Don't Pick Up All the Dog Hairs
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Don't Pick Up All the Dog Hairs

Lessons for Life and Leadership

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Don't Pick Up All the Dog Hairs

Lessons for Life and Leadership

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Everyone wants to know what to do to be successful. But if you’re wondering what you should NOT do, here’s all you need to know!

Ron Dwinnells sought leadership skills from early on in his career, and Don’t Pick Up All the Dog Hairs is the delightful and informative culmination of that search. If you’re looking for insights into how to deal with situations and enhance your life at home and in your career, Dwinnells delivers—with advice via chapters with names like “Don’t Fly with Turkeys,” “Don’t Dress like a Warthog,” “Don’t Be a Jamoke,” and “Don’t Run Over the Cat.”

Don’t Pick Up All the Dog Hairs began serendipitously while Dwinnells was teaching public health and leadership classes at a local medical school. He advised his students what-not-to-do as a leader through entertaining stories from his own very unique background, conveying lessons he had learned from failures, adversities, mistakes, and even enemies from leadership experiences along the way.

The lecture series became so popular with students, it won him accolades and several teaching awards—and pressure to write his stories down. Dr. Dwinnells, a pediatrician and certified physician executive, did just that, and we’re the beneficiaries. But don’t let the clever chapter titles fool you. Don’t Pick Up All the Dog Hairs is full of serious wisdom in chapters like “Don’t Fail to Prioritize,” “Don’t Be a Manager When You Are Supposed to Be a Leader,” and “Don’t Drain the Emotional Bank Account.” So put down the vacuum and enjoy some advice (and laughter) while learning to be your best.

Ron Dwinnells is the CEO of ONE Health Ohio, an integrated community health center program serving the medically uninsured, underinsured, and underserved populations in northeast Ohio. His clinics have served over one million patients during his 35 years at the helm.

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Year
2021
Print ISBN
9781626348691
eBook ISBN
9781626348707

