Modern society has a warped sense of the partner-caregiver role, especially for men. Too often, men are ill equipped to handle switching from provider to caregiver, and the “just suck it up” advice so many offer up falls as flat as the Kansas prairie in the face of the reality of life and death.
Ride or Die takes its audience through the intimate conversations and thoughts of a Gen-X latchkey-generation husband—a man who has always had to fend for himself and believed that it’s up to him to solve his own problems—as and after his wife, Jane, succumbs to a terminal disease.
Jarie Bolander wrote this raw, heartfelt tribute to Jane and her handling of her illness to help men and the people who love them through the experience of loss and grief. A frank chronicle of how an intimate relationship can change and grow—even when the people involved feel there is nothing left to give—Ride or Die offers a detailed exploration of the male experience of grief, in the hopes that others suffering through it will not feel so alone.

- 189 pages
- English
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- Cover
- Title Page
- Copyright
- Dedication
- Author’s Note
- Preface
- Chapter 1: It’s Probably Just the Flu
- Chapter 2: A Beautiful Accident
- Chapter 3: I Love It When a Plan Comes Together
- Chapter 4: The Right Stuff
- Chapter 5: We’ll Figure It Out
- Chapter 6: Rules of the Road
- Chapter 7: It’s Like It Won’t Be Me
- Chapter 8: The Only Easy Day Was Yesterday
- Chapter 9: Jane on Fire!
- Chapter 10: Fear and Loathing
- Chapter 11: The Joys and Sorrows of Recovery
- Chapter 12: Reality Bites
- Chapter 13: Family Field Trip to the Farm
- Chapter 14: My Kingdom for a Donor
- Chapter 15: Too Much
- Chapter 16: Southern Hospitality
- Chapter 17: Pharmacology 101
- Chapter 18: Engraftment!
- Chapter 19: Booty Fit for a Pirate
- Chapter 20: Hurry Up and Wait
- Chapter 21: BMT Mixed Tape
- Chapter 22: Update a Year After Diagnosis
- Chapter 23: A Gift from Patty
- Chapter 24: A Little Help from My Friends
- Chapter 25: The Last Waltz
- Chapter 26: If I Know What Love Is, It’s Because of You
- Chapter 27: In the Surf
- Chapter 28: Celebration of Life
- Chapter 29: The Gift
- Epilogue
- Acknowledgments
- About the Author
- Selected Titles from SparkPress
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