Wanted sex, good sex and right to enjoy sex is not something that is covered in many intervention programmes. All I can say is that sexual reproductive health activities concentrate on ABC and family planning, in other words, more of the shock tactics type of education. How do we expect young women to understand the importance of consensual sex and negotiating skills if education is only limited to prevention of pregnancy, STIs, and sex being a no go area in many societies?
(Namibian participant, Young Women’s Dialogue, in International Community of Women Living with HIV/AIDS, April 13, 2004)
Development representations: bad sex and gender stereotypes
The development industry has emphasized the dangers of sex and sexuality. This negative approach to sex has been filtered through a view of gender which stereotypes men as predators, women as victims, and fails to recognize the existence of transgender people.
Women as victims of bad sex …
Within the development discourses of sex as a problem, women are positioned as victims of bad sex, in line with Chandra Talpade Mohanty’s analysis of victim representations of “third world women” in her now renowned piece, “Under Western Eyes: feminist scholarship and colonial discourses” (Mohanty 1991), which, sadly, is still relevant. In her publication, Mohanty considers a series of writings by “first world” feminists on subjects such as female genital mutilation and women in development. The texts she considers consistently define women as objects of what is done to them, and as victims of either “male violence,” “the colonial process,” “the Arab familial system,” “the economic development process,” or “the Islamic code.” An image is constructed of a homogeneous and victimized population of Third World women. Mohanty recognizes that this homogenizing includes sexuality, erasing “all marginal and resistant modes and experiences. It is significant that none of the texts I reviewed in the … series focuses on lesbian politics or the politics of ethnic and religious marginal organizations in third world women’s groups” (Mohanty 1991: 73).
A powerful current version of this discourse of women as victims is about women’s absolute vulnerability to HIV/AIDS due to male violence and economic coercion. For example, at the time of writing, the most frequently downloaded news story on the UNIFEM HIV/AIDS portal reports that the HIV/AIDS pandemic: … has killed more people (mostly women) than World Wars I and II and
This piece does reflect important aspects of reality. It is true that many women are pressured into unsafe sex by violence or economic dependency. I do not in any way want to undermine the hugely important work against this violence and coercion. However, the emphasis on violence and gender inequality as the causes of unsafe sex only presents half the picture. There’s an underlying idea here that men have total power in sex while women are just trying to impose damage limitation while we “lie back and think of England”2 or some other appropriate patriotic love object (and that women only ever have unsafe sex because we lack power to negotiate with male partners, never due to our own desires). Do women really have no desire, agency or room for maneuver? Do women have no pleasure or hope of pleasure in sex?
Sylvia Tamale (2005) has challenged portrayals of African women as simply victims of sexual oppression through her research on the Ssenga – a tradition among the Baganda people in Uganda where the paternal aunt takes on the task of educating her nieces about sex. Tamale’s research shows that while the institution ofSsenga can reinforce patriarchal power over women’s bodies, it can also present new opportunities for women to challenge control of their sexualities. Many Ssengas in their contemporary form promote messages about women’s autonomy and economic independence, and some instruction includes lessons in oral sex, masturbation, and female ejaculation. Tamale also notes the pleasure-enhancing effects for both women and men of the extension of the labia minora,3 which the World Health Organization has lumped together with harmful forms of female genital mutilation (Tamale 2005).
The danger of the discourse of “women as victims of bad sex” is not just the crushing of any space for discussion of or mobilization around women’s pleasure. Dangerous convergences take place between certain feminist positions aiming to protect women from sexual violence and conservative forces concerned with women’s chastity. This has already been observed in several instances: feminist anti-pornography activists making alliances with right-wing groups in the West in the 1980s (Rubin 1984); some Indian feminists’ images of Indian women as chaste and vulnerable to sexual exploitation echoing the Hindu right’s portrayal of virtuous Indian womanhood (Kapur 2002); and the “unholy alliance” between some feminist groups and the Bush administration in the mobilization against prostitution and trafficking (Crago 2003). Such discourses around protecting women from exploitation – sexual and otherwise – have also been drawn upon by the US right to justify the invasion of Afghanistan and Iraq (Petchesky 2005).
