Learning Good Consent
eBook - ePub

Learning Good Consent

On Healthy Relationships and Survivor Support

  1. 140 pages
  2. English
  3. ePUB (mobile friendly)
  4. Available on iOS & Android
eBook - ePub

Learning Good Consent

On Healthy Relationships and Survivor Support

About this book

Cindy Crabb provides a DIY tour of the promise and perils of sexual relationships in Learning Good Consent. Building ethical relationships is one of the most important things we can do, but sex, consent, abuse, and support can get complicated. This collection is an indispensable guide to both preventing sexual violence and helping its survivors to heal. Includes a foreword by Kiyomi Fujikawa and Jenna Peters-Golden."Whether or not you think you need it, whether or not you're a survivor, or dating a survivor, or even having sex, you would probably benefit from reading this book. And the people you choose to be intimate with will probably thank you for making their safety a priority." —Nomy Lamm, Feminist Review " Learning Good Consent … offers powerful, complicated information (instead of shallow questions and uncomplicated answers). This book speaks to those who are unlearning silence as a safety/communication strategy." —Jen Cross, make/shift "Essential reading." —Colin Atrophy Hagendorf, author of Slice Harvester "What this book does is to stress consent: not 'no means no, ' or even 'yes means yes, ' but 'Do you want me to stay here with you?' 'Are you here?' 'I thought I wanted this, but I'm not sure now.' 'Do you think we should take this farther?' I'm moved that this book is here. It matters." —Alison Piepmeier, author of Girl Zines: Making Media, Doing Feminism Cindy Crabb is an author of the influential, feminist, autobiographical 'zine Doris, which has been anthologized into two books: The Encyclopedia of Doris: Stories, Essays and Interviews and Doris: An Anthology 1991–2001. Her essays and analyses of the impact of her writing have appeared in numerous books and magazines, including: The Riot Grrrl Collection; Stay Solid! A Radical Handbook for Youth; Girl Zines: Making Media, Doing Feminism; and We Don't Need Another Wave: Dispatches from the Next Generation of Feminists.

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Table of contents

  1. Acknowledgments and Thanks
  2. Foreword: Water in the Tide
  3. Part 1: Untangling the Knots
  4. Heads Up
  5. Consent Questions
  6. Good Guy
  7. Frozen Inside
  8. Am I Safe?
  9. No Means No
  10. Activism and Survival
  11. The Thing After
  12. Patterns
  13. For My Father…
  14. Denial
  15. Frozen Inside #2
  16. Letter
  17. Part 2: Healing and Transforming Ourselves
  18. Let’s Talk about Consent
  19. Sex
  20. Unsolicited Advice Column
  21. Excerpts from Letters
  22. Awkwardly, I stumbled.
  23. Embodied Consent
  24. Excerpts from Letters
  25. Safe Sex for Survivors
  26. Listening
  27. What is Safety?
  28. The Basics: When You’ve Crossed Someone’s Boundaries
  29. Positive Consent for Dudes Who Get it On with Dudes
  30. Back Safely
  31. Different Needs
  32. Numbers
  33. Desiring Consent
  34. Supporting Someone Who’s Reliving Sexual Assault
  35. Self-Care and Crisis Management
  36. Things to do when you’re having trouble staying present
  37. Consent Workshop
  38. I Am Holding the Match
  39. Bios
  40. Copyright
  41. Support AK Press!