CHAPTER 1

DON’T LIVE IN A FISHBOWL

“Laughter is timeless, imagination
has no age, dreams are forever.”
—Walt Disney
figure
The Walt Disney Company was founded in 1923. By 2017, it owned eleven theme parks, two water parks, and several television networks, including ABC (the American Broadcasting Company). Remarkably, Walter Elias Disney and his brother Roy O. Disney began their empire with $40 and a small cartoon studio located in their uncle Robert’s garage. Known as a great visionary, innovator, and a world-class dreamer, Walt Disney and his most famous character, Mickey Mouse, soon became household names, launching entertainment and other forms of enjoyment for decades. His motto—dream, believe, dare, and do— along with strong-willed determination, courage, and a belief in his own abilities were the ingredients of his success.
Another futurist and visionary was Buckminster Fuller, the designer of the geodesic dome. He was also an unconventional thinker with no limitations. He published more than 30 books, coining or popularizing terms such as Spaceship Earth; Dymaxion, a word he made up, consisting of dynamic, maximum, and tension, to describe his futuristic vision of cars and houses; and ephemeralization, a term he used to describe the concept of using less material for greater results, such as for housing and his geodesic domes.1
These two men are examples of many throughout history who saw life’s opportunities differently than most. They explored imagination, dreams, and fantasies to make the impossible achievable. Their visions had no boundaries, while their minds were like factories that produced realities.
DREAMS, IMAGINATION, AND FANTASIES
Dreams are what inspiration can become, imagination is the ability to see visions into the future, and fantasies make the impossible happen. They are the true essence of life and living. Applying them to the real world is what makes life greater; they help create a more fulfilling future. Performing seemingly impossible tasks is part of what makes leadership fun. Imagination is one of the most powerful tools a human being can possess. Imagination allowed us to go to the moon and to plan to go to Mars and beyond. It permits us to look deep into space and see past limitations.
Often, leaders must use these whimsical tools in order to solve problems, plan new projects, and improve their organizations. A good and effective leader must think outside the box. We need to look for opportunities to be imaginative. We are visionaries, and if you never leave your comfort zone, then how will you grow and expand your horizons?
THINKING OUTSIDE THE BOX
During World War II, military officers investigated how they could better protect airplanes and their crew. After studying and analyzing the bullet holes suffered during missions, they discovered specific patterns of areas the planes seemed to be hit the most. Looking for opportunities for efficiency and hoping to reduce mortalities, they centered their interest on moving the airplane’s armor from areas in which there was a lower probability of getting shot to the more vulnerable parts of the plane. They reasoned that you could get the same protection with less armor if you concentrate the armor on the areas where the planes were getting hit the most.
They presented the following data2 to Abraham Wald, a professor of mathematics at Columbia University and a member of the Statistical Research Group,3 and posed the question of exactly how much more armor should belong on those vulnerable parts of the plane.
Section of plane Bullet holes per square foot
Engine 1.11
Fuselage 1.73
Fuel system 1.55
Rest of the plane 1.8
Figure 1.1.
figure
Figure 1.2.
Wald’s reply was “Gentlemen, you need to put more armor plates where the holes aren’t because that’s where the holes were on the airplanes that didn’t return!”4
Abraham Wald had the ability to think differently. To think outside the box means to think in a different way, from an unconventional perspective. The most successful people, including leaders, accomplish this because they do not limit themselves. Curiosity is an incredible characteristic that connects dreams to reality.
CAN CREATIVITY, IMAGINATION, FANTASY, AND DREAMS BE TAUGHT?
Is it possible to get people to be more imaginative and creative, to have visions of the future, or to think outside the box? According to Rom Schrift, a marketing professor at the University of Pennsylvania’s Wharton School, “There are individual differences in our propensity to be creative. If you train yourself—and there are different methods for doing this—you can become more creative. There are individual differences in people, but I would argue that it is also something that can be developed and, therefore, taught.”5 Furthermore, another Wharton professor, Jerry (Yoram) Wind, who taught a creativity course at Wharton, says, “In any population, basically, the distribution of creativity follows the normal curve. At the absolute extreme, you have Einstein and Picasso, and you don’t have to teach them; they are geniuses. Nearly everyone else in the distribution—and the type of people you would deal with at leading universities and companies— can learn creativity.”6
Jennifer Mueller, a management professor at the University of San Diego, indicates that creativity may be a function of the environment. She believes that creativity can be shut off—or turned on—if the environment supports creativity.7
This may very well be true, as exemplified by John Denver’s writing of “Annie’s Song” on a ski lift ride to the top of Ajax Mountain, in Aspen, Colorado. He and his wife, Annie, were having difficulties, and after a reconciliation, he was suddenly inspired to write the lyrics by the time the ride reached the top.8 He was inspired by a difficult event that stimulated his creativity.
It seems that some people do different things to help themselves be more creative. I am not aware of any specific exercises or strategies to improve this, but, often and unintentionally, I am able to see shapes, faces, animals, buildings, and other images when looking at clouds, wallpaper patterns, and wood grains. This gets my imagination going, and sometimes it stimulates me to think of things outside the box. This process of seeing things in certain patterns is called pareidolia, the tendency for incorrect perception of a stimulus as an object, pattern, or meaning known to the observer, such as seeing shapes in clouds, seeing faces in inanimate objects or abstract patters, and hearing hidden messages in music.9 Perhaps this is an exercise we can engage in to help stimulate our imaginative powers, stimulate our creative juices, or see things beyond convention.
Another method to stimulate different thinking patterns is to consider choosing educational classes in something you are completely unfamiliar with. This is a great way to think about something differently. For example, in college, my major was biology, but I took a few classes in Latin, music appreciation, and art. They gave me a different perspective on how to look at problems from different angles.
Another way I have learned to think differently is to do completely unrelated things from the problems I may be contemplating. Mowing the lawn or cleaning the house, even building things, always puts me in a different mode of thinking.
Sometimes, unorthodox rituals help outstanding leaders think or do things differently. For example, Richard Branson, founder of Virgin Group, sparks his creativity by moving. “I find that I often come up with my best ideas when I’m on the move—either travelling or exercising or just taking a walk.” Warren Buffett, CEO of Berkshire Hathaway, states, “I insist on a lot of time being spent, almost every day, to just sit and think. That is very uncommon in American business. I read and think. So, I do more reading and thinking and make fewer impulse decisions than most people in business. I do it because I like this kind of life.”10
SELF-IMPOSED PRISONS
There are some leaders who severely limit themselves in a self-imposed prison. This locks a person into a very small space, where they will not grow or thrive. Disney and Fuller did not live that way. Sadly, many people never even try to pursue a dream or desire, fearing failure, ridicule, or rejection.
Consider the following story about self-imposed limitations hampering dreams, imagination, and fantasies. Maybe fish don’t dream, imagine, and fantasize?
A fish tale
One day, a man went to clean his fish tank. Not having a second tank or bowl, he filled his bathtub and carefully transferred the fish to one end of the tub. Later, when he went to retrieve them, he saw that the fish never strayed from the same spatial area, the size of the rectangular tank.
Fascinated, he watched for a while and even sprinkled fish food on the other side of the tub to entice them to leave the small area. They never did and seemed to be happy to just swim around in that confined space. They created a life of self-imposition, never to know what was on the other end of the tub. The fish were never curious. They were content and comfortable.
Likewise, people exhibit tendencies toward self-imposed captivity. We seem to gravitate to building walls between our dreams and reality. Notice that as we grow older, our imagination becomes more limited. Society places limits on us through social etiquette, rules, and expectations—often imposed by stereotypes. Schools teach us what is and is not, what should and should not be. Job descriptions tell us what we should do every day. Even chronological age tends to focus on limitations rather than possibilities. Eventually, we become comfortable and dependent with sameness. We feel safe in our own little corner of the tub as routines become a way of life, and we sail toward our death in comfort.
The habit of letting your mind go and break...

