CHAPTER 1
History as Human Relationship
No universal history leads from savagery to humanitarianism, but there is one leading from the slingshot to the megaton bomb.
âTheodor Adorno, Negative Dialects
A STARTING POINT
The story of Western culture is, according to conventional wisdom, a story of progress, growth, and development. Western culture it is said, has been a grand experiment, wildly successful in its ability to transform the natural resources of a continentâand a globeâinto the finished material an advanced civilization requires, such as automobiles, computers, military hardware, medical technology, and common consumer goods. Not long after the first European settlers established themselves on the American continent, the story of the American experiment began to circulate as story. We told it to ourselves while at church, at home, at work, and at rest, and of course, we told it to our children. Words and ideas such as God, destiny, freedom, frontier, enlightened self-interest, and technological progressâalong with many othersâwere invoked in order to justify and extend the story of Western culture as a process that would, ultimately, engulf the ânewâ world. First the Bible and later science became supported and defended by what appeared to be the Americanâs âGod-givenâ right to dominate and subjugate.
That all would share in what became known as the âAmerican dreamâ was part and parcel of the American mythos and as a result, helped to justify the exportation of the American ideology from coast to coast. Whatever human exploitation or habitat destruction that resultedâor resultsâin the exportation of American ideology wasâand still isâaccording to conventional wisdom, acceptable and even, if the truth be known, inevitable. The destruction of the rain forests, for instance, is the price we all must pay for progress, civilization, and inexpensive fast food, or so the story goes.
The exploitation of workersâoften childrenâin places like Indonesia, China, and India is, according to the American ideology, the necessary price the dominant culture must pay in order to keep its economic house in order, for cheap labor overseas keeps American inflation low and the Western consumer shopping. Moreover, as the story goes, cheap labor is good for first-world economies and, in the long run, for developing nations as well, for in sewing our shirts and making our childrenâs toys, developing nations participate in the âglobal economyâ from the ground up. The ostensible logic is that soon the developing nations will become full partners in a global culture in which all players see eye to eye, in which all players have equal opportunity. Almost four hundred years have passed since the Pilgrims colonized America, and yet the story remains remarkably familiar: the American state, be it theocratic or economic, will lead by example and represent the leading edge of what an enlightened community can become.
Yet the self-same story that placed the Pilgrims and Puritans at the epicenter of their universe placed the Native Americanâamong othersâat its outer edge, casting the indigenous native as the perennial other and, as such, Godâs tool to deepen His peopleâs commitment to their faith. God made the âsavageâ particularly susceptible to alcohol and smallpox for a reason. It seemed obvious to men such as John Winthrop, William Bradford, and even Benjamin Franklin that domination and subjugation were a part of Godâsâor Natureâsâappointed way in the ânewâ world, just as it had been in the âold.â
The nature of the relationship between the colonists and the Native Americansâas well as between so-called first- and third-world cultures todayâactively prohibits the growth and development of the âotherâ culture, except along the lines of the more âcivilizedâ culture. For example, developing nations today struggle to become like the West in two ways: they desire economic power and, more often than not, weapons of mass destruction. If not the first, then the second path offers a way for developing nations to establish credibility defined as it is by the dominant ideology of Western culture. Both paths, however, spell doom for the human species and for the global habitat. If peace is contingent upon economic parity, that is, of âraisingâ developing nations to the standard of living Americans have grown used to, then peace may prove to be too expensive for Western culture to support. As populations rise around the worldâeven as Western populations are projected to remain largely flatâthe twenty-first century will witness more and more people demanding their share of the progress and comfort enjoyed by the West, and rightly so, given the exportation of American ideology and the âsuperiorâ way of life it implicitly and explicitly celebrates.1
Sharing the wealth has never been a part of the American experiment. What has been a part of the dominant ideology of Western culture is the belief in the rugged individual who makes for himself the world he desires. If this belief is put into practice by India, China, and other growing populationsâ and it is in practice in many ways alreadyâthe resources of the global habitat will be stretched beyond its ability to sustain itself. Admittedly, no one knows how many human beings can fit on the head of this pin called earth. Even so, at six billion and counting, most signs point to high probability of another doubling of the global population sometime in the twenty-first century.
