Becoming Who I Am
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Becoming Who I Am

Young Men on Being Gay

  1. English
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  3. Available on iOS & Android
eBook - PDF

Becoming Who I Am

Young Men on Being Gay

About this book

Proud, happy, grateful—gay youth describe their lives in terms that would have seemed surprising only a generation ago. Yet many adults, including parents, seem skeptical about this sea change in perceptions and attitudes. Even in an age of growing tolerance, coming out as gay is supposed to involve a crisis or struggle. This is the kind of thinking, say the young men at the heart of this book, that needs to change.

Becoming Who I Am is an astute exploration of identity and sexuality as told by today's generation of gay young men. Through a series of in-depth interviews with teenagers and men in their early 20s, Ritch Savin-Williams reflects on how the life stories recorded here fulfill the promise of an affirmative, thriving gay identity outlined in his earlier book, The New Gay Teenager. He offers a contemporary perspective on gay lives viewed across key milestones: from dawning awareness of same-sex attraction to first sexual encounters; from the uncertainty and exhilaration of coming out to family and friends to the forming of adult romantic relationships; from insights into what it means to be gay today to musings on what the future may hold. The voices hail from diverse ethnic and socioeconomic backgrounds, but as gay men they share basic experiences in common, conveyed here with honesty, humor, and joy.

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Table of contents

  1. Cover
  2. Title
  3. Copyright
  4. Contents
  5. Preface
  6. Anthony
  7. Tell Our Stories
  8. Why Am I Gay?
  9. First Sexual Memory
  10. First Arousal
  11. Sex Play
  12. First Crush
  13. Who’s That Girl?
  14. Who’s That Boy?
  15. The Joy of Puberty
  16. The Good, the Bad, the Porn
  17. OMG! A Wet Dream
  18. Masturbation
  19. First Girl Sex
  20. First Boy Sex
  21. I’m Gay—Probably, Certainly
  22. Something to Tell You
  23. Hey Mom, Dad, Bro, Sis
  24. Mostly Gay
  25. First Love
  26. He’s My Soul Man
  27. Being Young and Gay in America
  28. Postscript: Anthony’s Return
  29. Appendix: Methods
  30. Notes
  31. Acknowledgments
  32. Index