2023 Living Now Book Awards Bronze Medal Winner for Mature Living/Caregiving
“I found it unique and inspiring that the couple worked hard to keep their love alive and their sex life active while facing serious health challenges. . . . What a highly inspiring and impactful book!” —Readers’ Favorite, 5-star review
“Spirituality is a central theme throughout the memoir. . . . A moving story of love, loss, illness, and the beauty that persists.” —Kirkus Reviews
Suzanne’s story begins with a phone call from her husband, Michael, telling her he has collapsed on the job. They soon learn he has multiple sclerosis. Despite the negative patterns threatening their marriage, she is determined to handle the caregiving tasks suddenly thrust upon her. Through love, psychological insights, and spiritual inquiry, she cultivates her abilities—and gains the courage to confront a medical system that often saves her husband but at other times threatens his life. As time progresses, Michael undergoes many hospitalizations; he also makes miraculous recoveries that allow adventure back into their lives, including a numinous experience with dragonflies. When Suzanne faces her own medical crisis, their world is shaken once again—but throughout it all, love is their bond, one even death cannot sever.
In Watching for Dragonflies, Suzanne reaches out to other caregivers and anyone who has experienced a life-changing crisis, inviting them to explore the many avenues of growth and transformation that uninvited change can bring. Often poignant, at times funny, and always riveting, Watching for Dragonflies will bring comfort—and inspiration—to readers as they navigate their own transformative journey.

- 305 pages
- English
- ePUB (mobile friendly)
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Social SciencesTable of contents
- Cover
- Title Page
- Copyright
- Epigraph
- Introduction
- Chapter 1. Crisis
- Chapter 2. End of a Dream?
- Chapter 3. Change
- Chapter 4. Uncertainty
- Chapter 5. Symptoms
- Chapter 6. Loss
- Chapter 7. Lessons
- Chapter 8. How, Not If
- Chapter 9. Perspective
- Chapter 10. Accommodation
- Chapter 11. Time Out
- Chapter 12. Serpent
- Chapter 13. New Year
- Chapter 14. Curves
- Chapter 15. Freedom
- Chapter 16. Drugs
- Chapter 17. Adventure
- Chapter 18. Dragonflies
- Chapter 19. Omens and Endings
- Chapter 20. Endings
- Chapter 21. Loss and Rehabilitation
- Chapter 22. Mishaps and Cruising
- Chapter 23. Drugs and Desert
- Chapter 24. Salvation and Shock
- Chapter 25. Reaching Out and In
- Chapter 26. Healing
- Chapter 27. Chemo
- Chapter 28. Hassles and Errors
- Chapter 29. Life Goes On
- Chapter 30. Slippery Slope
- Chapter 31. Roller-Coaster Ride
- Chapter 32. The Last Resort
- Chapter 33. Hospital Struggles
- Chapter 34. Acute Challenges
- Chapter 35. Aspirations of Immortality
- Chapter 36. Errors and the ER
- Chapter 37. Finalities
- Chapter 38. New Year’s Day
- Chapter 39. Synchronicities
- Chapter 40. Grief
- Chapter 41. Life after Death
- Acknowledgments
- About the Author
- Selected Titles from She Writes Press
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