Making the Right Choice
eBook - ePub

Making the Right Choice

Narratives of Marriage in Sri Lanka

  1. 252 pages
  2. English
  3. ePUB (mobile friendly)
  4. Available on iOS & Android
eBook - ePub

Making the Right Choice

Narratives of Marriage in Sri Lanka

About this book

Making the Right Choice unravels the entangled relationship between marriage, morality, and the desire for modernity as it plays out in the context of middle-class status concerns and aspirations for upward social mobility within the Sinhala-Buddhist community in urban Sri Lanka. By focusing on individual life-histories spanning three generations, the book illuminates how narratives about a gendered self and narratives about modernity are mutually constituted and intrinsically tied to notions of agency. The book uncovers how "becoming modern" in urban Sri Lanka, rather than causing inter-generational conflict, is a collective aspiration realized through the efforts of bringing up educated and independent women capable of making "right" choices. The consequence of this collective investment is a feminist conundrum: agency does not denote the right to choose, but the duty to make the "right" choice; hence agency is experienced not as a sense of "freedom," but rather as a burden of responsibility.

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Table of contents

  1. Cover
  2. Series Page
  3. Title Page
  4. Copyright
  5. Dedication
  6. Contents
  7. Series Foreword by Péter Berta
  8. Introduction
  9. 1. Sinhala Marriage: Then and Now
  10. 2. Making the “Right” Choice
  11. 3. Structuring the “Right” Choice
  12. 4. The Virtuous Self: Failed Marriages
  13. 5. The Valued Self: Singleness
  14. 6. The Vindicated Self: Divorce
  15. Conclusion
  16. Acknowledgments
  17. Notes
  18. References
  19. Index
  20. About the Author