
Calm the Chaos
A Parent's Polyvagal Guide to Neurodivergent Parenting
- English
- ePUB (mobile friendly)
- Available on iOS & Android
About this book
Transform daily meltdowns into moments of connection with this groundbreaking polyvagal approach to neurodivergent parenting.
Does your ADHD or autistic child struggle with emotional regulation, sensory overwhelm, and behavioral challenges that traditional parenting methods can't address? This comprehensive guide reveals how understanding your child's nervous system changes everything.
Discover the science-backed strategies that actually work:
Window of tolerance techniques for preventing meltdowns before they start
Co-regulation methods that calm both parent and child nervous systems
Sensory-smart home modifications that support daily functioning
Age-specific regulation activities from toddlers to teenagers
School advocacy tools for IEP and 504 plan accommodations
Crisis management protocols for active dysregulation moments
What makes this different: Unlike punishment-based approaches, this book teaches you to read your child's nervous system signals and respond with targeted support that builds long-term resilience. You'll learn why behavior is communication and how to create family environments where neurodivergent children thrive.
Inside you'll find:
20 detailed chapters covering every aspect of nervous system support
Real family case studies showing transformation in action
Visual guides and practical tools for immediate implementation
Sibling support strategies for whole-family wellness
Teen-specific approaches for building independence with support
Stop fighting against your child's neurobiology and start working with it. This isn't about fixing your child—it's about understanding how their unique nervous system works and providing the support they need to succeed.
Perfect for parents, caregivers, educators, and therapists supporting neurodivergent children ages 3-18.
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Table of contents
- Calm the Chaos
- Table of Contents
- Chapter 1: The Neurodivergent Nervous System:
- Chapter 2: Recognizing Your Child's Window of Tolerance
- Chapter 3: Sensory Processing Through a Polyvagal Lens
- Chapter 4: The Parent-Child Co-Regulation Dance
- Chapter 5: Morning Routines That Set the Nervous System for Success
- Chapter 6: School Transitions and Nervous System Preparation
- Chapter 7: Homework Without the Meltdown
- Chapter 8: Bedtime Routines for Nervous System Calming
- Chapter 9: Preventing Meltdowns
- Chapter 10: During the Storm: Co-Regulation in Crisis
- Chapter 11: Post-Meltdown Nervous System Reset
- Chapter 12: Building Resilience Over Time
- Chapter 13: Creating a Sensory-Smart Home Environment
- Chapter 14: Supporting Digital Nervous System Health
- Chapter 15: Preparing the Nervous System for Connection
- Chapter 16: Parent Self-Care: Your Nervous System Matters Too
- Chapter 17: Sibling Support and Family Co-Regulation
- Chapter 18: Working with Schools and Therapists
- Chapter 19: Teen Years: Autonomy and Nervous System Support
- Chapter 20: Age-Specific Regulation Activities and Games
- References