PART ONE
Grandmother: Habit, Death, and Photography (Attachment and Detachment)
Chapter 1
The Double Work of Habit
The Grandmother is the character who dies in the Recherche. Unlike the many reported deaths in the novelâof Albertine, for example, and Swann, and all those whose passing Charlus intones in Finding Time Again, âHannibal de BrĂ©autĂ©, dead! Antoine de Mouchy, dead! Charles Swann, dead! Adalbert de Montmorency, dead! Boson de Talleyrand, dead! SosthĂšne de Doudeauville, dead!â (FTA 171)âthe Grandmotherâs death is a major story event that falls smack in the middle of Proustâs novel (the first chapter of The Guermantes Way II). Her dying takes time. Proust draws out its telling over almost forty pages in one of the novelâs longest uninterrupted narrative sequences, one that bridges The Guermantes Way I and II with exceptional continuity on the level of story. The Grandmother dies slowly and, in a sense (as we shall see), more than once. Proust will turn to photography to write the long duration of her dying, which, as the reader eventually discerns, extends throughout most of the novelâs story time up to the point where the focus shifts definitively to Albertine in The Prisoner.
But what happens to our Narrator as the Grandmother dies? His voice becomes strangely muted. His sentences become noticeably shorter and his style turns icy. The tone is not so much grave (at moments it is darkly comic) as coldly precise. And what happens to our Hero, Marcel? He seems to fade into the background after the first paragraph of this chapter, when, trying to get his Grandmother home from the Champs-ĂlysĂ©es after her stroke, he experiences a deep and abstract loneliness:
I had always been accustomed to placing myself in her heart⊠but now she was a closed book for me, a part of the external world, and I was obliged to hide from her⊠what I thought about her state of health, and to betray no sign of my anxiety. I could not have mentioned it to her with any more confidence than to a stranger. She had suddenly restored to my keeping the thoughts, the sorrows that I had entrusted to her forever, since I was a child. She was not yet dead. But I was already alone. (GW 309, translation modified)
The chapter opens with this transitional momentâthe Grandmother not yet dead, Marcel already alone. Mme AmĂ©dĂ©e will die some forty pages later. The next chapter opens on a quite different note: âAlthough it was simply a Sunday in autumn, I had just been reborn⊠a change in the weather is enough to create the world and ourselves afreshâ (GWII 342). It is a new day. Marcel cheerfully turns his attention to the social world of the Guermantes. There will be no further mention of the Grandmother until an involuntary memory image brings her lively presence back to him many, many pages later, in Sodom and Gomorrah.
âThere was only one love affair in the Recherche,â Roland Barthes famously declared, âthat of Marcel and his Grandmother.â1 Marcelâs apparent detachment immediately following her death is puzzling, given his extravagant love for her. A background figure who walks in the garden in Combray and a traveling companion to Balbec (where she is also a source of minor embarrassment at the Grand-HĂŽtel), she provides indispensable comfort during Marcelâs nighttime anxieties and illnesses. Mme AmĂ©dĂ©e is simply there in Marcelâs worldâlike the weather:
But as for my grandmother, in all weathers, even in a downpourâŠ, we would see her in the empty rain-lashed garden, pushing back her disordered gray locks so that her forehead could more freely drink in the salubriousness of the wind and rain. She would say: âAt last, one can breathe!â and would roam the soaked paths. (SW 11)
She is breath, rain, and wind to Marcelâs confinement and asthmatic suffering. Her gaze is without irony. If she remains a somewhat hazy character (her face usually half veiled), it is because Marcel has not quite distinguished himself from herââI, for whom my grandmother was still myselfâI who had only seen her with my soulâ (GW 135). She serves as Marcelâs container: he places his thoughts and feelings in her. Unable to hold these any longer at the moment of her stroke, she releases them back to him as a gap opens up between life and death: âShe was not yet dead. But I was already aloneâ (GW 309).
To understand Marcelâs reactionâor apparent lack of reactionâto his Grandmotherâs death, we have to go all the way back to the first night Marcel spends in the Grand-HĂŽtel on his initial visit to Balbec in In the Shadow of Young Girls in Flower. He and his Grandmother have traveled together by train from Paris. Upon their arrival at the hotel, Marcel announces he is not feeling well and might need to return to Paris immediately. As his Grandmother heads out to do some errands (in case they have to head right back home), Marcel takes the elevator up to his room. Feverish and âfeeling exhaustedâ (SYG 245), he is nevertheless unable to rest. He panics. Grandmother eventually arrives and comforts him; she unlaces his boots to help him get ready for bed and gazes up at him tenderly. This event will return as a powerful involuntary memory image in Sodom and Gomorrah, a memory that will prompt Marcel to finally accept the reality of his Grandmotherâs death, almost a year after her passing, and enable him, belatedly, to mourn her.
