
The Safety Connection Workbook
Polyvagal Theory Tools for PTSD and Complex Trauma
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About this book
Break Free From Trauma's Grip and Rebuild Your Sense of Safety Through Evidence-Based Nervous System Regulation
Living with PTSD or complex trauma can feel like being trapped in a body that no longer feels safe. Your nervous system stays on high alert, making it difficult to relax, connect with others, or feel at peace in your own skin.
The Safety Connection Workbook offers a revolutionary approach to trauma healing through polyvagal theory - the science of how your nervous system responds to safety and threat. This comprehensive workbook provides practical, body-based tools that help you regulate your nervous system without having to relive traumatic memories.
What you'll find inside:
Understanding your nervous system's three key states and how trauma affects each one
15 chapters of step-by-step exercises to restore your window of tolerance
Techniques to calm hypervigilance, anxiety, and emotional overwhelm
Tools to reconnect with your body when dissociation or numbness takes over
Breathing exercises specifically designed for trauma survivors
Movement practices that discharge stored activation safely
Strategies to rebuild trust in relationships and social connections
Daily regulation plans you can sustain long-term
This trauma-informed workbook is designed for:
PTSD and complex trauma survivors seeking healing
Those who feel disconnected from their bodies after trauma
People struggling with chronic anxiety, hypervigilance, or emotional numbness
Anyone wanting body-based trauma recovery approaches
Individuals working with therapists who want additional self-help tools
Gentle, effective, and grounded in cutting-edge trauma research. Each exercise is carefully designed to build safety and regulation without overwhelming your system. You'll learn to work with your nervous system rather than against it.
Stop surviving and start healing. Reclaim your sense of safety today.
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Table of contents
- The Safety Connection Workbook
- Table of Contents
- Introduction: Your Path to Nervous System Recovery
- Chapter 1: The Polyvagal Foundation
- Part A: Before Understanding Polyvagal Theory Write a brief description of how you used to think abo
- Part B: Current Understanding Now rewrite your experience using nervous system language:
- Part C: Moving Forward Consider how this knowledge might influence your healing journey:
- Chapter 2: Your Window of Tolerance
- Part A: Identifying Your Optimal Zone
- Part B: Recognizing Hyperarousal
- Part C: Recognizing Hypoarousal
- Chapter 3: PTSD and Complex Trauma Through a Polyvagal Lens
- Part A: Classic PTSD Symptoms
- Part B: Additional Complex PTSD Symptoms
- Part B: Nervous System Pattern Recognition For each life phase, identify which nervous system respon
- Part C: Pattern Recognition
- Part A: Current Activation Patterns
- Part B: Relationship Patterns
- Part C: Protective Strategies
- Part B: Current Resources
- Part C: Internal Resources
- Part D: Resource Building Plan
- Chapter 4: Building Safety Awareness
- Part A: Home Environment Assessment
- Part B: Work Environment Assessment
- Part C: Community/Social Environment Assessment
- Part D: Safety Enhancement Planning
- Part A: Technique Development
- Part B: Situation-Specific Planning
- Part C: Daily Integration Plan
- Part A: Personal Warning Signs
- Part B: Immediate Response Plan
- Part C: Environmental Safety Plans
- Part D: Recovery and Integration
- Part E: Regular Safety Plan Review
- Chapter 5: Awakening Your Social Engagement System
- Part A: Awareness Phase (5 minutes)
- Step 1: Facial Check-In Place your hands gently on your face, covering your eyes, cheeks, and jaw. N
- Step 2: Gentle Touch Using your fingertips, gently massage:
- Part B: Mobility Phase (10 minutes)
- Step 3: Eye Expressions
- Step 4: Mouth and Jaw Movements
- Step 5: Full Face Integration
- Part C: Expression Exploration (5 minutes)
- Step 6: Authentic Expression
- Part A: Basic Humming Practice
- Part B: Vocal Sounds for Different States
- Part C: Group Vocal Practices
- Part A: Basic Eye Mobility
- Part B: Social Eye Contact Practice
- Part C: Environmental Visual Practice
- Step 1: Assess Your Current Comfort Level Rate your comfort with these activities (1 = very uncomfor
- Step 2: Create Challenge Levels
- Step 3: Create Your Physical Cards
- Step 4: Practice Guidelines
- Part A: Current Connection Assessment
- Part B: Connection Style Assessment
- Part C: Expansion Planning
- Part D: Monthly Review Process
- Chapter 6: Breath and Vagal Tone Regulation
- Part A: Assessing Your Current State
- Part B: Activating Breath Practices
