This chapter provides lists of conversation topics on everyday events and matters in the life of a young child. A few minutes conversation on any chosen topic allows the parent and child to explore ideas and facts, make associations, comparisons and acquire information. This shared time confirms to the child that adults are a valuable source of information about the world. For the parent the dialogue can be equally rewarding as an opportunity to find out more about the childās thinking. All the activities are intended to give the child a greater sense of self.
Myself and my family
Physical appearance
Talk about each otherās appearance - look in a mirror.
āMy hair is short. Your hair is curly.ā
Parts of the body
ā¢Examine and talk about different parts of the body, size and shape of hands, how joints bend, what body parts are for. Ask the child to name a part of the body.
āLetās start with our heads and go downwards to our toes, naming as many parts of our bodies as we can.ā
ā¢Give the child some clues to different parts of the body and tell the child that you want them to try to guess what they are. For example:
āThese help you to see.ā
āThese help you to hear.ā
āYou have five of these on each hand.ā
āThese grow on the ends of your fingers.ā
āYou have five of these on each foot.ā
āThese grow on the ends of your toes.ā
āThis helps you to smell.ā
āThis helps you to talk.ā
āThis helps you to breathe.ā
āThis helps you to throw a ball.ā
āThis helps you to kick a ball.ā
āThese cover your eyes when you sleep.ā
āThese help you to bite your food.ā
āThese help you to hold a pencil.ā
āThis bends when you touch your head.ā
āThis bends when you walk upstairs.ā
ā¢Take turns in giving instructions (this can be played as a āSimon saysā game). For example:
āClose your eyes; open your eyes; stand up; sit down; stand on one foot; hold up your hand; hold up two hands; put your hands down; hold your nose; touch your head; now hold your nose and rub your tummy; put one hand on your head and the other on your tummy; now turn round very slowly; with one hand touch your nose, mouth, chin, knee; clap your hands once; now twice; now three times.ā
ā¢Say āI am becoming very, very small.ā Demonstrate this and ask the child to bend as low as possible, or to curl up on the floor. Then take it in turns to:
āTouch your nose with one hand; touch your mouth with your elbow (Try!); touch your feet with both hands; touch your hair with one thumb; take one step forward; now take two steps back; now stand very tall again; now shrink and become very small.ā
ā¢Then say:
āI am going to say a part of your body, and as I say it, I want you to touch it - I shall say the word quite fast, so listen very carefully: head, tummy, elbow, feet, ankle, eyes, ears, neck, back, hair, shoulders, cheek.ā
This can be repeated varying the order of the words, and/or the speed, to suit the child.
ā¢Play āOāGrady saysā. For example:
OāGrady says:
āHold your hand behind your back.ā
Tut your feet together.ā
āClap your hands three times.ā
āStand with your feet apart.ā
āSit on the floor.ā
āHands on head.ā
āTouch your toes.ā
āFold your arms.ā
āStand on tiptoe.ā
āStand on one leg.ā
āClap you hands four times.ā
āCrawl on all fours/hands and knees.ā
āClench your fists tightly.ā
āSit on the floor.ā
āStretch your arms as high as you can.ā
āClap your hands twice.ā
ā¢Use two parts of the body at the same time and describe the activity, for example, rub wrist on leg, scratch back with fingers, put lips on hand.
Basic details of self
Parent and child, together, list basic information, such as:
ā¢childās name, address, age, date of birth/birthday, school
ā¢details of other family members, brothers, sisters, other close relations such as uncles, aunts, grandparents, close friend.
Family details
ā¢The parent shares information and stories about family members with the child.
ā¢A longer-term project would be to compile family histories by collecting photographs, asking family members to discuss events in their lives with the child, and weaving stories around a family object or household items.
Making maps
ā¢Parent and child draw simple maps/plans of:
a room in the home, showing furniture, door, window (for example see Figure 1.1);
their home, showing different rooms; upstairs and downstairs;
their garden;
their street, where their home is, and showing where friends and neighbours live;
the neighbourhood, showing the childās school, library, shops and park.
FIGURE 1.1 A plan of Kellyās bedroom
ā¢Ask the child to give you (or Teddy, or an imaginary visitor) directions to a friendās home, shops, school, park. What is the best way to get there? On foot, by bus, by train, by boat?
All about me
What I can do
Parent and child talk about each skill (see overleaf). Tick off what has been learned and discuss what needs to be practised next.
Likes/dislikes
Talk about the childās likes and disli...