The panic Marcel experienced in the hotel room that night was not simply an effect of his chronic asthmaâhis gasping for airâalthough that was part of it; it was also, the Narrator tells us, a response to the idea of death, a way of feeling it. The unfamiliar space of the hotel room makes Marcel anxious because its sheer newness implies separation. Marcel becomes aware that those we love will die one day, and, worse yet, we will eventually forget them and feel only indifference toward them.
Familiarity, Proustâs Narrator suggests here in a lengthy and complex digression, is not so much a question of knowing (connaĂźtre) oneâs surroundings as it is a matter of feeling known (connu) by them. This occurs when things seem to let themselves become part of us by moving inside us. At home, the familiar objects of Marcelâs daily life had become ânothing but accessories of my own organs, extensions of myselfâ (SYG 246). In the unfamiliar setting of the hotel room, however, objects remain resolutely external. Our Heroâs whole being is reduced to a âvigilant body [corps conscient]â (SYG 245, translation modified) that struggles to absorb the impressions that bombard him from the outside. Our Hero imagines himself perceived by the objects in the room, as by a stranger. âIn that room of mine at Balbec, âmineâ in name only, there was no space for me: it was crammed with things which did not know meâ (SYG 245). In the unfamiliar hotel room he feels aggressively crowded out by the sensory impressions of things, but â[a]s our attention furnishes a room, so habit unfurnishes it, making space in it for usâ (SYG 245). In other words, habit helps us interiorize the objects of the external world so we can make space for ourselves, peacefully, within it.
Marcel experiences a violence of unfamiliarity in that hotel room. Adapting to change becomes a matter of life or death: âDeprived of my universe, evicted from my room, I⊠wished I could dieâ (SYG 246). It is in connection with this anxiety about death (and desire for it) that Proustâs Narrator explains what he calls âthe analgesia of habitâ (SYG 250), its power to defend against the disconcerting impact of the new and the idea of death it carries. Habit engenders the comfort of familiarity that protects us from change by tying us to the past. As it does so, however, it erodes desire and flattens experience, inducing boredom or disappointment. As Beckettâs famous essay on Proust convincingly argued, this mechanistic understanding of habit supports a traditional interpretation of the Recherche according to which, because life dulls and disappoints, it needs art to redeem it.2
But the analgesia of habit works in two ways; habit, Proustâs Narrator explains, is a âdouble work [Ćuvre double]â (SYG 251, translation modified). Here Proust repeats the language of FĂ©lix Ravaisson (1813â1900), who theorizes a âdouble lawâ of habit from the perspective of a philosophy of life and an ontology of time. This âdouble lawâ of habit follows from the two moments of passing time: present time becoming past, and future time becoming present. It corresponds to what Ravaisson calls the âdouble influence simply of the duration of change.â3 In time, he writes (alluding to Kantâs transcendental esthetic), âeverything passes, nothing remains [demeure].â4 Habit concerns âthe force of impressions,â as they pertain to our receptivity, our action, and our desire, which is to say as they pertain to intensity, understood as âdegree of reality.â5 As a dual operation, then, habit is specific to living beings, as distinct from inorganic things; it accords with the structure of intermittence that, as the physiologist Xavier Bichat affirmed, characterizes animal life.6
If habit is a âdouble workâ (SYG 251, translation modified), then mechanical repetition is only one side of it, the one that sticks us to the past to defend familiarity. As a dual operation, it involves both holding on to the past (through a repetition of attachment) and breaking with the past, in order to embrace the new as it arrives from the future. This other side of habit, we could say, is affirmatively analgesic (affirmative in Nietzscheâs sense); it supports us in adapting to change by making us forget past attachments, wrenching memories from the heart.7 In adapting to the new, Proust writes, we undergo âa death of our self, albeit followed by a resurrection, but a resurrection in the form of a different selfâ (SYG 250). This modality of habit invites death to operate within us through involuntary forgetting, âstripping off bits of us at every moment, which have no sooner mortified than new cells begin to growâ (SYG 250). It involves a process of âfragmentary death [mort fragmentaire] which attends to us throughout the duration of our lives [durĂ©e]â (SYG 250, translation modified).
As an affirmative operation, then, habit alters the very structure of experience in Proustâs novel, rendering it fundamentally discontinuous. It produces its âanalgesic effectâ only through an automatic forgetting that leads to indifference. This explains Marcelâs apparent equanimity during the long episode that recounts the death of his Grandmother. It accounts for his cheerful energy immediately after her death, and the belatedness of his mourning. The self that had felt deeply attached to Grandmother (the self that still lived in the childlike modality of croyanceâfaith or trust) has died with her. Marcel is reborn as the social self we witness in The Guermantes Way II, which emerges with disconcerting suddenness after Mme AmĂ©dĂ©eâs death. To this new self, Grandmotherâs death has very little meaning, because this Marcel comes into being with her deathâwe might even say this self is called into being by it. It is the affirmative modality of habit, then, that accounts for what Marcel will retrospectively refer to as the âforgetting of my grandmotherâ (SG 158, translation modified) that persists for over a thousand pages of Proustâs novel, that is, until the involuntary memory image of her tender presence breaks through the automatic forgetting imposed by habit and prompts an intense experience of mourning.
The law of habit announces that the death of those we love leads to indifference. Ravaisson had affirmed this view, as did Xavier Bichat. This is a fundamental axiom of Proustâs most unsentimental novel. It governs Marcelâs immediate response to his Grandmotherâs death, and, eventually, his response to the death of Albertine, the next object of his fierce attachment. Habit, then, on Proustâs analysis, involves a double work of life and death, such that âfirst death, then a new life would have done their dual work at the behest of Habitâ (SYG 251). Living includes dying. This is the structure of intermittences du cĆur, which introduces a temporality of discontinuous series into Proustâs novel, one that dislocates chronological progress, proposing instead âdifferent and parallel series in timeâwithout any break in continuityâ (SG 156). This is the temporality of Proustâs novelâthe time of death in life, of anachronism, and of intermittences du cĆurâand it will guide our reading. To focus exclusively on the repetitive side of habit (the one that glues us to the past) is to construe time as a fixed horizon of Baudelairean ennui, which triggers a yearning to escape into an ideal world of essences. It is to miss Proustâs investment in the vitality of time. If habit is important to Proust, it is because, as FĂ©lix Ravaisson made clear, it concerns strategies for coping with time as it happens. What becomes present arrives from the future and is already on its way to becoming past. Living in time is the principal subject of Proustâs novel, and its dynamics dictate the novelâs form. Both Ravaisson and Proust appreciate that the challenge we face is not to escape time (in the wake of Kantian philosophy) but to enter more fully into it.8 Negotiating the dynamics of lived time requires both attachment and detachmentâthis is the lesson of the double law of habit.
Chapter 2
Involuntary Memory and Involuntary Forgetting
The hotel room scene in In the Shadow of Young Girls in Flower does not end when the Grandmother comforts Marcel, gazing at him tenderly as she helps him remove his boots. As soon as she leaves, Marcel begins to suffer again. In a densely packed digression, Proustâs Narrator offers an acute analysis of this suffering, one that confirms that habit concerns the passing of time and reveals that Proust transposes the double law of habit into the novelistic narrative register of dynamics of attachment and detachment:
The trepidation that overwhelmed me at the prospect of sleeping in an unfamiliar bedroom⊠may be nothing more than the lowliest, most obscure, organic, and all-but-unconscious mode of the supreme and desperate refusal, by the things that make up the best of our present life, to countenance even our theoretical acceptance of a possible future without them: a refusal which was the core of the horror I had so often felt at the thought that my parents would one day be dead,⊠a refusal which lurked beneath the difficulty I found in trying to think about my own death or even the kind of afterlife promised by Bergotte in his books, in which there would be no place for my memories, my defects, my very character, all of which found unconscionable the idea of their own nonexistence and hoped on my behalf that I was fated neither to unbeing nor to an everlasting life that would abolish them. (SYG 249, my emphasis)
This is an extraordinary sentence. It speaks from the vantage point of thingsâthings that have moved inside a subject and feel threatened with annihilation because of the passage of time. These things have moved inside our Narrator/Protagonist thanks to the work of habit (the habit of repetition), which has rendered them familiar to him. The familiar objects to which he has grown attachedâmemories, loved ones, even his own defects of character, and, indeed, all the concrete features of his lived experienceâconvey, through Marcelâs panic, their refusal to submit to becoming past. Proustâs complicated sentence suggests that when these things rebel against changeâagainst a future that would dispense with themâwe experience their rebellion as our suffering. This ...