Brighten Your Leadership Light
Gary Hassenstab
Copyright Š 2020 by Gary Hassenstab
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Table of Contents
Emanate Integrity and Honesty
Be People Focused
Drive for Results
Do the Right Thing
Mirror, Mirror on the Wall
Always Deliver Value to Others
Appreciate and Value Your Team
Unlock the Potential of Your Team
Unlock Your Potential
Keep a Healthy Balance of Family, Health, Faith, and Career
Wrap It UpâWhatâs Next?
Carpe Diem
âI like the workbook strategy you discussed and the emphasis on values and balance.
I like that you are focusing on self-awareness. A trait that is definitely not well understood or practiced at a broad level these days. I agree with your assessment of how critical that is.
Particularly your learning steps and skills discussed. I felt like you were talking to me with many of your examples. Was that plannedâŚ
I really like the perspective regarding integrity and honest. Truly thought provoking with a learning and growth process. Well done. Really like it!â
âGreg Dunnell, Principal at Buckeye Mountain, Inc.
Preface
Each of us as humans and as members of a society, community, and/or organization bring a presence or âlightâ to the other members of that group. Itâs kind of like you pretty much always have your personality on display for all to see. As long as you are breathing, you have a personality of some type. A personality goes with the territory of being an interactive social entity. As a leader of a team, your presence or personality, because of the impact it has on the lives of others, is your part of your leadership âlight.â As a leader, you are expected to light the way with your leadership skills, behaviors, and values that you emanate to your organization. When you break it all down, your teams and your organizations are expecting those with leadership roles, formal or informal, to show the way for people to achieve and sustain success so the organization can also be successful. You have a leadership light. You cannot choose not to have one. Just like you cannot choose to have a personality. Fundamentally, your only choices are how bright you want your light to be and asking yourself if you are shining your leadership light in the right direction to achieve organizational success. This book will help you gather the skills, behaviors, and values to first assess the brightness and quality of your leadership light. In addition, the exercises provided, when performed with sincerity and truth, will help you brighten your light to more clearly âshow the wayâ for those you are leading.
Lightbulbs are measured by wattage and lumens. Wattage being the energy used by the bulb to the complete its one and only task: to produce light. Lumens are the measure of the quantity of visible light, i.e., degree of brightness produced by the bulb. Leaders have a light as well, sort of a leadership luminescence. That brightness and clarity of your values, future vision, tactical direction, and actions directly impact your organizationâs success. So for a leader, your actions display your leadership brightness. Your values, style, words, and behaviors are then the factors that determine your leadership lumensâyour visible leadership light, i.e., the brightness. The same way that the voltage, type of light bulb, electrical power delivered to the light socket, clarity of the glass of the bulb, etc., influence the output of the bulb, your output is formed by all the things a leader brings every day to their role and interactions with their teams. Unfortunately, there is no way to label a leader with a leadership version of âlumens.â However, everyone the leader interacts with has already internalized a lumens-like value based on their own observations. So if everyone else has pretty much given you a leadership lumens score, you should probably assess yourself and determine the brightness (or dimness) of your leadership presence, and then be active in the growth of your leadership light to others.
Introduction: Brighten Your Leadership Light: Create the Habits for Your Growth
Brighten Your Leadership Light: Create the Habits for Your Growth
You are the light of the world. A city that is set on a hill cannot be hidden. Nor do they light a lamp and put it under a basket, but on a lampstand, and it gives light to all who are in the house. Let your light so shine before men, that they may see your good works and glorify your Father in heaven.
âMatthew 5:14â16
We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence then, is not an act, but a habit.
âAristotle
The energy and power of âhabitsâ create the brightness. The clarity of your âvaluesâ aims your leadership light. Both are essential sources of energy and brightness for your leadership light. This book is to help you build habits around two basic leadership competencies that I think are foundational to all other leadership skillsâskills that result ultimately in a set of behaviors that drive a leaderâs actions and determines the brightness and effectiveness of your leadership. It is through your actions, or inactions, that then influence the culture. It is your actions which then drives the behaviors and actions of the people needed to actually accomplish (or not) tasks which further (or not) the mission and vision of the organization and brighten your light. Those two leadership habits and competencies are self-awareness and effective communication in order to perpetuate the needed and desired set of values to drive organizational success. Values drive behaviors. Behaviors drive actions or inactions. Actions or inactions will drive, or deter, results. Results achieve success or failure. Hence, the value of âvaluesâ and the power of habits.
No one should care more than you about your development and growth of leadership skills based on positive values. No one will care more, except of course, for the team of people who are looking to you, depending on you, hungry for you, to become a great leader and wonderful manager who will create a great environment for them to all succeed and do things that make them proud. People want to come to work at a place that aligns with their values, provides good work to accomplish good things, and be treated with respect. Those are basic ingredients to creating employees who are engaged in their teams and companyâs success and are generally glad to be employed by the company and reporting to you. It is critical that leaders have an embedded habit to examine their own performance that is impacting the teamâs success. Meaning, to make it a habit to examine their own actions or inactions, determine if that was a good or bad behavior, and if that behavior is driven by the right and positive set of personal values.
Self-awareness creates the ability to change, grow, adapt, and absorb the inevitable changes to your organization and what it takes for you and your team to be successful. Self-awareness (knowledge) is foundational to effective self-management (actions). Strong knowledge and propensity to take action is key to evolving you to be a more effective leader. Evolving your skills and approach to what is needed will have a higher degree of success if you truly understand your current skills, values, weaknesses, and leadership style. An increase in our self-awareness will come at a cost. As you upgrade your self-awareness, you will be degrading pretty much the exact opposite skill: self-deception. Self-deception is really just our ability to successfully lie to ourselves. Most of us get pretty good at that ability. The results of self-deception are generally that we feel better about ourselves, and who doesnât like that! So we grow this ability, which at least in the moment makes us happy and it usually becomes quite ingrained in our habits. This makes the work to increase self-awareness even more challenging. Self-awareness then is the ability to be truthful and honest, and view ourselves, our actions, motives, etc. through the lens of reality and not the prism of our wishes.
Self-deception on display in a management/leadership role usually shows up as a form or variation of âIâm the manager, so I am always right.â Self-deception can often incorrectly equate title to degree of perfection. Therefore, the higher the manager is in the organization chart, the more perfect they are. Comical thinking to be sure. However, more subtly, self-deception can cause a leader to become rigid and blind to the need to recognize that they need change, adapt, and grow themselves and their leadership behaviors. They then develop blind spots to the needs of their teams to stay or become more...