As a naive freshman, Catherine meets Walter, a senior and Big Man on Campus whose sophistication, confidence, and wealth both intimidate and excite her. A three-year absentee courtship follows, during which time the idea of Walt tethers Catherine to safety. She was programmed to marry someone like him, so she ignores the warning signs that they might not be a good match. Hoping to please her mother and seeking refuge from her fraught childhood, she marries and has children with him—but the marriage doesn’t last.
Once divorced, Catherine finds herself in a war with Walt over money, and then over access to her children—and suddenly, she can no longer ignore her childhood trauma. The high stakes of her battle with her ex-husband forge her like steel, finding every vulnerability where she needs to heal. Gradually, she develops a backbone, relinquishes her trauma-induced, people-pleasing ways, and steps into her own power.
Honest and unflinching, The Longest War reminds us that there’s always a way through when we access the courage within ourselves. No matter how painful life’s difficulties, they offer us the opportunity to heal ourselves and evolve into more open, loving, compassionate people. The choice is ours.

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The Longest War
A Psychotherapist's Experience of Divorce, Custody, and Power
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- Cover
- Copyright
- Title Page
- Dedication
- Contents
- Preface:
- Prologue: December 1941
- Chapter 1: March 1972
- Chapter 2: August 1964
- Chapter 3: July 1955
- Chapter 4: September 1964
- Chapter 5: October 1966
- Chapter 6: September 1967
- Chapter 7: December 1962
- Chapter 8: June 1967
- Chapter 9: March 1970
- Chapter 10: February 1968âSeptember 1971
- Chapter 11: April 1972
- Chapter 12: FebruaryâMarch 1972
- Chapter 13: January 1972
- Chapter 14: June 1972
- Chapter 15: July 1972
- Chapter 16: July 1972
- Chapter 17: July 1972
- Chapter 18: September 1972
- Chapter 19: SeptemberâNovember 1972
- Chapter 20: September 1972
- Chapter 21: JuneâJuly 1973
- Chapter 22: August 1973âAugust 1974
- Chapter 23: August 1974
- Chapter 24: AprilâJune 1975
- Chapter 25: November 1975âMarch 1976
- Chapter 26: April 1976
- Chapter 27: AprilâJuly 1976
- Chapter 28: September 1976
- Chapter 29: September 1976
- Chapter 30: January 1977
- Chapter 31: AprilâMay 1977
- Chapter 32: June 1977
- Chapter 33: June 1977
- Chapter 34: July 1977
- Chapter 35: AugustâSeptember 1977
- Chapter 36: September 1977âJanuary 1978
- Chapter 37: MarchâMay 1978
- Chapter 38: April 1978
- Chapter 39: MayâJuly 1978
- Chapter 40: September 1978âSeptember 1979
- Chapter 41: September 1979âMarch 1980
- Chapter 42: March 1980
- Chapter 43: April 1980
- Chapter 44: April 1980âSeptember 1981
- Chapter 45: SeptemberâNovember 1981
- Chapter 46: March 1982
- Chapter 47: March 1982
- Chapter 48: MarchâMay 1982
- Chapter 49: JuneâSeptember 1982
- Chapter 50: June 1982âJune 1991
- Chapter 51: August 1983
- Chapter 52: August 1984âMay 1985
- Chapter 53: September 1987âApril 1989
- Chapter 54: May 1989
- Chapter 55: June 1989âDecember 2005
- Epilogue
- Authorâs Note
- Legal History Appendix
- Endnotes
- Acknowledgments
- About the Author
- Selected Titles from She Writes Press
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