Men as perpetrators of bad sex …
The flipside of the “women as victims of bad sex” discourse is the “men as sexual predator” one. Both the global feminist and the neocolonialist enterprise become white women saving brown women from brown men.4 Just as Third World women are portrayed as homogeneous, Third World men are portrayed as monolithic, heterosexual, and as perpetrators of sexual oppression of women. The multiple and diverse forms of masculinity, and differentials in men’s power, are ignored. Ouzgane and Morrell (2005) argue that in much of the existing literature on gender in Africa, men have tended to be overlooked, taken for granted, or treated as a unified, homogeneous category.
In 2003, the US congress passed the Global Emergency AIDS Act. Gary Barker describes how:
Some men do fit the stereotypes of sexual predator. However, where men diverge from this image, their experiences are erased. Men have been victims of sexual violence in large numbers, and sexual violence against men has been used as a weapon of war and intimidation – for example in the wars in former Yugoslavia in the 1990s, and in the anti-Muslim pogroms in Gujarat, India in 2002, yet these incidents have been under-reported and did not make the media (Petchesky 2005).
This silence on men’s sexual victimization has been dramatically broken with stories of the US military’s sexual torture of prisoners in Abu Ghraib prison in Iraq. Now added to the relentless images we see of men attacking women are photos of men being tortured, sexually and otherwise, by women as well as men. Petchesky (2005) argues that the reason sexual violence inflicted on men and by women became visible at this point was not only because of the availability of new technologies (digital cameras, e-mail, and Internet), but because US intelligence interpreted sexual violence, and treating men as feminized and homosexualized, as particularly humiliating – both in their own American patriarchal and homophobic frame of reference, and also in their understanding of Muslim and Arab cultures. As such, publicizing such images multiplied the humiliation around the world. Thus while men became visible as victims, this portrayal emerged precisely because it served a deliberate function of showing these men as “less than” men. Where men retain their masculinity they remain predators, not victims.
Transgender people ignored
While women are positioned as victims, and men as predators, those who do not fit neatly into the male–female categorizations usually remain invisible in development discourses on sexuality or other issues. I will label these people very loosely as “transgender”5 by which I include a whole range of self-identifications such as tommy boys and lesbian men in Africa, hijras in South Asia, travestis6 in Latin America, ladyboys in Thailand, third spirit among native American Indians, the globalized identities of queer, trans, female to male transsexuals and male to female transsexuals, and all those who are intersex, as well as any others who identify as neither male nor female. By transgender, I refer to a gender identity, or anti-identity – a not fitting into the male/female categorizations.
The reality is that many people do not fit into the “male–female” sex categories. Numbers are not small. In his briefing to the United Nations Commission on Human Rights in 2002, Bondyopadhay records an estimate of between half to one million hijras in India. An article in The New Scientist declares that up to one in every 500 babies are born “intersex” with chromosomes at odds with their anatomy (Phillips 2001: 31), but this is usually hushed up. In the West one in 2000 babies have surgery because their bodies do not fit the accepted categories of “female” or “male” (Phillips 2001: 39).
Yet such diversity is erased in development discourses, including in gender and development discourses. In our insistence that gender comes from nurture rather than nature, we7 have been willing to leave sex, and the categorizations of male and female, uncontested in the domain of biology. See, for example, these current unexceptional definitions from the One World Action Glossary:
Such definitions, and policies and programs based on this limited understanding of sex, erase the experiences of transgender people worldwide. Campuzano (2008) argues that development and colonialism have suppressed possibilities to identify outside the male–female categories. He gives the example of Peru where historically among indigenous people the distinctions between male and female were more flexible than they are today. A traditional travesti or transgender/transvestite identity and culture existed and persists in spite of the colonial and subsequently development influences which imposed a more restrictive order on gender identity and behavior (2006).
Currently, transgendered people are likely to face particular sexuality-related issues; for example, how to negotiate their own sexual interactions in societies which refuse to recognize their gender identities, high levels of rape and sexual violence from police and others, discrimination by sexual health services, as well as the fact that for certain transgender populations, labor market discrimination means that sex work is virtually th...