Why Can't We Talk?
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Why Can't We Talk?

Christian Wisdom on Dialogue as a Habit of the Heart

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eBook - ePub

Why Can't We Talk?

Christian Wisdom on Dialogue as a Habit of the Heart

About this book

Learn How to Contribute More Effectively and Compassionately to
the Conversations that Shape Your Life

"Anything could happen when we start to talk. Nothing will happen if we don't. That alone makes the way of dialogue a journey worth taking."
—from the Epilogue

Think of an issue that makes your blood boil. Now imagine lunch with a friend who is just as passionate about it—on the other side. How can the two of you even broach the issue, let alone hear each other with curiosity and compassion?

The answer begins long before the lunch does, by learning to engage dialogue as a habit of the heart—an inner transformation that the ancient practices of Christian spirituality can address. This highly readable and timely guide to restoring dialogue shows you how to cultivate this transformation while preparing you to approach your adversaries with curiosity, civility and compassion. With dialogue expert John Backman leading the way, you will:

  • Examine the obstacles that keep you from dialogue: black-and-white thinking, a "distraction lifestyle, " the fear of change and negative impressions from others.
  • Explore the strength of character from which healthy dialogue springs—and the work of the soul that cultivates them.
  • Learn practical guidelines for dialogue and how they work in an imperfect world.
  • Encounter anecdotes of dialogue in action, from resolutions of interpersonal conflict to difficult dialogues on some of the most divisive issues of our age.
  • Use provocative questions at the end of each chapter to stimulate group discussion and individual reflection.

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Table of contents

  1. Cover
  2. Title
  3. Contents
  4. Foreword
  5. INTRODUCTION: Talking with the Adversary
  6. 1: When You Have to Move the Elephant
  7. 2: Hearing the Call to Dialogue
  8. 3: Roadblocks on the Way
  9. 4: Engaging the Work of the Soul
  10. 5: Three Mind-Sets for the Journey
  11. 6: Pushing beyond Our Borders
  12. 7: Making Dialogue Happen
  13. 8: Dialogue Unbound
  14. 9: Dialogue in the War Zone
  15. EPILOGUE: A Gentle Challenge to Our Culture
  16. Acknowledgments
  17. APPENDIX: Spiritual Practices for the Way of Dialogue
  18. Notes
  19. Suggestions for Further Reading
  20. About the Authors
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