As natural resources continue to become strained with continuing global population growth, political tensions will naturally rise, in which case economic parity as a path to political credibility will give way to what may prove to be a shorter, cheaper path to global credibility, a path celebrated by American culture from its very beginnings: military technology, especially in the form of weapons of mass destruction. In 1998 India and Pakistan revealed their own nuclear capabilities, demonstrating yet again that the ability to destroy entire continentsâand perhaps the entire global habitatâwith a handful of nuclear bombs continues to be a temptation that developing nations have a hard time resisting.
As if it werenât enough to ask the reader to take this doomsaying seriously, I want to complicate things even further by arguing that the predilection we have for ever-intensifying expressions of destruction is not the product of human nature but rather a predictable consequence of a style of human culture produced and reproduced in an ever-more-intensifying way over the past four hundred years, with roots dating back to the Agricultural Revolution some ten thousand years ago.2 The way in which the adult invents the childâand so reproduces the dominant cultureâis key to understanding the history that leads from the slingshot to the megaton bomb, for the production and reproduction of our style of human culture occur first and foremost in our style of human relationships, which is first experienced by the child at the hands of the adult. The adult invents the child and constructs the world.
The stories we tell our childrenâand tell ourselves about the childâare my primary concern in this book, for in these stories a culture confirms itself and so reproduces itself. These are no innocent things, these childrenâs stories; rather, their innocence is an ideological projection by which we ignore their implications, their meanings, and the larger story they tell, for adults write the childrenâs books. The child is always already faced with an adult reification of the world presented as âneutralâ and âobvious.â Childrenâs stories speak directly to the nature of the human relationship that produced them. If we want to understand the way in which a culture envisions itself, we might look no further than the stories adults tell and retell to their children. With this in mind, this study explores only those childrenâs stories that were unquestionably popular: from the New England Primer to the fairy tales of the Brothers Grimmâs, from Alice in Wonderland to Walt Disneyâs Pinocchio, from Maurice Sendakâs Where the Wild Things Are to the PBS show Barney, understanding the way in which a culture reproduces itself through its children requires that the texts by adults for children actually reach a wide audience.
Seeing childrenâs stories as a cultural reproduction of the relationship between the adult and the childâdetermined as it is by the unconscious ideology harbored by the adultâoffers a way of seeing diverse forms of childrenâs literature, human relationships, the story of Western culture, and the production and reproduction of the dominant ideology of Western culture as diverse expressions of the same story.
According to Louis Althusser, a cultureâs ideology is the determining psychodynamic phenomenon by which human beings become âsocial subjects.â It follows that the rules by which social subjects interact produce lived relationsâthat is, relationships governed by an ideology that manifests itself in the practice, or the pedagogical expression, of those ideological assumptions, many of which are unconscious and invisible, even to the participants themselves. This is nowhere more true than when the adult interacts with the child. According to Althusser, social subjects are connected to the dominant relations of productionâthe material expression of a culture, its jobs, its economic base, its state institutions, and so onâand so, social subjects inadvertently reproduce the dominant culture as a result of the lived relations determined by the structure imposed on them by âthe dominant relations of production.â
Understanding ideology as an affective process does not deny ideology its cognitive content, but rather shifts the focus from the individualâs intellectual development to the individualâs lived practices in human relations, practices that are, quite frequently, determined solely by the adult. Where the individual first learns his or her way of practicing human relations, then, becomes of primary concern to an affective theory of ideology. Further, the development of an affective theory of ideology requires an understanding of how affective and cognitive experiences impact on the biological system, and how this impact leads to the reproduction of the dominant culture in and through the individualâs conscious and unconscious mind, for it is the expression of and through that mind that structures human relationships, and so reproduces the dominant culture. The production and reproduction of the dominant culture require the production and reproduction of the dominant ideology as a necessary prerequisite, and this occurs in the relationship between the adult and the child, as the child learns to forget the felt experiences of the real conditions of her existence and then substitute for them an imaginary idea of her existence. âUnfortunately,â Althusser writes, âthis interpretation leaves one small problem unsettled: why do individuals âneedâ this imaginary transposition of their real conditions of existence in order to ârepresent to themselvesâ their conditions of existence in imaginary, that is, in ideological forms?â3
