Chapter 1
Choose Your Cause
Whatever kind of person you are, you can be an activist. I believe that activism comes in many forms. Refuse to be typecast as a do-gooder or hippie tree-hugger, and know that incredible change has been achieved by a whole range of people who couldnât be more different from each other. I donât believe you need to be the most outgoing person in your community, or the most eloquent speaker, or ultra-resilient and resourceful to do this. You can be any sort of person.
Iâm not the loudest person in the room. Neither am I the most confident. If youâd told me four years ago I would be speaking in front of TV cameras, or that Iâd be standing alone on an open stage holding a mic on the other side of the world, I wouldnât have believed you. But the urge to act takes over, and you feel you just have to do it. That feeling comes from something which really, really matters to you. Whatever you want to change, whatever issue you feel is demanding to be heard, it can be you who makes it happen.
Our world is a scary place right now. As I write this, Iâm reading about impending wars across nations, where diplomacy seems to be wearing thin, and political leaders tweet about solutions in the form of destruction and retaliation. Iâm reading about the consequences and terror of a global pandemic killing thousands and plunging the world into collective despair. Iâm reading that a worldwide economic downturn is looming, and that mass unemployment, deprivation, and even famine could cause so many more to suffer.
Iâm reading about a climate crisis so severe that raging bushfires have forced thousands to flee their homes, and floods and storms are the biggest killer in countries already crippled by desperate levels of poverty. I despair that my future will be foreclosed by politicians who say we canât afford to tackle the climate emergency. Politicians who are careless about our future because they may not live to see the consequences.
Iâm reading about misogynistic, racist, and divisive comments made by world leaders, which no longer elicit widespread outrage and condemnation, purely because weâve become inured to them. When there seems to be no hope for the world, itâs easy to become apathetic and, instead of feeling angry, find ourselves accepting.
But the world is full of people refusing to give in to despair, and against all odds are growing and cultivating seedlings of hope and change. We are getting bolder and bolder in seeking out spaces where we can make sure we are heard, and weâre using the internet and social media to expand our reach and connect with others who share our concerns and determination to change the status quo.
You may have been propelled to action because youâre directly affected, or you might have become aware of an injustice thatâs staring you in the face and refusing to move away. Whatever the reason, remember you have power â and use it.
Listening to that feeling inside which nudges your conscience, asking you to do something, anything, is often the hardest part of getting going. That feeling is easy to ignore if you try hard enough, but donât ignore it. Be open to it, and let it do its thing.
Iâve heard the negative, internal voice that tells us we are all insignificant, and nothing we can do will ever make a real difference. It says: âWhat do you think someone like you can do to change something so big?â or âYouâre going to look stupid if you have a go and it doesnât work out.â Iâve heard that voice tell me Iâm not good enough, not brave enough, not old enough, not white enough, not the right kind of person to make a difference.
Iâm glad I didnât listen to that voice, because it was only when I started to act that it slowly but surely died away, until it was barely a whisper â and one I could ignore.
Similarly, when youâre confronted with injustice, hypocrisy, or blatant double standards, donât ever let yourself feel that itâs just the way it has to be, because nothing is ever the way it has to be. No matter how rigid or entrenched something appears to be, I really do believe that things are always in a state of flux, and itâs for us to grab control of the wheel, start the debate, and steer the conversation in the direction we want it to go. Donât squeeze yourself into the mould (wrong shape, wrong size) that society claims you need to fit in order to be worthy of attention. It suits some, but not all. Create your own and make it look exactly as you want it to look (the shape that fits you, the size that fits you).
Why should we let those in power, who donât look like us, speak like us, or know what matters to us dictate how we ought to live? What the hell do they know about the issues that hit us hard? They donât want you to challenge or disrupt. Why should they? I am so fed up of hearing young people being called Generation Snowflake, a flippant term created to diminish and undermine us. Apparently, weâre too busy pouting and editing our selfies to care about shaping our world.