Table of contents

  1. Cover
  2. Title
  3. Copyright
  4. Contents
  5. Foreword by Michael J. Foreman, Former Nasa Astronaut
  6. Introduction
  7. Chapter 1: Don’t Live in a Fishbowl
  8. Chapter 2: Don’t Pick Up All the Dog Hairs
  9. Chapter 3: Don’t Turn Down FAME
  10. Chapter 4: Don’t Neglect Your Passion
  11. Chapter 5: Don’t Fly with Turkeys
  12. Chapter 6: Don’t Bend Principles
  13. Chapter 7: Don’t Pass the Buck
  14. Chapter 8: Don’t Be a Shoemaker
  15. Chapter 9: Don’t Be a Squirrel
  16. Chapter 10: Don’t Fail to Prioritize
  17. Chapter 11: Don’t Be Fooled
  18. Chapter 12: Don’t Turn a Grudge into Revenge
  19. Chapter 13: Don’t Dress like a Warthog
  20. Chapter 14: Don’t Be a Jamoke
  21. Chapter 15: Don’t Make Friends
  22. Chapter 16: Don’t Weed Every Garden
  23. Chapter 17: Don’t Carry a Bunch of Stuff
  24. Chapter 18: Don’t Be a Sawbones
  25. Chapter 19: Don’t Ignore Crickets That Live in Walls
  26. Chapter 20: Don’t Be Stingy with Kindness
  27. Chapter 21: Don’t Neglect Your Health
  28. Chapter 22: Don’t Be Nice
  29. Chapter 23: Don’t Look the Other Way
  30. Chapter 24: Don’t Hesitate to Delegate
  31. Chapter 25: Don’t Be a Zookeeper
  32. Chapter 26: Don’t Avoid Difficult Conversations
  33. Chapter 27: Don’t Fall for the Mommy and Daddy Games
  34. Chapter 28: Don’t Fear Fear
  35. Chapter 29: Don’t Run Over the Cat
  36. Chapter 30: Don’t Drain the Emotional Bank Account
  37. Chapter 31: Don’t Take Gossip as Gospel
  38. Chapter 32: Don’t Promote to a Level of Incompetence
  39. Chapter 33: Don’t Be a Stranger
  40. Chapter 34: Don’t Know Much
  41. Chapter 35: Don’t Be a Two-Dimensional Space Alien
  42. Chapter 36: Don’t Be a Manager When You Are Supposed to Be a Leader
  43. Chapter 37: Dos from Don’ts
  44. Notes
  45. About the Author

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