Stress
For the purposes of this book, stress is defined as a physical, emotional or mental state of tension (Chansky, 2014). Stress is vital for human survival. However, too much stress can be harmful and lead to anxiety. It is not an emotion that begins when a student starts school. Stress can begin while a baby is still in the womb; a motherās stress can be passed on to the fetus. After birth, infants can sense stress from their parents by picking up on their bodily responses to stress (Waters, West, & Berry Mendes, 2014). The childās heart rate increases and they begin to experience the negative emotions the parent is feeling. These reactions to their parentās stress may predispose them to respond negatively to stressors in their own lives as they grow and develop.
Humans experience a broad range of emotions and feelings throughout their lives. Stress is one of those feelings that are a normal part of life. Some common stressors that are experienced by individuals, regardless of location, include emotional problems, divorce, abuse, caring for others, death of a loved one, job loss, chronic illness, moving and relationships. Physical reactions to stress, although dependent on the individual, can include headaches, upset stomach, poor sleep, rapid heartbeat, muscle tension and sweating. Emotional reactions to stress vary as well ā fear, anger, depression, irritability, feeling overwhelmed or unmotivated, racing thoughts and worrying. Students at all educational levels will experience various stressors and reactions to events that happen to them. In the school setting, these events could be exams, presentations, procrastination, disorganization, deadlines, working/studying, friendships, peer pressure, social media, relationships, poor sleeping, homework, lack of support, living situations, poverty and abuse. Other stressors may be present as well depending on the studentās particular circumstances.
Different life events and occasions will present varying stressors to individuals, some positive and some negative. A studentās physical symptoms to both positive and negative stress may present similarly ā their heart will start to beat rapidly and they will feel an adrenaline rush through their veins. Whether or not their response is positive or negative to their stress, however, is dependent on the individualās attitude towards the stressor. Scott (2020) reported that positive stress exists when an individualās stress provides them with an opportunity for a positive outcome; there is no threat present. This is unlike negative stress, which an individual perceives as a threat that will lead to a negative outcome. Many students appreciate positive stressors, as they motivate them to complete a task. Completion of that task leads the student to a sense of accomplishment. According to the American Institute of Stress (2019), positive stress can teach a student the power of resilience. Some positive stressors for students include completing a difficult assignment, making a new friend, completing a presentation, winning at a game/competition, productively using their time, trying something new, reaching a goal and getting organized. Overall, positive stress is beneficial and enables students to cope with the stressors they encounter.
Negative stress is the exact opposite of positive stress; students perceive this stress as a threat and react negatively rather than positively to it. MentalHelp.net (2020) characterizes negative stresses as short-term or long-term unpleasant feelings, with the potential to lead to mental and physical problems. Studentsā self-perception can suffer because negative stress leads them to believe their stress is beyond their coping abilities. Instead of responding with confidence and a positive mindset, students react in fear and start to feel anxious. Some negative stressors include abuse, serious illness or injury, family issues, moving schools, poverty, death of a loved one, divorce, social media, friendships, relationships, sleep issues and academic pressures. When a student states that they are stressed out, they are likely referring to feeling overwhelmed, unhealthy, and exhibiting lower energy and performance levels. Their negative stress may lead them to feel out of their comfort zones and that they are out of control.
Students will experience both positive and negative stress during their schooling. To quote Charles R. Swindoll āLife is 10% what happens to you and 90% how you react to it.ā Negative stresses can turn into positive stresses if the student manages their emotions appropriately. However, positive stress can turn into negative stress if the student becomes too overwhelmed and perceives a loss of control. Additionally, inappropriately managing negative stress can lead a student to become anxious. Constant negative stress and the inability to deal with it can lead a student to feel chronically unable to manage their emotions. This often leads to anxiety.
Anxiety
All students get stressed from time to time in their lives, but anxiety is not experienced by all students. Some students feel negative stress in response to a particular event, and then it goes away once the event is finished. Many students feel stressed out or briefly anxious about a situation, but this is not anxiety. Students with anxiety are constantly stressed and excessively worried about real and/or imagined circumstances. In addition to feeling overwhelmed with current stressors, students with anxiety are also consumed with perceived future threats.
A studentās physical reaction to anxiety is similar to how they react to stress. However, a rapid heartbeat and release of adrenaline are not the only symptoms felt by the anxious student. They may also sweat, experience muscle tension and breathe rapidly. Additionally, their symptoms donāt stop once the stressful event is concluded. Their bodies stay in high alert and their anxiety persists even when the threat is gone (Kelly, 2019). For many students with anxiety, their bodies react in a similar fashion to animals in the wild. For example, if a gazelle is happily munching on vegetation but suddenly hears a twig snap behind her, her body goes into high alert. Her heart rate increases, she starts rapidly breathing, her muscles tense and adrenaline pumps through her veins. As she listens for further sounds and looks around, her body goes into fight or flight mode. The gazelle can stay where she is and fight whatever predator (most likely a lion) is getting ready to attack. If she risks staying where she is, she may be attacked by the lion. Although she isnāt completely sure whether or not there really is a lion getting ready to attack, she feels like there must be one and is compelled to escape the vegetation and find a safer retreat. As she makes a hasty retreat to higher ground, she turns around to look at her previous location. There is no lion, although she felt certain there must have been one. It was only a bird breaking a branch from a shrub to make a nest. The gazelle is still breathing rapidly and her heart is still pounding. She remains tense for some time after her escape and remains in high alert for the next several hours. Now imagine this situation with a student in a classroom. A number of anxious students have panic attacks, where they experience the same fight or flight response as the gazelle. They feel trapped by a threat, real or imagined, and look for an escape by any means from the classroom.
Anxiety and stress are not interchangeable terms and should not be treated as such. What is stressful to one student may not be stressful to another. What may cause mild stress for one student may cause anxiety in a different student. No one really knows what causes anxiety and no one person has the exact same experience as another. Although stress and anxiety share some of the same physical symptoms, they are not the same emotional experience for students. When a student experiences stress, it is short term. Anxiety is persistent and interferes with a studentās ability to live and function normally. With stress, an external trigger is present and it goes away. With anxiety, the trigger may be external but is more often internal and persists whether or not the stressor is present (Anxiety and Depression Association of America, n.d.). Knowing the difference between stress and anxiety and treating the student appropriately is key for school counselors. Anxiety is a serious matter and should not be brushed off as a simple issue of āstressing outā about something. Students with anxiety need others to appreciate that their distress is more intense than a simple passing stressful moment in their lives. These students are battling to manage their anxiety every day and need others to understand how negatively it impacts their lives.