THE DETACHMENT CHILD
From the infantâs first days, ideology interrupts his ability to meet basic biological needs: namely, in the first months of life, attachment to the mother remains a biological necessity, until the infant signals a readiness to separate from the mother. Ideology interrupts and structures the relationship of the adult and the child in the form of technology, medical science, and the belief in the salvific force that technology and science supposedly embody. Yet for the infant, technology augers something other than salvation. Technology in the form of baby formula, rubber nipples, cribs, intercoms, and even strollers goes hand in hand with premature detachment from the mother and the resultant emotional and physical deprivation. Ideology goes hand in hand with detachment and abandonment. Baby formula, nurseries, cribs, intercoms, and other tools that facilitate physical and emotional detachment from the infant influences the childâs development in profound ways and makes difficult, if not impossible, the childâs attempt to navigate a separation from the mother when an earlier state of oneness outside the womb never fully prevailed. There can be no separation without the childâs first having experienced attachment.4
Children have been prematurely detached from their mothers and fathers for millennia, but not everywhere. Jean Liedloff, in The Continuum Concept, makes the point quite clearly that other cultures, cultures described by Daniel Quinn as âLeaverâ cultures, have a completely different way of understanding what they mean when they say âus.â For the âLeaverâ culture, âusâ includes the subject and the object, the adult and the child, the self and the other. Western dualism and its cultural manifestations maintain a gap between subject and object, knower and known, and in this gap posits a âuniqueâ and âindividualâ personality often at war with everything else around it, including itself.
Detachment parenting is a distinctly cultural phenomenon practiced and perfected in particular by Western child-rearing ideologies for so long that it has become an ambient reality, an ideological obviousness. Blaming the child for adult detachment is a central element of this tradition. Western history might be readâand will be read in this bookâas one long, intensifying series of responses to the suffering of emotional deprivation that the adult inflicts upon the child, and the child then inflicts upon the world.
LOOKING BACKWARD
Consider the book of Genesis. As text, it contains stories that define the Western mind. After creating Adam, God sets him in the Garden and gives him some rules to live by:
Then the Lord God took the man and put him in the garden of Eden to till it and care for it. He told the man, âYou may eat from every tree in the garden, but not from the tree of the knowledge of good and evil; for on the day that you eat from it, you will certainly die.â (Gen. 2:15â17)
Soon after, the Lord God gives Adam a helper, Eve, âand both were naked and were not ashamed.â
In spite of their ostensible happiness in the Garden of Eden, Eve chooses to disobey God, having first been led astray by the Devil dressed up as a snake, and so indulges her appetite and invites Adam to do the same. When God discovered their disobedience,
He said, âthe man has become like one of us, knowing good and evil; what if he now reaches out his hand and takes fruit from the tree of life also, eats it and lives forever?â So the Lord God drove him out of the Garden of Eden ⌠He cast him out. (Gen. 3:22â24)
According to the Judeo-Christian tradition, Adamâs sin defined the human race as a fallen race. Among the lessons we learn from the Book of Genesis one of the most ambient and so invisible has to do with the child: there is nothing worse in the history of the universe than the childâs disobedience of the father. The childâs disobedience is the seed and source for all human misery, and even the source for death itself. Finally, the childâs misery is, according to biblical myth, the childâs own fault. The child is wayward and destructive. Hence Solomon reminds his adult audience that to âspare the rod is to spoil the child.â
That the story of Adam and Eve may have been ideological propaganda for a dominant culture that produced it should not be ignored. For, as the agriculturists began to dominate Mesopotamia long before the books of the Old Testament were written, they required a source of labor to till their fields and bring into submission other uncultivated lands. The child undoubtedly offered one of the quickest, cheapest sources for a farmer in need of inexpensive labor, hence the biblical injunction: âHappy is the man whose quiver is full of them.â
In one sense, then, God sets His children up to fail and thus justifies His treatm...