The Strategic Use of Fidelity in Romantic Relationships
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The Strategic Use of Fidelity in Romantic Relationships

Defensive Monogamy and Self-Protection

  1. 297 pages
  2. English
  3. PDF
  4. Available on iOS & Android
eBook - PDF

The Strategic Use of Fidelity in Romantic Relationships

Defensive Monogamy and Self-Protection

About this book

This book offers a bold reinterpretation of monogamy, framing it not as a reflection of romantic desire but as a calculated effort to secure exclusivity from a partner.
Despite widespread dissatisfaction, infidelity, and high divorce rates, monogamy remains the dominant relationship model. Rather than attributing this persistence to irrationality or tradition, James K. Beggan explores monogamy as a defensive practice-a strategic agreement in which individuals seek commitment primarily to ensure their partner's fidelity. Rooted in fear of loss, jealousy, and emotional insecurity, this book reveals how monogamy often functions as a protective mechanism rather than a mutual aspiration. People overestimate their ability-or willingness-to uphold monogamous commitments, viewing them less as personal convictions and more as tools for managing risk. Drawing on interdisciplinary research across behavioral economics, psychology, sociology, and decision science, this book reconceptualizes monogamy as a form of social bargaining. By shifting the focus from morality to strategy, it challenges the ideal of romantic exclusivity and raises a provocative question: Are declarations of loyalty expressions of love, or are they evidence of doubt dressed as devotion?

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Table of contents

  1. Cover
  2. Half Title
  3. Title Page
  4. Copyright Page
  5. Contents
  6. Introduction
  7. Part I: The Holy Grail of Monogamy
  8. Chapter 1: The Meaning of Monogamy
  9. Chapter 2: The Monogamy Game
  10. Chapter 3: Marriage and Monogamy
  11. Chapter 4: Rationalizing Monogamy
  12. Chapter 5: Performative Monogamy
  13. Part II: The Downside of Monogamy
  14. Chapter 6: Committing to Defensive Monogamy
  15. Chapter 7: Commitment in Relationships
  16. Part III: Rejecting Monogamy and Matrimony
  17. Chapter 8: Infidelity
  18. Chapter 9: Divorce and Consensual Nonmonogamy
  19. Conclusion
  20. References
  21. Index
  22. About the Author