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About this book
When lawyer, wife and mother Candace Wayne's beloved husband John is diagnosed with Lewy Bodies Dementia, she finally has a name for the small changes she's born witness to for years.
In this essay collection, Candace offers snapshots of the years leading up to John's death, and those that unfold afterward.
Task-oriented and responsible, Candace is efficient in her role as caretaker, learning how to best support a husband who must come to terms with his slow-creeping loss of self-sufficiency. Meanwhile, Candace's daughters have their own experience with their father's changes, and the whole family must bend without breaking to accommodate his loss.
By turns raw and contemplative, Candace's essays depict family road trips, restaurant outings, and doctors appointments, and finally John's last breaths.
Much like Joan Didion's The Year of Magical Thinking, this collection is true to the experience of mourning, taking the reader through the author's real-time experiences before revisiting episodes through the lens of retrospect.
Ultimately, the author's sadness makes way for reluctant optimism as Candace awakens to the bittersweet realization that the person her husband's death caused her to become is a woman she's grateful to know.
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Table of contents
- Cover
- Title Page
- Copyright
- Table of Contents
- Foreword
- Breathing, 2019 November 8 through November 15
- The DiagnosisâDementia with Lewy Bodies, Late 2016
- The Onset: The Pacemaker Defibrillator, 2006
- The Desire to Defeat Aging
- The End of Running and the Beginning of Counseling, 2006â2010
- The Hearing, Pill, Reading, and Mail Issues, 2011â2015
- Something Is Happening Here, 2012â2016
- The Pivotal Year, 2016
- The Fall, Thanksgiving, and Emily Dickinson, 2016
- The End of 2016 through the End of 2018
- The Last Car Trips, 2015 through 2018
- BittersweetâOur Last Date Out Alone, October 2017
- Coffee and Paper Towels, November 2018
- The Final Year, 2019
- Four Beds in Three YearsâThere Is Some Humor Here, November 2020
- Trees and Memories, Oakland, California, April 2021
- Carolâs Birthday Party, Mid-2021
- ContentedâHeck, No! November 2021
- Yes, I Talk to Myself, April 2022
- The Sadness Softens, Late 2022
- The Van Man, December 2022
- Perspective: Back in Oakland, Spring, 2023
- The Poems
- The Afterword
- Acknowledgments