Chapter 2
What Is a Story?
How Do We Define a Story?
stoĀ·ry stĆ“rÄ/ Noun
1.An account of imaginary or real people and events told for entertainment. Synonyms: tale, narrative, account, anecdote.
2.An account of past events in someoneās life or in the evolution of something. āThe story of modern farming.ā
Ok. But whatās a STORY (really)? Is it just the accounting of an event and people for entertainment? Of course not. Relating an account of āwhat happenedā in someoneās life of the evolution of something might be defined as a story, but it sure doesnāt feel like one.
When my son, Henry, recollected the events on the day his dad was punched in the face in Chapter 1, heās not telling us a story. Heās recollecting a memory without meaning or perspective. Heās relating it as one would to their inherited audience: your family, close friends, etc. People in our inherited audience get a pass when they relate these memories. Theyāre in the tribe. We give them credit and fill in the gaps. We put some of our own meaning onto their stories and draw connections that donāt work when the circle expands.
When Henry told his version of what happened that day, it was an expressionānot a story. And in my mind, itās perfect. Itās what a twelve-year-old felt about an incident he witnessed, just as an adult may relate an event as they witnessed it to their best friend. Itās engaging, and itās as detailed as it needs to be to function as their impression of the incidentā¦but itās not a story, not yet!
You donāt have a story until youāve made it a story. Similar to how someone who is funny is often told, āyou should do stand-up!ā Stand-up, like storytelling, is a craft.
A story differentiates something that āhappenedā in one very important wayāsomething or someone changed because of it. Or was changed in light of it. In a dramatic or subtle way, the world was altered after the events described in āwhat happened.ā This could be an inward change (I never looked at her the same way again). This could be an outward change (I quit the job, changed careers, and never looked back). This change could affect your private world (I know my daughter is growing up). Or this change could affect the planet (Thanks to this discovery, 60,000 people are now being delivered clean water per day).
Getting from āthe ideaā to āthe storyā is not always clear. What we think of as āthe storyā might be the dictionary definition of a story (accounting the events as you remember them).
Here are some other writersā definitions of what storytelling is all about:
āA Story is a chain of events thatā¦seems to begin at one place and to end at a very different place, without any essential interruption in its progress.ā
āRandall Jarrell (Randall Jarrellās Book of Stories: An Anthology)
āA tale shall accomplish something and arrive somewhere.ā
āMark Twain (The Mark Twain Collection: His Novels, Short Stories, Speeches, and Letters)
A ānarrativeā describes what happened. A āstoryā is told for a reason, taking a narrativeās sequence of events to a higher level that can reveal or reflect on that sequenceās significance.
What Do Stories Have in Common?
Letās look at some story examples weāve already explored to see what they have in common:
ā¢The Punch in the Face Story
ā¢The Broken Star Wars Toy Story
ā¢The Student Council Election Story
Characters:
ā¢All of these stories feature distinctive characters
āThe angry driver
āThe Star Wars-loving child
āThe scared first grader
ā¢All of these stories also include peripheral characters:
āThe onlookers, school administrators, and other children
āThe eBay auction seller
āMs. Cruz, the kindergarten teacher
Conflict:
ā¢Inward forces of conflict:
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