Once Upon a Stranger
eBook - ePub

Once Upon a Stranger

The Science of How “Small” Talk Can Add Up to a Big Life

  1. 296 pages
  2. English
  3. ePUB (mobile friendly)
  4. Available on iOS & Android
eBook - ePub

Once Upon a Stranger

The Science of How “Small” Talk Can Add Up to a Big Life

About this book

"If you’ve ever avoided talking to strangers, this book might change your mind about giving them their space. And that, as Gillian so perfectly explains, might change everything." —Angela Duckworth, NEW YORK TIMES bestselling author of GRIT

Discover how making connections with strangers leads to positive shifts in our everyday lives, from preeminent researcher and professor of the psychology of kindness Dr. Gillian Sandstrom.

Do you ever feel lonely, even in a crowd? Do you feel anxious or worried about what others think of you, or struggle to make friends? You are not alone. But the truth is, opportunities for positive connection and community are all around you.

In this groundbreaking book, Dr. Gillian Sandstrom reveals that by talking to strangers, we can unlock more joy, curiosity, and goodwill every day. In an age when loneliness is a social health crisis and harmful behaviors like groupthink increase our perception of distance and polarization, this transformational guide explains the benefits of stretching our perceived limits and connecting with our fellow humans, including:

  • Increased happiness and wellbeing
  • Improved social skills and self-esteem
  • Reduced anxiety and social biases
  • Expanded connections and social circles

Combining powerful scientific findings with stories from her own life, Dr. Sandstrom offers us a new vision of a life well lived, when we have the courage to reach out and simply say, “hello.”

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Information

Publisher
HarperOne
Year
2026
eBook ISBN
9780063385443

Table of contents

  1. Dedication
  2. Contents
  3. Introduction
  4. Chapter 1: Why Talking to Strangers Is Hard
  5. Chapter 2: No Strings Attached
  6. Chapter 3: Puzzle Pieces
  7. Chapter 4: Sowing Seeds
  8. Chapter 5: Feeling Seen and Seeing Together
  9. Chapter 6: Skeleton Key
  10. Chapter 7: The Kindness of Strangers
  11. Conclusion
  12. Acknowledgments
  13. Appendix: How to Talk to Strangers
  14. Notes
  15. Resources
  16. About the Author
  17. Copyright
  18. About the Publisher

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