
- 176 pages
- English
- ePUB (mobile friendly)
- Available on iOS & Android
About this book
How do you continue to find God as dementia pulls your loved one into the darkness?Nothing is simple for a person suffering from dementia, and for those they love. When ordinary tasks of communication, such as using a phone, become complex, then difficult, and then impossible, isolation becomes inevitable. Helping becomes excruciating.In these pages philosopher Douglas Groothuis offers a window into his experience of caring for his wife as a rare form of dementia ravages her once-brilliant mind and eliminates her once-stellar verbal acuity. Mixing personal narrative with spiritual insight, he captures moments of lament as well as philosophical and theological reflection. Brief interludes provide poignant pictures of life inside the Groothuis household, and we meet a parade of caregivers, including a very skilled companion dog. Losses for both Doug and Becky come daily, and his questions for God multiply as he navigates the descending darkness. Here is a frank exploration of how one continues to find God in the twilight.
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Table of contents
- Cover
- Title Page
- Contents
- Foreword by Nicholas Wolterstorff
- Introduction: Walking Through Twilight
- 1 Rage in a Psych Ward
- 2 The Year of Learning Things I Did Not Want to Know
- 3 Things Fall Apart
- 4 It Is Eerie
- 5 Giving Up
- 6 The Temptation to Hate God
- 7 Learning to Lament
- 8 Joy in Lament
- 9 Moses and Our Sadness
- 10 Lamenting in the Classroom
- 11 Lamenting Online
- 12 Technology Free
- 13 Learning to Lie to My Wife (as Little as Possible)
- 14 Gallows Humor
- 15 Dogs, Dementia, and Us
- 16 Miss Becky and a Way of Speaking
- 17 Words Fail Us
- 18 My Escape into Meaning
- 19 How Is Becky?
- Conclusion: From Twilight into Darkness
- Acknowledgments
- Appendix: Lightening the Load
- Recommended Reading on Lament and Grief
- Notes
- Praise forĀ Walking Through Twilight
- About theĀ Author
- More Titles from TnterVarsity Press
- Copyright