Dying Ways
A Palliative Nurse's Tales Of Life, Death, And What Matters Most
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Dying Ways
A Palliative Nurse's Tales Of Life, Death, And What Matters Most
About this book
Learn how to cope with death by facing real stories of loss.
"I am astounded at how much Dying Ways meant to me. I come from a traditional conservative family and death was only discussed in hushed tones. This book made me realize that death should not be an off-topic issue but rather something that must be faced in a loving and forthright manner. I feel that I have been empowered by this book."
In the end, there is only the story we leave behind.
For fifty-six years, palliative nurse Dale Heim has been a keeper of stories—whispered confessions, defiant last wishes, and unexpected moments of grace at life's closing. Face the comedy, tragedy, beauty, and despair of death through these true stories.
In Dying Ways, she shares raw, tender stories from the frontlines of mortality: A tantric teacher who swims with dolphins as her final act of freedom; A grandmother dancing with butterfly tattoos over mastectomy scars; A WWII survivor serenaded by the Hallelujah Chorus as she takes her last breath; and many more.
With unflinching honesty and deep compassion, Dale reveals how death reshapes the living—offering lessons in forgiveness, acceptance, and the courage to live fully, even as the light fades. From the chaos of trauma wards to quiet hospice rooms, she shows that dying is not an end but a poignant, human art. That there is such a thing as a good death, and ways to avoid a bad one.
This is an essential companion for caregivers, grievers, and anyone who fears mortality's shadow. Because as Dale reminds us:
"Death is only ugly if we allow it to be—but it can be the most beautiful truth we ever live."Â
Includes "Need Support?" section with books, music, and resources for continuing the journey.
"I recently lost my mother and was with her in her last moments, so seeing this book, I went on a journey to find out how the process was for others. I found the book to be helpful, cathartic, and informative. I highly recommend this book!"
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Table of contents
- 1. Dedication
- 2. A Note to the Reader
- 3. Foreword
- 4. Part 1
- 5. The Art Of Dying
- 6. La Petite Mort
- 7. The Healing Purr
- 8. The Ghost in My Dreams
- 9. The Girl with the Butterfly Tattoo
- 10. The Last Laugh
- 11. Part 2
- 12. A Hero's Passage
- 13. The Worst Wish
- 14. Sitting Under the Tree
- 15. There Are No Words
- 16. Charlotte’s Butterflies
- 17. The Things We Cannot Buy
- 18. The Stories We Don’t Tell
- 19. Part 3
- 20. Salt Water Salvation
- 21. A Victory For Humanity
- 22. A Saxophone At My Eulogy
- 23. To Die in Style
- 24. Till Death Do Us Part
- 25. A Gentle Shower
- 26. The Hallelujah Chorus
- 27. Part 4
- 28. Where Spirits Walk
- 29. The Gift of Sight
- 30. Vigil of the Schnauzers
- 31. When Pain Outlives the Person
- 32. Five Days, Twenty-One Grams
- 33. The Death-Defeating Mantra
- 34. The Woman Who Saved Me
- 35. Defeating The Last Enemy
- 36. Need support?