Unfuck Your Anxiety

Using Science to Rewire Your Anxious Brain

Faith G. Harper, PhD, LPC-S, ACS, ACN

• Publisher: Microcosm Publishing
• Year: 2021
• eBook ISBN:
  9781621066736
• Topic: Personal Development
• Subtopic: Mental Health in Psychology

Anxiety is a survival skill gone haywire. It happens when our brain is working so hard to protect us that it forgets to notice that the danger has passed. It feels like choking, stifling, smothering, tingling, panicking our brains cut out and we start to make bad decisions all normal anxiety reactions. Dr. Faith G. Harper, author of the bestselling Unfuck Your Brain and This is Your Brain on Depression packs a ton of knowledge and help into this practical manual. She helps us understand the history and science of anxiety, realize when it's become a serious problem, know the difference between anxiety and other conditions, and cope with it in the moment as well as addressing it long term. This book is a lifesaver for panic attacks, breaking out of flight-fight-freeze responses, similar and co-occurring conditions, and for chronic anxiety. Straightforward, funny, kind, and judgment free, it includes a wide range of tips, exercises, and medical interventions. It's also good for people who aren't burdened by daily anxiety but want to cope better with the tough life situations we all face. Read this book and breathe!

UnF#Ck Your ANXIETY

Using Science to Rewire Your Anxious Brain

Part of the 5 Minute Therapy Series

© Dr. Faith Harper, 2016, 2018, 2021

This edition © Microcosm Publishing, 2021

First edition, first published 2016

Third edition, first published March 9, 2021

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IntroDuction

Anyone with anxiety would fail a lie detector test over it.

“Stop being anxious” has never worked in the history of ever, has it? Someone telling you not to be anxious has never netted the response of “Holy shit, I never thought of that! I’m totally good now, thanks Big Daddy!”

Expecting you to just suppress your anxiety is ridiculous. I mean, you can say you’re fine but if you were hooked up to a lie detector your body would be screaming bloody murder that you are clearly as unfine as fuck. Which means if we can see the numbers we need to treat it as the very real health issue/public health crisis that it is.

Which leads me to why this book came to be.

The original version of this book, This Is Your Brain On Anxiety, did better than probably everyone expected it to. Or at least better than I expected it to. I imagine that the inescapable reality of chaos politics, pandemics, and deep state racism helped sales. Unfortunately. But even current reality aside, anxiety is a common and universal human experience with some great books written about it and a ton of really awful ones.

People kept reaching out to me saying “Holy shit, I got so much more from this tiny book than all these other door-stop sized books!” which is admittedly great for my ego, but a depressing commentary on the utility of what else is out there.

So that got us to thinking . . . could we bump up our game? Could we expand the anxiety book with just enough stuff to make it more useful without making it a fifty dollar doorstop?

And? Fuck, yeah, we can do that.

So that’s what we did here. I included a lot more information about different types of anxiety disorders, more specifics on treatment options, more DIY anxiety management tools, and even more science on brain differences and cultural differences that lend themselves to anxiety. Cuz y’all my fellow nerds and I love it.

(Not to mention the fact that there are some amazing books out there on anxiety so I expanded my list of favorites in the appendix. None are 50 dollar doorstops. All are incredibly useful and/or incredible context regarding the human condition.)

Original Introduction

When you struggle with anxiety, the most empowering thing in the world is realizing that you aren’t weak, broken, or batshit crazy.

I’m not just saying that to placate you. It’s scientifically true. Anxiety makes perfect sense because it’s how our brains are wired to protect us. Certain mental health issues, anxiety being one of them, are the direct result of how we have evolved for survival. Certain memories are stored in certain ways in order to protect you. When those memories are triggered, rational thought gets bypassed and your body goes into do something to fix this mode. (If you wanna nerd out more on the brain science stuff, you should totally read my other book, Unfuck Your Brain.)

If you’re still reading, that probably means that your brain regularly gets hijacked by anxiety. And you’re over that shit. And you want your life back. So here’s what we’re going to talk about:

1) What anxiety actually is. You know, as opposed to all those other emotional states (fear, depression, etc.) that seem all vaguely interconnected but have a lot of differences in terms of what’s going on in the brain and how we can best manage them.

2) The whole brain science/brain chemistry aspect of how anxiety is triggered.

3) The how-to-deal-with-it part. Both in the middle of an attack, and more generally over the long term.

4) How to cope when you also have to deal with other people, relationships, jobs, schools, etc. Anxiety wouldn’t be so bad if it wasn’t for other people in your life, right?

5) How to provide support if someone you care about has anxiety. Because that’s just as helpless a feeling as having anxiety yourself.

Has anyone ever told you “You should try yoga! Or meditation! Or keep a thought diary! Or spin in a circle three times when a bell rings!”

Sometimes (okay, a lot of times) people will suggest something because they read about it, or tried it themselves, or saw other people try it and that it helped. But when you’re in the midst of feeling anxious, you look at any option and think, can this actually help my anxiety? And if so, how is it actually helping?

We all get to a point where we are tired of spinning around when the bells ring in hope...

Table of contents

• Unfuck Your Anxiety, 2nd Edition