The Price of Nice
eBook - ePub

The Price of Nice

Why Comfort Keeps Us Stuck—and 4 Actions for Real Change

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eBook - ePub

The Price of Nice

Why Comfort Keeps Us Stuck—and 4 Actions for Real Change

About this book

Winner of the 2025 North American Book Award Bronze Medal for Leadership and Management, and selected by Porchlight Book Company as one of the Best Business Books of 2025.

"What's wrong with nice?!" A simple and powerful question. It demands we interrogate the unspoken rules that shape our lives, often without our realizing it.


"It costs nothing to be nice!" What a travesty of logic. Niceness is not free—it comes at a steep price. It's a velvet glove over an iron fist, stifling dissent, prioritizing comfort over progress, and conditioning us to accept the status quo. Niceness is one of the most insidious social constructs, keeping us compliant, silent, and complicit in inequity. If we don't question it, we stay exactly where power wants us—agreeable, easy to manage, and stuck.

The Price of Nice is about breaking free. Amira Barger deconstructs our cultural obsession with niceness, exposes its hidden costs, and offers a practical framework for real change. With sharp analysis and personal insight, she helps readers disrupt the narratives that keep them stuck and reclaim their power.

Guided by four dimensions rooted in social psychology—think, feel, do, revisit—this book offers immediate, adaptable practices for creating change. Because breaking free isn't only what you know—it's what you do next.

If you're tired of "good enough," this book will challenge you, change you, and call you to more.

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Table of contents

  1. Cover
  2. Title Page
  3. Copyright Page
  4. Dedication
  5. Contents
  6. Preface
  7. Introduction: What’s Wrong with Nice?!
  8. Part I: Think
  9. Part II: Feel
  10. Part III: Do
  11. Part IV: Revisit
  12. Conclusion: Cost Analysis
  13. Notes
  14. Further Reading
  15. Daily Reflection Checklist
  16. Acknowledgments
  17. Index
  18. About the Author