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THE DEPARTURE
The strangest part about this season of my life is that my intimacy with God has been directly tied to my connection with the Church.
VIDEO
Share session 1 from the Letters to the Church Video Series with your group. The video should be used at the beginning of your time together to introduce some of the concepts you will be discussing and to provide spiritual direction for the session.
DISCUSSION
The experience many Christians in the West have today in their churches looks very different from what we read in the New Testament. It is a scary thought that this has somehow become okay with us. God desires faith in His people, and it grieves His heart when we live in a way that shows we donât believe His promises and power are for us in the same way they were for the early church. The journey back to faithfulness wonât be a quick one, and this book does not contain any magic formula to get us to where we are supposed to be. Change is going to require dedication and humility. We will have to lay down some things, like our desires and traditions, but it will be more than worth it. God has so much more for the Church to experience. Hopefully this vision will take root in your heart and push you to take action and pursue it.
- 1. Consider the thought exercise presented in the first few sentences of Letters to the Church. Write down what you would understand church to be if the Bible was your only source of information. Compare that with your church experience. What are some discrepancies?
- 2. Reread the opening quotation to this session on page 19. Has this ever been true for you? Why or why not?
It is so important that this book not be viewed as a call to cause division. Over and over in the New Testament, the importance of unity within the Church is emphasized. We need to take an honest look at the state of the Church and be willing to consider and repent of the areas where we have fallen short. But we need to do it out of hearts of genuine love for the Church and respect for the authorities therein. It is easy to point fingers from the outside looking in, but thatâs not how change occurs. We need to come at this with an attitude of humility and not fall prey to the temptation to criticize or become defensive. It would be better for you to put down this book right now and stop reading than for it to become a tool for feeding pride and causing division. Nothing will destroy the Church faster than that kind of attitude.
We have all had hurts in the Church because it is filled with people who arenât perfect. But the challenge is to handle them well. Sometimes we can use those hurts as an excuse to speak against people or undermine peopleâs confidence in leadership. We may think we are looking for support, but we are actually causing people to view others negatively. This is a big issue we must avoid. If you are hurt, itâs important to go to the person who hurt you. If that person doesnât receive your words well, you can tell one other person in order to have them go with you. If they still donât receive what you are saying, then you include leadership at the church. This is what Jesus laid out in Matthew 18 as the process for dealing with sin. Behavior outside of this quickly becomes divisive.
- 3. Have you ever found yourself unintentionally speaking against another believer, causing others to view him or her negatively? What caused you to do that? Without using names and doing further damage, spend some time repenting and deciding to stop doing this going forward.
- 4. In 1 Samuel 24 and 26, David had opportunities to remove King Saul from power and claim the throne he had been promised by God. But he didnât do it. Read 1 Samuel 24:6 for Davidâs response. This attitude of deference toward one God placed in a position of authority seems foreign in todayâs context. Have you ever been guilty of displaying a critical attitude toward people in leadership in the Church? List some of the reasons for behaving that way. Beside each reason, write one way you could have handled the situation differently instead of responding with criticism. Share some examples with one another.
There are times when God hates our worship. That statement was probably hard for many of you to read. It was not written lightly. It is a difficult reality to accept. But we all need to be willing to consider the possibility that our worship is displeasing. Worship is not about our feelings; it is all about God. He is the object of our worship, and His thoughts should be our sole concern when we come together to worship. So often we are busy thinking about what we or others want while neglecting what God wants in His Church! And itâs not as though we have to go around guessing about what God wants. God gave us Scripture to guide us in our pursuit of Him, and we need to start heeding what it says, even when it is difficult to accept.
- 5. Read through Malachi 1:6â14. Notice that the people did not see anything wrong with their offering. Why do you think that is? What about their attitude or their worship was displeasing to God?
- 6. How we behaveâhow much we give of ourselvesâreflects how we view God. If we just show up to services, serve in a ministry or two, and give money to our church but do little else for the Church the rest of the week, what does that really say about how we view God? Should we assume God is pleased? He demands everything and is pleased with nothing less. What weaknesses can you identify in your commitment to the Church? How can you address them?
The reality is that many people try to change what it means to worship God because they donât want to do what He has asked. When you look at your heart and life, do you see someone who is willing to do whatever God asks? Or do you see someone who will be in a church as long as God doesnât ask too much of you? We can come up with so many arguments to defend our way of life or decisions we make in our churches, but what is most important is that we are willing to do whatever He wants.
- 7. As youâve begun reading Letters to the Church and this study guide, do you sense yourself getting defensive or protective of what youâre used to with the church? Anytime you sense yourself getting defensive or coming up with a counterargument, think of that as a red flagâa time to stop and consider, Why am I feeling this way? Am I being open to whatever God wants? Share with your group any statements in this study so far that have made you feel uncomfortable, guilty, or defensive. Be open to learning about what those reactions tell you about yourself and your relationship with God.
These are serious and weighty topics. It is easy to get overwhelmed in the face of what seems like a very daunting task. But we can take comfort in the fact that, ultimately, God has a vision for the Church and He will empower us for the work required to achieve that vision. We need to take ownership of and be devoted to stewarding the Church well, but we can also find rest in knowing that we are simply joining in what He is already doing.
- 8. Read Revelation 3:19â21. Rejoice at the fact that Jesus stood knocking at the door of a church that had a lot of issues. If Jesus came knocking on your churchâs door, what would be some of the responses people would have?
- 9. Write down or share with one another some moments in your life or experiences youâve had when you have seen God do amazing things. Think of times you have had your prayers answered. Think of stories in the Bible that display Godâs faithfulness. Let these things fill you with confidence and hope for what He will do in your church.
We need to live in light of the eternity that is coming very soon. As we have been discussing, this means we need to live with hope and vision for what the Church here on earth can be. But it also means living with a sense of urgency. We need to be willing to lay aside anything that hinders us or any sin that could entangle us in our pursuit (Heb. 12:1). This is so much more important.
- 10. Take some time to pray together. Ask God to give each of you a passion for His Church and a dedication to her health. Pray for a heart of humility and grace as you examine yourself and your church. Pray that God would direct your steps and give you a spirit of boldness and urgency as you pursue this mission.
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SACRED
We have cheapened something sacred, and we must repent.
VIDEO
Share session 2 from the Letters to the Church Video Series with your group. The video should be used at the beginning of your time together to introduce some of the concepts you will be discussing and to provide spiritual direction for the session.
DISCUSSION
Job had a lot of thoughts about God. From his perspective, even as a righteous man, he felt God owed him an explanation and was even potentially wrong in what He had done. For almost the entirety of the book of Job, he and a few other men are going back and forth, talking about their opinions of how God operates. After all this, God finally spoke to Job, and here is Jobâs response in Job 40:4â5: âI am of small account; what shall I answer you? I lay my hand on my mouth. I have spoken once, and I will not answer; twice, but I will proceed no further.â
God continued to rebuke Job for his arrogance, and then Job responded again in Job 42:2â6: âI know that you can do all things, and that no purpose of yours can be thwarted. âWho is this that hides counsel without knowledge?â Therefore I have uttered what I did not understand, things too wonderful for me, which I did not know. âHear, and I will speak; I will question you, and you make it known to me.â I had heard of you by the hearing of the ear, but now my eye sees you; therefore I despise myself, and repent in dust and ashes.â
There was something Job didnât understand until he encountered God. God is sacred. You donât play around with Him. Heâs not your buddy. Heâs not com...