Moving Forward in God's Grace: The Journey Continues, Participant's Guide 5

A Recovery Program Based on Eight Principles from the Beatitudes

John Baker, Johnny Baker

• Publisher: HarperChristian Resources
• Year: 2021
• eBook ISBN: 9780310131472
• Topic: Theology & Religion
• Subtopic: Mental Health & Wellbeing

Celebrate Recovery introduces The Journey Continues—four new participant’s guides designed as a revolutionary, new second step study curriculum. This step study is taken after completing The Journey Begins (Participant Guides 1-4). In the six lessons in Guide 5: Moving Forward in God's Grace, you will experience Christ-centered and biblically based studies filled with brand new acrostics, deeper questions, and more helpful Bible verses. The content in Guide 5 will focus on a deeper study of the first 3 of 8 recovery principles:

• Realize I’m not God. I admit that I am powerless to control my tendency to do the wrong thing and that my life is unmanageable. "Happy are those who know they are spiritually poor" (Matthew 5:3).
• Earnestly believe that God exists, that I matter to Him, and that He has the power to help me recover. "Happy are those who mourn, for they shall be comforted" (Matthew 5:4).
• Consciously choose to commit all my life and will to Christ’s care and control. "Happy are the meek" (Matthew 5:5).

By working through the lessons and exercises found in each of the four participant's guides of The Journey Continues you will find a deeper sense of true peace and serenity, continue to restore and develop stronger relationships with others and with God, and find deeper freedom from life's hurts, hang-ups, and habits.

Lesson 1

DENIAL

Principle 1: Realize I’m not God. I admit that I am powerless to control my tendency to do the wrong thing and that my life is unmanageable.

“Happy are those who know they are spiritually poor.” (Matthew 5:3)

Step 1: We admitted we were powerless over our addictions and compulsive behaviors, that our lives had become unmanageable.

“I know that good itself does not dwell in me, that is, in my sinful nature. For I have the desire to do what is good, but I cannot carry it out.” (Romans 7:18)

Please begin your time together by reading “The First Step, Day 1” of the Celebrate Recovery Daily Devotional.

As we begin The Journey Continues, we each need to start off by answering this one question: “Have I put on the mask of denial again”?

Before you can make any further progress in this exciting new step study, you need to face your denial. It doesn’t matter how long you have been in recovery — you may have been working the steps and principles for years — denial can rear its ugly head and return at any time! You may trade addictions, begin new compulsive behaviors, or be on the road to relapse without even knowing it. By removing your mask of denial, you can take your recovery to the next level, or your recovery can even begin again! Even if you feel that you haven’t actively stepped back into denial, denial is something you must be on guard against.

We need to begin The Journey Continues by searching our hearts to see if we have allowed any denial back into our recovery. So let’s get this new exciting journey started!

DENIAL

D — Disrupts our progress in our recoveries

Hiding our feelings, returning to denial, freezes our recovery and binds our progress.

“Be diligent in these matters; give yourself wholly to them, so that everyone may see your progress.” (1 Timothy 4:15)

“Would not God have discovered it, since he knows the secrets of the heart?” (Psalm 44:21)

E — Enables old hurts, hang-ups, and habits to return

As we continue to go through this program, we learn that it is only in the present that positive change can occur. The return of old hurts, hang-ups, and habits makes us unable to live and enjoy God’s plans for us in the present.

“As a dog returns to its vomit, so fools repeat their folly.” (Proverbs 26:11)

N—Negatively affects the repair work we have done on our relationships

As we slip back into denial, we again start to isolate from those close to us. We start to destroy the new trust and fellowship we have been given by them.

“My friends and companions avoid me because of my wounds; my neighbors stay far away.” (Psalm 38:11)

“All this I saw, as I applied my mind to everything done under the sun. There is a time when a man lords it over others to his own hurt.” (Ecclesiastes 8:9)

The guilty man is the one who wants to be alone; the man who is right with God does not. . . . The final curse of a disobedient soul is that it becomes a separate, self-conscious individual.

— Oswald Chambers

I — Interrupts our daily walk with God

As we slip further into our denial, it is harder for us to maintain our closeness to God. We think we are fooling everyone, even God. But we are only fooling ourselves.

“Anyone who runs ahead and does not continue in the teaching of Christ does not have God; whoever continues in the teaching has both the Father and the Son.” (2 John 1:9)

“Whoever is not with me is against me, and whoever does not gather with me scatters.” (Luke 11:23)

A — Allows risk of possible relapse

As we decrease our closeness to God and others, the more we increase the chance of relapse.

“This is what the LORD says: Stand at the crossroads and look; ask for the ancient paths, ask where the good way is, and walk in it, and you will find rest for your souls. But you said, ‘We will not walk in it.’ ” (Jeremiah 6:16)

L — Loss of valuable time

The longer we keep our denial hidden, the more time we are wasting that could be spent on continuing to grow. We need to ask God to help us break free from our denial and continue our forward journey in recovery.

“Therefore, since we are surrounded by such a great cloud of witnesses, let us throw off everything that hinders and the sin that so easily entangles. And let us run with perseverance the race marked out for us.” (Hebrews 12:1)

“If anyone, then, knows the good they ought to do and doesn’t do it, it is sin for them.” (James 4:17)

The greatest wasteland in all of our earth . . . our waste of the time that God has given us each day.

— Billy Graham

Questions for Reflection and Discussion

1. Have you noticed that your recovery has been stalled? In what ways has your joy and serenity faded? Describe in detail.

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2. Have you begun to believe that you have control over certain aspects of your life? If so, which ones?

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3. Have any of your old hurts, hang-ups, or habits begun to fill your mind? (Ask your sponsor or accountability partners if they have seen any old or new negative patterns emerging in you.)

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4. Have you begun to struggle with or lost any of your important relationships? List each of them and describe the struggle.

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5. In the last six months, have you grown closer to or farther away from God? Describe why you think it has changed.

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6. As completely as you can, describe your relationship with God today.

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7. Have you been having any thoughts of “the good old days”? Any thoughts that you can handle your struggles differently this time? Write down the specific thoughts you been having....

Table of contents

• Cover Page
• Title Page
• Copyright Page
• Ebook Instructions
• Contents
• Foreword By Rick Warren
• Introduction
• The Road to Recovery: Eight Principles Based On the Beatitudes
• Twelve Steps and Their Biblical Comparisons
• Serenity Prayer
• Celebrate Recovery’s Small Group Guidelines
• Lesson 1: Denial
• Lesson 2: Power
• Lesson 3: Hope
• Lesson 4: Sanity
• Lesson 5: Will
• Lesson 6: Action
• Afterword