Basketball practice had just ended, and Jason lingered until he had my attention.1 Before heâd said a word, I knew what to expect.
âHey coach, I think I might quit the team. Iâm not really needed.â
Jason hardly ever got off the bench, and so he thought that without a meaningful contribution on game days, he served no purpose.
Jason was wrong.
He did have a purpose on the teamâand a vital one at that, even if he didnât realize it. He came to practice every day. He made his teammates better. Without his presence, everyone would have suffered. He made first-string players work harder. His friendship and camaraderie encouraged his teammates to persevere. Even on game days, he cheered his teammates on.
He was essential to the team whether he realized it or not.
Let me tell you a similar story. Sandy is a member of our local church. She told me one day, âIâm struggling to know what my role is in the church.â Sandy didnât lead a ministry. She wasnât responsible for any programs or events. And so she just didnât know what to do. Like Jason, Sandy thought she wasnât getting in when it mattered. She thought she wasnât serving the church.
And also like Jason, she was wrong.
Sandy faithfully shows up every Sunday. She comes early and stays late so that she has plenty of time to talk to others. Sheâs always at members meetings, so she can vote on important issues and ask meaningful questions. She serves in the nursery and regularly invites church members to her home. She encourages our members with Scripture. She prays for them. She talks to visitors.
In so many ways, Sandy serves our church faithfully and meaningfully. Sheâs vital, despite not having an official title or formal ministry position.
Maybe youâre reading this book because you feel the same way. You want to serve your church, but you just donât know what to do. Maybe youâre a new Christian, and you donât think youâre ready to serve. Maybe youâre serving in ways that leave you tired and burnt out, but you donât want to admit it. Maybe youâre waiting for some official role in the church or for the pastor to assign you a ministry, and you donât know what to do in the meantime. Maybe youâve avoided service because you donât know your calling or how to identify your spiritual gifts.
Wherever youâre at, if youâre thinking about what faithfulness looks like in serving your local church, then this book is for you.
Small Business Staff or Citizens, Soldiers, and Sons?
Is the Church a Business?
Misconceptions about serving the church often stem from misconceptions about defining the church. Many people view local churches like small businesses where the pastor is the CEO and the people are the customers. They think the church exists to give them and their children a menu of programs, activities, and events. Those who decide to serve are like employees of the business, making sure the programs are well-organized, the coffee is hot, the marketing is catchy, the activities are plentiful, and the bathrooms are squeaky clean.
Donât misunderstand meâthereâs nothing wrong with clean bathrooms or hot coffee. In fact, serving your church might mean volunteering to clean the bathrooms or change the coffee filters. But how we think about the church will affect how we think about our service in the church. If we think of local churches as businesses, pastors as CEOs, and churchgoers as consumers, then we will think about service as if we are employees (church members) waiting for the boss (pastor) to give us an assignment (ministry) with a job titleâsecretly hoping itâs not âDirector of Bathroom Sanitation.â
To think well about service, we need to think biblically about the church. Simply put, local churches arenât like businesses; theyâre more like embassies of a great kingdom or a family in the same household.
Embassy of the Kingdom of Heaven
On a mission trip, I had the privilege of staying at a Haitian orphanage located across the street from the American embassy. I have to admit that seeing the embassy always provided me a sense of comfort. I knew the embassy represented my government. Even though I was in a foreign country, I could go to the embassy, and they would recognize my citizenship and offer me the protection and privileges that are mine as a citizen.
As Christians, we are citizens of the kingdom of heaven and local churches on earth are little embassies of that kingdom. In other words, they represent heaven on earth (Matt. 16:18â19; Eph. 2:19; Phil. 3:20). Jesus Christ is the king of heavenâs kingdom, and he rules his church through his wordâthe Bible (Eph. 1:19â23). Through church membership, discipline, and baptism, the Lordâs local churches identify Christians on earth. They speak on behalf of heaven to declare to the world who is and who is not a citizen of Christâs kingdom (Matt. 18:15â20).
What does any of this have to do with how we think about serving our church? Everything! First, we should recogniz...