Touched
eBook - ePub

Touched

For Survivors of Sexual Assault Like Me Who Have Been Hurt by Church Folk and for Those Who Will Care

  1. 176 pages
  2. English
  3. ePUB (mobile friendly)
  4. Available on iOS & Android
eBook - ePub

Touched

For Survivors of Sexual Assault Like Me Who Have Been Hurt by Church Folk and for Those Who Will Care

About this book

In Touched, author Shanell T. Smith makes visible the often silenced or ignored narratives of survivors of sexual violence. The book tells the author's story of her personal traumatic experience with sexual violence by a church leader and focuses on the responses that she received from people in the church (clergy and lay folk) once she "sounded the alarm." These responses either justified, ignored, or denied that the horrific act occurred, resulting in the author leaving that congregation.

As a survivor of sexual violence, an ordained minister, and a professor, Smith has heard many stories from other survivors. The circumstances of the sexual assault may differ, but a common thread among them all is the fact that these stories, in one way or another, have often been ignored.

Touched helps those who have experienced sexual assault give themselves permission to feel what they feel and to find strength to stand up to the counternarratives that come from those who do not understand or deny their trauma. And more, Touched helps readers learn how to respond effectively and compassionately to those who seek refuge and care.

Information

Year
2020
Print ISBN
9781506448152
eBook ISBN
9781506448169

Table of contents

  1. Cover
  2. Praise for touched
  3. Title Page
  4. Copyright
  5. Dedication
  6. Table Of Contents
  7. Introduction
  8. IT IS NOT YOUR FAULT!
  9. Find a Certified Therapist
  10. It Is Never Too Late to Tell Your Truth!
  11. “Sounding the Alarm” Is Scary
  12. Fellow Survivors: Not Everyone Wants to Be Your Caregiver
  13. Listen. Validate. FULL STOP.
  14. When the Caregiver Is Also a Survivor: The Impact of Your Own Experience with Sexual Violence on the Encounter
  15. Feeling Silenced on Social Media? It Is Normal
  16. Know Your Limits: Refer. Refer. Refer!
  17. Avoid the Use of “Christian Band-Aids”
  18. Avoid Societal Assumptions. They Evoke Self-Blame.
  19. There’s a Lot behind a S.M.I.L.E. (Simply Making It Look Easy)
  20. Wounding Remarks Come from Wounded People
  21. Human Error and Church Terror: Healing a Broken Relationship with God
  22. Journeying Together toward Your Own Form of Healing
  23. Strength for the Journey

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