Itâs far easier for people in power if everybody tows the line, eyes down, lips pursed, and hands behind backs. Everything â from books to advertising, films and TV â informs us that power looks, sounds, and feels a certain way. Weâve bought into that for generations, havenât we? But as Wael Ghomin, the activist who helped spark the 2011 Egypt uprisings, affirms in his book Revolution 2.0, âthe power of the people is so much stronger than the people in powerâ. And we, as ordinary people, hold more power than we fully understand.
Think about the kind of society you want to live in. Is it one where everything is predetermined and prescribed, where we wait patiently in line for our paltry slice of the pie, and then find out it tastes pretty horrible when we get it, wait in line again and go back for more? No. So think about the situation and consider how many people a particular issue affects, aside from you (if itâs one that affects you directly), and whether anything is likely to change if you make the decision to ignore it.
Caroline Criado Perez is a true heroine â a proper, indomitable, feminist powerhouse. She waged a brilliant and inspiring campaign to force the Bank of England to put a woman on an English banknote, and also fought for a statue of suffragette Millicent Fawcett to be erected in Parliament Square in London. Sheâs unstoppable and fearless. I asked her what advice she has for someone whoâs itching to do something impactful but doesnât know where to start. She told me:
Caroline didnât consider herself a feminist at all growing up. She admitted to being a teenager who looked down on women, and thought men were better.
Caroline started to realise just how filled with men her unconscious mind was. Because it wasnât just these generic male words that conjured up men in her head. It was also words that had a far greater claim to gender neutrality: words like lawyer, doctor, professor, writer, journalist, scientist. All of these words conjured up an image of a man.
She admits:
Starting small
When I was just months into starting my campaign, Catherine who, like me, was 17, got in touch. She told me that sheâd been feeling really low and sometimes guilty about the state of our world and all the injustices in it. She felt powerless to make change and asked me whether my activism gave me some form of reprieve, a feeling of empowerment in a world that seemed to have lost its way and was moving further and further away from her.
Catherine and I began chatting over email, and she told me that sheâd suffered from mental health issues and had just moved out of her family home. She felt she needed a cause to fight for, to give her some hope and purpose, to bring her back.
I know things werenât easy for Catherine. She had everything working against her, telling her not to try. But she resisted that pull to sit back. She started campaigning for better training for GPs at her surgery on mental health issues. She found her spirit and drive and this, in turn, gave her a feeling of optimism about her future, a hope that things could be better.
She was incredible in helping me raise awareness about period poverty and, at the time of the Free Periods protest, even though she wasnât able to afford the journey to London, she worked hard, tweeting and posting about the protest, asking everyone to share and be there. Activism found Catherine, and itâs stayed with her.
I know how easy it is to think that issues are too big to tackle, to stand back and look at an issue thatâs hitting you hard and feel turmoil, that itâs much bigger than you. To believe this is just the way things are. That can put you in a place of despair and powerlessness, which is hard to rise above. Itâs easy to think that you canât be the one to change things, either. Not when you feel like everything is already a struggle.
Catherine started small. She approached her own GP practice, asking what she could do to get the help she needed, and started questioning the current systems in place. She tells me:
Catherineâs journey into activism, fighting to address issues that affected her directly at a micro level, show that absolutely anyone can fix systems that are broken, and that sitting up and demanding something is done is the very first step to change. There is no one demographic that holds the key to creating change. For Catherine, it was about resolving her own frustrations with the system, but in doing that, coming to the realisation that her life could have a wider impact and benefit other people, giving her purpose. She drew strength from knowing that she was making things better for everyone; caring for others and showing empathy for them can liberate us.
I met Shiden Tekle at a photoshoot to celebrate youth activism. Shiden and his friends became so frustrated at the lack of Black actors in TV and film that they began to recreate iconic film posters, such as Titanic, the Harry Potter franchise, and Skyfall, with Black actors shown in the lead roles instead.
Shiden was angry that Black faces were often just token additions in mainly all-white castings. He tells me:
Shiden and his friends had created the posters, featuring their friends and family, for their own bedrooms and social media accounts, but their posters hit the headlines across the UK and were soon splashed across billboards in his local area. And a movement, Legally Black, was started, which drove debate and discussion around the issue of racial misrepresentation in the media.
I ask Shiden about how someone gets started in their mission to change something they care about: