Devotion to the Sorrowful Mother

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• Publisher: TAN Books
• Year: 2002
• Print ISBN: 9780895557261
• eBook ISBN: 9781505107401
• Topic: Theology & Religion
• Subtopic: Christian Denominations

Many Catholics are unaware of our holy traditions on and powerful devotions to the Sorrows of Mary. Based on Scripture and the lives of the Saints, this little book will open eyes and hearts to the Sorrows of Our Lady.

Chapter 1

Devotion to the Mother of Sorrows

Sanctioned by the Church

DEVOTION to the sorrows of Mary has always been a favorite devotion among Catholics. It has been sanctioned by the Church and introduced into the Missal and Breviary. In order to keep before our minds the inexpressible sufferings endured for us by the Mother of God while she lived here on earth with her Divine Son, the Church observes two feasts in honor of the Seven Dolors (Sorrows) of Mary: one on the Friday before Good Friday and the other on September 15. She enriched with numerous indulgences the Rosary of the Seven Dolors, as well as a number of other devotions to the Mother of Sorrows. How touching is the beautiful hymn, Stabat Mater Dolorosa (see page 35), which the Church intertwines with the public recitation of the Way of the Cross.

The Seven Sorrows

The Church spares no pains to induce her children to venerate the sufferings of their Heavenly Mother. Seven of her sorrows have been chosen for our special veneration. These are the ones selected for the mysteries of the Rosary of the Seven Dolors. (This is explained in detail on page 67.) They are:

1. The prophecy of Simeon.

2. The flight into Egypt.

3. The loss of the Child Jesus in the Temple.

4. Mary meets Jesus on the way to Calvary.

5. Jesus dies on the Cross.

6. Mary receives the dead body of Jesus in her arms.

7. Jesus is placed in the tomb.

Because of these Seven Sorrows which pierced her maternal heart, the Mother of God is often represented either as standing beneath the Cross, or as holding the lifeless body of Jesus on her lap, her heart transfixed by seven swords, as foretold in the prophecy of holy Simeon at the Presentation: “And thy own soul a sword shall pierce.” (Luke 2:35).

Holy Church recalls to our mind only seven of Our Lady’s sorrows, but who could form an estimate of their real number! The sufferings of the Mother of God cannot be comprehended; they are inconceivable. But although her whole life was, like that of her Divine Son, a continuous series of sufferings and tribulations, the greatest woes and trials came to her during the week of the bitter Passion and Death of Jesus, when the storm of hatred and fury burst forth with all violence against Him.

During Our Saviour’s Passion, every glance at her suffering Son forced the sword deeper into Mary’s soul. Every sound of His voice brought special bitterness to her heart. Every increase of her love for Him—and it increased with every moment of His Passion—augmented her sorrows. The dearer and more precious Our Lord became to her, the more keenly she felt the heart-rending woe of His cruel and ignominious Passion! In her spirit as well as in her senses, she felt every blow that was inflicted upon her Divine Son, every insult that was offered to His sacred Person. Yet no complaint or cry escaped her blanched lips. With heroic fortitude she suppressed her violent grief and, wholly conformed to the Divine Will, generously offered the sacrifice of her Son for the sins of the world.

Remember the Sorrows of Thy Mother!

When the aged Tobias of the Old Testament felt his end drawing near, he called his son and gave him wise counsels. Regarding his mother, he admonished him in this touching manner: “Honour thy mother all the days of her life: for thou must be mindful what and how great perils she suffered for thee.” (Tob. 4:3-4). Truly, this is a beautiful lesson for us all regarding our earthly mother, but it may be applied still more appropriately to Mary, our Heavenly Mother, the Mother of our soul. From the Cross our Saviour gave her to each one of us for our Mother when He said to the Beloved Disciple: “Behold thy Mother.” (John 19:27).

To us Our Lord also says: “Honor thy Mother all the days of thy life and be mindful of how much she suffered for thee.” It is on account of the exceedingly great sorrows and sufferings which Mary endured for our salvation that she deserves our compassion and highest esteem. If our own mother suffers long and intensely, we show our love and esteem by sympathizing with her. In return our mother loves us all the more tenderly. It is the same with Mary, our Heavenly Mother. She is greatly pleased if her children sympathize with her by thinking frequently of her sorrows.

The Mother of God once said to St. Bridget, “I gaze upon the children of men to see whether anyone feels compassion for me, and alas, I see but few! If many forget me, at least you, my daughter, do not forget me. Consider how much I have suffered.”

Holy Church applies these words of Jeremias to the Sorrowful Mother: “O all ye that pass by the way, attend, and see if there be any sorrow like to my sorrow.” (Lamentations 1:12). “To what shall I compare thee? or to what shall I liken thee, O daughter of Jerusalem? . . . for great as the sea is thy destruction: who shall heal thee?” (Lam. 2:13). The love of Mary is referred to as a burning love which many waters cannot quench. (Cant. 8:7).

The Queen of Martyrs

The Church calls Mary the Queen of Martyrs because her martyrdom surpassed that of all others. Although her body was not bruised by torturers, her heart was pierced by the sword of compassion for her Divine Son—a sorrow sufficiently great to inflict a thousandfold death. St. Bernardine of Siena says the sorrow of Mary was so great that if it had been equally divided among all men, they would have died immediately. As great as was her love for Jesus—and it was unspeakably great—so great also was the sorrow of Mary at His Passion. Hence we can say with truth that Mary suffered more than if she had been martyred a thousand times, for she loved Jesus more than her own life and would have sacrificed her life a thousand times with the greatest joy if, without offending God, she could have rescued her Son from sufferings and death.

An Angel revealed to St. Bridget that, if Our Lord had not miraculously sustained His Mother, she could not possibly have survived her martyrdom.

Richard of St. Victor says: “In martyrs, the intensity of their love mitigated their sufferings, but with Mary it was different; the more she loved, the more she suffered, and the greater was her martyrdom.” St. Anselm makes the same declaration: “Whatever tortures were inflicted on the bodies of the martyrs, they were but little compared with thy sufferings, O Mother!” St. Basil says: “As the sun surpasses all the stars in lustre, so the sorrows of Mary surpass all the tortures of the martyrs.”

The martyrdom of Mary was lifelong, for according to Simeon’s prophecy, she was enlightened with regard to the intense sufferings of her Divine Son. Her entire being was steeped in bitterness. The swords which pierced her soul penetrated also every nerve and fiber of her tender, sinless body. To her was wanting that great support which the martyrs enjoyed in their sufferings. During their...

Table of contents

• Title Page
• Copyright Page
• Contents
• 1. Devotion to the Mother of Sorrows
• 2. A Source of Grace and Consolation For All Christians
• 3. Prayers in Honor of the Sorrowful Mother