in their surroundings. That children â and adults too â need love and friendship from others is something that everyone knows, but that it is a necessary condition for survival is sometimes forgotten.
People also need the regard of their fellow human beings. They see themselves âthrough the eyes of othersâ â as they think they are seen. In this way they form a self-image, which is determined by what they think other people think of them. They do not worry about everyoneâs opinion, but single out people from their past and present surroundings who are important to them. Thus people are also dependent on others for something as personal as their self-image or identity.
When people do something that they believe will attract the censure of others, they feel a sense of shame. They wish âthe earth would swallow them upâ so that they did not have to âfaceâ their fellow human beings. People who feel that they have sunk very deep in the regard of others, and no longer command any respect, become extremely depressed and may even commit suicide. This also happens when a loved one is lost. Affection and regard can thus both be a matter of life and death.
People do their best to win the affection of others, in all sorts of ways. They try to become rich and famous, to rise to a high position or to distinguish themselves in sports, science or the arts. They do so partly for the pleasure it gives them, but also because they need the regard and affection of others.
The people with whom an individual maintains bonds of affection seldom form a very extensive network. There are generally only a few âsignificant othersâ â loved or respected persons in the immediate surroundings, and people from the past who still play an important part in the personâs memory and imagination. The approval or rejection of people who are somewhat...