Although Carl was aware that children sometimes say and do inappropriate things, he told the class that they were not going to start with any rules, but to work out the boundaries together as they went along. This led to some interesting discussions, helped the pupils to learn about negotiating relationships and seemed to work, according to Carl.
If children are never given the opportunity in class to collaborate in decision-making, teachers would find it very hard to identify those children who need extra help in this area. Carl realised that in order to develop a collaborative culture in his classroom, with children who had had three to five years of ‘being told what to do’, some children would need to change perceptions of themselves and others, and would need to learn some new skills. For example, Carl was working with a small group one day when a boy approached needing help. He just stood by the group with his hand up until Carl turned and said, ‘With a group this size, you just say, “Excuse me” to get attention.’ Carl also recognised that some children did not yet believe that their ideas were valuable enough to express, and he wanted to do something about this.
This example illustrate three points: (1) Carl's belief that every pupil in his class is important; (2) his recognition that some children need nurturing in order to participate fully; (3) and the role the teacher can play in changing both a child's own self-perception, and the way that they are regarded by their peers.
Trust and openness between teachers and pupils are key when developing a collaborative classroom. And Carl's class soon discovered that a difficulty experienced by even one pupil in their class was everybody's business, and something they could all help with. He found ways of involving his class in discussions and support around individual pupils (see Corey's Computer Time later in this chapter) and at the start of term, for example, he asked his class if they would be patient with him while he showed patience to two boys who had not yet ‘learnt to be part of the class', which they all accepted and supported.
STORY: SHARKEY
At Parents' Evening, Shaun's mother asked Carl what could be done to help her son to think more highly of himself. Carl told his mum he was going to brainwash him. He said, ‘I'm going to make him more confident. I'm going to fix his self-esteem,’ and she laughed.
In Carl's school, resilience is represented by a fish; children are encouraged to ‘be like a fish’ and keep going when things are tough. So for the first six months Carl started calling Shaun ‘Sharkey’. He wasn't just a fish, he was a super-fish who was going to learn to be the most resilient person in the school. So he became ‘Sharkey’ and all the other children started calling him ‘Shark’, and Carl put a picture of a shark above his desk. He didn't say anything, but Shaun started to be more resilient.
One day the Head came into class to hear the children giving European Union Referendum speeches. Shaun was reluctant to get up. All the other children gathered round him to offer encouragement, urging him on, ‘Remember when you couldn't do anything … When you just used to cry … go for it!’ Shaun's face filled with pride and he got up and read out his speech.
The head teacher was very complimenta...