About this book
When it comes to finding love, are you standing in your own way? Daring to Love will help you identify the internal barriers that cause you to sabotage your love life, open yourself up to vulnerability, and build the intimate, lasting relationship you truly desire.
After a breakup, most of us spend a lot of time thinking long and hard about what the other person did to cause it, rather than reflecting on ourselves. It seems self-evident that we want our romantic relationships to work, and that love and long-term commitment are our ultimate goals. But what if our desire for love is actually not as straightforward as our emotions make us believe? What if, instead of pursuing love, we are unconsciously pushing it away?
In Daring to Love, Tamsen and Robert W. Firestone offer techniques based in Robert Firestone's groundbreaking voice therapy—the process of giving spoken word to unhealthy patterns—to help you understand how you are getting in your own way on the quest for true love. Love, the Firestones argue, makes us vulnerable and triggers old defenses we formed in childhood, causing us to sabotage our relationships in myriad subtle—and not-so-subtle—ways. Using the voice therapy strategies in this book, you will be able to identify your own defensive patterns and uncover the destructive messages your critical inner voice is telling you about yourself, your partners, and your relationships.
If you're struggling to cultivate lasting relationships, this book can help you embark on your next romantic journey with more openness and self-knowledge.
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Table of contents
- Introduction
- Foreword
- Chapter 1: Our Defenses and How They Get in the Way of Love
- Chapter 2: The Critical Inner Voice That Supports Our Defenses
- Chapter 3: The Voice Therapy Method
- Chapter 4: When Love Makes Us Feel Vulnerable
- Chapter 5: When Love Disrupts the Fantasy Bond
- Chapter 6: When Love Challenges Our Negative Identity
- Chapter 7: When Love Triggers Guilt
- Chapter 8: When Love Arouses Deep Sadness
- Chapter 9: When Love Stirs Up Our Fear of Loss
- Chapter 10: A Look Ahead
- Acknowledgments
- References
