Chapter 21
Boarding School? Not My Daughter
Do not let your hearts be troubled; believe in God, believe also in Me.
āJohn 14:1
Living in a different area of the world brought many challenges to which we adapted and learned to enjoy. Our third summer in Japan in 1953 brought more challenges. Linda had been attending kindergarten at the airbase and was thrilled with it. Her teacher arrived at my door one Saturday to see if I had any college education. āSeveral years but had not graduated,ā I told her.
āMeg,ā she said, āI need help. Would you be willing to teach Lindaās class? I found that I am pregnant, and my doctor here says I must go back to America so I must find a teacher, and I thought about you.ā
Roger and I sat and talked about it. The cost associated with Lindaās schooling would be cared for, and that was a nice plus. Iād love the teaching experience. Roger suggested that I go for it.
Lindaās teacher told me she would work with me for a couple of weeks and show me how to lay out lesson plans. I was so excited. I had a Japanese ambassadorās daughter in my class who was Lindaās age. Working through kindergarten material was great, and Linda was home with us every day.
I enjoyed teaching Lindaās kindergarten class. The Japanese ambassadorās daughter was slow in learning English, and Linda was delighted to help her. Graduation day came. Sunflowers made of paper were placed around the faces of each child.
The ambassadorās daughter came to me after our program said, āMrs. Fox, thank you very much for teaching me English,ā and hugged me.
Tears filled my eyes. I had given her a start, and the first-grade teacher moved her along to learning more. It also was wonderful to see her in Sunday school from time to time.
It didnāt end there. The principal of the base school asked me to continue teaching the class for another year. Linda could go to first grade, and they would pay for it. It took thirty minutes for Linda and me to walk to the train. That was twice each day.
I was going to teach kindergarten again when Linda was going to start second grade, and Roger had taken the responsibility to take her on the train and picking her up again. We were going through some very trying times in making decisions.
The Japan Bible Institute had closed for lack of students, but instead, a group of missions decided a Kā12 school was necessary to teach their children. FEGC offered the Higashikurume property, and the Christian Academy in Japan (CAJ) was born. One day, the headmaster at CAJ came for a visit.
Virgil and Jeanette Newbrander were dear friends, and we were thrilled that they had taken the time to come visit. We had a great time catching up on things they were doing and things we were doing. Virgil asked the question, āWhen are you going to send Linda to boarding school at CAJ?ā
I couldnāt answer that question. āBoarding school?ā I said. āNo, Virgil.ā
She was our responsibility to teach. It was an awful day. We had lunch, and they went their way and said they would be praying for the decisions we faced. It was the worst day for me since we had been in Japan. However, God was in control.
Several days later, Roger had been to Yokohama on business and said he had signed us up to go to Lake Yamanaka for our first vacation in Japan. At the base of Mount Fuji, Japanās tallest mountain, there are five lakes. Yamanaka-ko, or Lake Yamanaka, is one of those five lakes. The mission had purchased the property with seven rustic cabins as a conference center or missionary retreat location when it became available in 1949.
We had a cabin with six other FEGC families for several weeks, but I had told Roger that I didnāt want to go. What would we do about our Japanese classes? Sunday school? Teaching at the base? Who would stay in our home? We had to have a watchman.
But God!
I wrestled all summer about boarding school. I was miserable. Roger prayed with me and for me. We talked and talked, and one day he said, āHoney, why are we in Japan?ā
I thought about that for a minute and said, āTo reach the Japanese people in Hachioji for Jesus.ā
āWell, are we doing that?ā
āWell, we have Japanese coming each night for Bible study.ā
Tahara san, Reto san, Muraoka san, Sato san, Koji san, Cheko san, Sakura san, Micheko san had all come to Jesus in those early years. Lots of kids had come to Jesus. At Tachikawa Air Base, young fellows had accepted Jesus.
āAll good, but why are we here?ā
āTo start a church that will be a lighthouse for Jesus in this city,ā I said.
I started to cry. Language study had taken a back seat. I thought of all the things we were not doing to start a church. College young people and high school scholars were plentiful, and few parents cared. Most were steeped in Buddhism. They didnāt care about God. It was an awful time in my life. It was the reason Linda wasnāt going to boarding school. I wasnāt even willing to find out if she would like it. We just never talked about it. I spent a lot of time on my knees in prayer that summer at Lake Yamanaka. Linda was having a wonderful time with Bonnie Newbrander and Cherry and Leroy Seibert.
I finally said, āHoney, Iām wrong. Just like God took care of Linda when she had virus X in South Carolina and took care of her in surgery to remove the walnut-sized tumor in her leg and took care of her when she had pneumonia, I know He will take care of her at CAJ.ā
As we snuggled in bed that night, Roger prayed, and peace filled my heart. I fell asleep with joy determined to see Virgil the next morning.
Dawn was beautiful. I looked out the cabin window and saw Virgil fanning the charcoal in the hibachi across the way. I got dressed and went out while it was still quiet and went to talk to Virgil. He greeted me cheerfully. He knew I had been hurting when they saw me last. āYou have peace,ā he said. āWhat are you going to do?ā
I rehearsed the events the night before and j...