- Part C: Calming Breath Practices
- Part D: Maintenance Breathing
- Part E: Practice Selection Guide
- Part A: Personal Pattern Assessment
- Part B: Prescription Development
- Part C: Weekly Practice Schedule
- Part D: Progress Tracking and Adjustment
- Chapter 7: Developing Somatic Awareness
- Part A: Resource Discovery
- Part B: Resource Strengthening
- Part C: Resource Integration
- Chapter 8: Movement and Nervous System Healing
- Part A: Movement Assessment
- Part B: Creating Your Movement Menu
- Part C: Situational Movement Prescriptions
- Part D: Weekly Movement Planning
- Part E: Movement Practice Tracking
- Chapter 9: Working with Hypervigilance and Anxiety
- Part A: Immediate Regulation Tools (for acute anxiety)
- Part B: Cognitive Regulation Tools
- Part C: Environmental Regulation Tools
- Part D: Social Regulation Tools
- Part E: Personal Anxiety Regulation Plan
- Step 3: ____________________________________
- Step 4: ____________________________________
- Part A: Recognizing Activation Energy
- Part B: Physical Channeling Exercises
- Part C: Mental Channeling Exercises
- Part D: Social/Community Channeling
- Part E: Personal Channeling Plan
- Day chosen: _______
- Step 1 - Worry Collection (throughout the day): When worries arise outside your window:
- Step 2 - Worry Processing (during your window):
- Step 3 - Worry Closure:
- Chapter 10: Healing Freeze and Dissociation
- Step 1: Environmental Orientation Without moving, notice:
- Step 2: Physical Position Awareness Still without moving, notice:
- Step 3: Micro-Movements Make very small, slow movements:
- Step 4: Tactile Reconnection Use gentle touch to reconnect with your body:
- Step 5: Sensory Activation Engage your senses more actively:
- Step 6: Emotional Check-In Gently check in with your emotional state:
- Step 7: Social Reconnection (if others are available) If there are safe people around:
- Step 8: Integration Take a moment to notice:
- Chapter 11: Reclaiming Safety in Relationships
- Part A: Identifying Your Boundary Needs
- Part B: Creating Your Boundary Scripts
- Part C: Boundary Practice Plan
- Part A: Co-Regulation Assessment
- Part B: Co-Regulation Experiments
- Part C: Building Co-Regulation Skills
- Part A: Trust Assessment
- Part B: Gradual Exposure Plan
- Part C: Trust Building Practice Log
- Part A: Current Network Assessment
- Part B: Network Analysis
- Part C: Network Development Plan
- Chapter 12: Post-Traumatic Growth and Integration
- Step 2: Trauma's Impact on Values (5 minutes) For each of your top 5 values, reflect:
- Step 3: Purpose Exploration (10 minutes) Complete these sentences:
- Part 1: Gifts from Your Experience (10 minutes) Reflect on these questions:
- Story coherence: When you notice trauma reactions, gently remind yourself of your larger story and g
- Chapter Summary
- Chapter 13: Creating Your Personal Regulation Plan
- Step 1: Current Life Assessment (15 minutes)
- Step 2: Practice Selection (20 minutes)
- Step 3: Schedule Integration (10 minutes)
- Step 4: Obstacle Planning (10 minutes)
- Part 1: Crisis Recognition (10 minutes)
- Part 2: Protocol Development (15 minutes)
- Part 3: Crisis Contacts (10 minutes)
- Part 4: Crisis Card Creation (5 minutes)
- Step 1: Choose Your Metrics (10 minutes)
- Step 2: Create Simple Rating Scales (5 minutes)
- Step 3: Design Your Tracking Method (5 minutes)
- Step 4: Set Review Intentions (5 minutes)
- Chapter 14: Advanced Practices and Troubleshooting
- Step 1: Problem Identification (10 minutes)
- Step 2: Pattern Analysis (10 minutes)
- Step 3: Solution Pathways (10 minutes)
- Step 4: Action Planning
- Step 1: Current Circumstances Assessment (10 minutes)
- Step 2: Practice Inventory Review (10 minutes)
- Step 3: Adaptation Planning (10 minutes)
- Step 4: Implementation Strategy
- Step 1: Challenge Documentation (15 minutes)
- Step 2: Safety Assessment (5 minutes)
- Step 3: Solution Development (10 minutes)
- Step 4: Action Planning (5 minutes)
- Chapter 15: Living from a Regulated Nervous System
- Step 1: Baseline Assessment (10 minutes)
- Step 2: Early Warning System Development (10 minutes)
- Step 3: Maintenance Strategy Development (15 minutes)
- Step 4: Support System Maintenance (5 minutes)
- Step 1: Sharing Readiness Assessment (10 minutes)
- Step 2: Sharing Opportunities Exploration (10 minutes)
- Step 3: Boundary and Capacity Planning (10 minutes)
- Step 4: Action Planning (5 minutes)
- Step 1: Current Practice Assessment (10 minutes)
- Step 2: Growth Edge Identification (5 minutes)
- Step 3: Goal Setting (10 minutes)
- Step 1: Progress Inventory (15 minutes)
- Step 2: Obstacle Recognition (5 minutes)
- Step 3: Gratitude and Appreciation (10 minutes)
- Step 4: Celebration Planning (5 minutes)
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