When we try to get a fix on the self in order to talk about it, we find psychoanalytic authors (as well as neuroscientists and philosophers) in a jumbled confusion of self, selves, bodies, and self-representations. As if that werenât enough, there are more problems. Experientially, most of the self is wrapped up with consciousness and has been with us in that capacity for a very long time. Then there is the problem of the relations of the self with its world. This too is complicated by the fact that we mostly experience ourselves autocentrically (Schachtel, 1959) as quite separate from others and unique, since our experience of other selves is different. Sullivan (1938/1971a, 1950/1971b), in an oft-referenced comment, observes that any such thoughts of uniqueness are entirely illusory. But I think that he misses the point. It is not that most of us not of a narcissistic bent do not know that there are other people around who are quite like us (a kind of normative knowing), but rather that our means of knowing and perceiving them results in a different kind of awareness than we have of ourselves. What, then, have psychoanalysts made of this jumble?
The self in psychoanalysis
To begin contemporaneously and then work backwards, Stephen Mitchell (1991) was aware of the definitional problem and lack of consensus surrounding it.
Stern (1997) illustrates the problem when he describes Sullivanâs ideas about the self as involving âmultiple and discontinuous selves or self-statesâ and âmost particularly the idea that a self or self-state can be understoodâ (p. 147, italics added) in terms of multiple interpersonal fields. The problem is with the âors.â This particular conjunction means to say that selves and self-states are equivalent, that they have fundamental properties in common; they do not. Where, then, is the self located, what is the nature of its states, of its multiplicity, of its representations, and where do they reside?
What Mitchell (1991) and Stern (1997) are most concerned with is defining the self as a relational self, inseparable from its interpersonal field. Bromberg (1996), Mitchell, Stern, and Sullivan (1938/1971a, 1950/1971b) share the view that the concept or the experience of a unified self is entirely illusory. It is worth noting that none of them offer us a definition of what a self might actually be. Stern (1997) goes so far as to posit a âmultiple-self-theoryâ (p. 149), to wit, that selves are multiple and discontinuous. He further attributes widespread acceptance for such a hypothesis. We will have to see. Although they are able to free the self from consciousness as James (1893/2007) was unable to do, there remain two fundamental problems that cause these authors difficulty: navigating the real distinction between self and self-representation that they blur, and the location of the self.
Despite these assertions, the radical ego psychologists of the mid-twentieth century better understood the problems of a psychical self than many authors today. Rapaport (1957/1967) was very much aware of both the distinction between and the difficulties inherent in the concepts of self and self-representation.
The self in subjective experience is something which can observe itself. [The problem is that] The self will have to be so defined in the psychological apparatus that it is observable by an ego function which is at the same time defined as a subsidiary organization within the self. [Yet] The self cannot simply be re-defined. It is a concept that has been with man for a long time⌠. [Instead] the self will have to be so formulated within the psychological apparatus that it is amenable to observation, though not necessarily to full inspection, because many parts of it may be, like Eriksonâs identity, unconscious.
(p. 689, italics added)
Rapaport, unlike many authors who consider the self and some of its properties without actually defining it, gets most of it right. He acknowledges its murkiness, its relations with narcissism and identity, and is not as ready as some (Bromberg, 1996; Mitchell, 1991; Stern, D. B., 1997; Sullivan, 1950/1971b) to abandon its common usage. The one thing he does not consider, as other authors with the exception of James (1893/2007) do not, is the possibility that the self might not reside within the psychic apparatus, and what might follow from an acknowledgement of a different location. I would posit such a change in location to be unavoidable.
George Klein (1976), in a rather business-like way, dispenses altogether with a self-representation. The self is the single psychic apparatus of control, âthe focus of which is either an integration experienced in terms of a sense of continuity, coherence, and integrity, or its impairment, as cleavage or dissonanceâ (p. 8, italics added). As far as the question of how conscious or unconscious of itself the self might be, Klein observes (as he does about other psychic processes) that it is as conscious of itself (or not) as it chooses or as it is compelled by internal or external circumstances to be.
Schafer (1976) viewed the widespread interest in the self appearing in the work of mid-century psychoanalytic authors as arising out of a growing sense of failure in what was then standard psychoanalytic theory and technique. He observed, âin recent decades particularly, many psychoanalysts have become increasingly dissatisfied with the apparent remoteness, impersonality, and austerity, as well as inordinate complexit...